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We both have almost the same schedule at the gym, early in the morning before work. We are both the non-socializing kinds and want to maximize our time at the gym (both walk fast between machines etc. ); very mechanical, without much of eye contact with anyone. We are both toned; he is more muscular (but not really 'big muscle') and a few year older than me.

We have both seen each other naked at the showers (open showers) multiple times. His dick is a little bigger than mine and you cannot not notice.

Now, for the last few weeks, he makes pointed eye contact (albeit just for a second but its quite intense) and like clockwork he will always come to the lockers (not to take a shower) a few minutes after he sees me walking to the lockers. I think he takes a protein shakes between workouts, though I am not sure.

I know when guys 'check me' out at the showers; he never does that.

I am little confused if I am over analyzing this.
 

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Next time he gives you that look tell him "If you come to the showers with me, I'll be more than happy to drop the soap".
 

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I wouldn't analize it too much. I think he is just curious to make a new gym friend since both of you have a similar gym routine. It is human behaviour to gravitate to people we have something in common. Next time you are both in the lockerroom start up a quick conversation and see where it goes. As you mentioned, both of you are the non socializing type and both seem to want to socialize with each other, but waiting for the other to make the first move. Me the move yourself...it won't hurt anything.
 

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Ring27...

You seem to be noticing an awful lot about this guy...from how his actions are like yours, comparing your body to his, and the comparison of his dick to yours. You even have compared how fast he moves compared to you. All that you have said makes me think that you are somewhat curious (if not very interested??
:confused:) about this guy and actually want to make contact with him.

It seems that he has picked up on your interest and is not bothered by it. It just could be that he is interested or curious, also. So why not say hello...exchange words about how you have noticed his diligent workouts and dedication? Who knows, it may turn out that you will gain a good workout buddy.

And, what happens next...well...:shrug: Good Luck..
 
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Not clear. Are you interested in him? Or do you think he is interested in you? You have 100% straight marked so not clear. Even if you think you might hit it iof as friends I think you should say something now. Odd enough, the longer you wait the more routine it is not to speak