Guy cum faster with bigger cocks than me? What to do.

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

I’m jealous of guys that have big cocks attached to themselves and so I’m putting this in this thread

So people keep telling me don’t worry, your size (5.75x4.3) is OK enough and size isn’t that big of a deal.

Well lately I’ve been chatting with a lot of big guys in the chat rooms (because I myself am only attracted to big cocks…and I identify as a hung guy inside however, but sadly god gave me an average cock) and i’m finding that yes hung guys will chat with average guys. They are somewhat interested in average cocks however they are more interested in larger cocks and in general they come faster when having sex with a larger cocks. Also, sometimes they chat with smaller guys such as myself mainly because it makes them more aware of how big they are and that turns them on. Also, if there is a larger cock available to talk to them, they will totally ditch me to talk to them.

So what am I supposed to live with this information? How am I supposed to have a sex life where men cum faster because I am hung when the dick attached to me is only average? My body isn’t me and I dont know how to show people who I really am inside (that is a hung dom)

 

[bluebunny]

It happens often that we attract the like-minded... You're attracted only to big cocks, the ones you attract to you are too. The question is not your about own cock size, it's why are you attracted exclusively to big cocks?

 

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

It happens often that we attract the like-minded... You're attracted only to big cocks, the ones you attract to you are too. The question is not your about own cock size, it's why are you attracted exclusively to big cocks?

Because they look hotter and they can fuck me deeper and harder and I like a challenge

Is it so hard to find a hung guy that likes average cocks the same amount that I like big?

 

[boycut92]

I’m jealous of guys that have big cocks attached to themselves and so I’m putting this in this thread

So people keep telling me don’t worry, your size (5.75x4.3) is OK enough and size isn’t that big of a deal.

Well lately I’ve been chatting with a lot of big guys in the chat rooms (because I myself am only attracted to big cocks…and I identify as a hung guy inside however, but sadly god gave me an average cock) and i’m finding that yes hung guys will chat with average guys. They are somewhat interested in average cocks however they are more interested in larger cocks and in general they come faster when having sex with a larger cocks. Also, sometimes they chat with smaller guys such as myself mainly because it makes them more aware of how big they are and that turns them on. Also, if there is a larger cock available to talk to them, they will totally ditch me to talk to them.

So what am I supposed to live with this information? How am I supposed to have a sex life where men cum faster because I am hung when the dick attached to me is only average? My body isn’t me and I dont know how to show people who I really am inside (that is a hung dom)

I would dispute the claim that men cum faster with bigger cocks. Being interested in the dick size topic, you naturally attract other guys who think alike (in fact, you said you actively look for hung guys interested in this topic), so probably the guys you're talking to get off on big cocks and thus cum faster with hung guys. But that's not a representation of the whole world.
The impression I'm left with is that you are into big cocks and then you get more turned on by big cocks than smaller ones, so you're projecting it into the rest of the world. But we're not all the same.

I'm also curious about what you mean by "cum faster". Who's trying to cum faster? Usually people want to make sex last longer, I don't see why cumming faster would be a desired thing.

If by saying big dicks make man cum faster you mean that big dicks cause more pleasure, I would dispute that as well. Speaking from experience, even being attracted to big dicks, my best sexual experiences weren't with the biggest cocks I've seen. A bigger cock is not automatically better than a smaller one just because of the size. Of course, someone who is attracted to big cocks tends to be more turned on by a big one, but it doesn't mean the sex will be better or they will reach orgasm faster (again, if cumming fast is what you're into, I personally am more interested in the intensity of the orgasm).

I think it's similar to looks or physical attractiveness. Like most gays, I'm attracted to lean muscular guys. If I go to bed with a guy like that, it will immediately turn me on the moment he takes his clothes off. But that doesn't mean he will be good in bed, that we will have chemistry, that he will like to do the things I like and vice versa. The sex will not be better just because the guy looks attractive to me. It's a good start, of course, it will turn me on from the beginning, but there's a lot more to sex than that. It is the same with dick size.

I'm not big on giving advice, but since you asked how to live with this information, I think you need to change perspective. I think that the notion of you being a hung dom is challenging if you're not hung. You could play that part with guys that have smaller dicks than you if they're into it (my dick is average size and have done it), but you said you're not attracted to small dicks. If you're into hung guys, you need to know your dynamic with them won't revolve around you being the hung one.
Similarly to you, I reached adulthood believing my cock would be big but it isn't, and I'm also attracted (but not exclusively) to big cocks. The way I found to deal with the fact my cock is not as big as I expected it was by discovering that I can be turned on by size difference even when the other guy is bigger. And the fun in being average is that you can experiment both sides of it: being the bigger one and being the smaller one. And I find joy in both: praising and uplifting guys with big cocks I will never have, and giving small dick guys the opportunity to do the same to me.

At the end of the day, getting your dick hard and making other dicks hard is all that matters. Regardless of the size of these dicks.

 

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

I would dispute the claim that men cum faster with bigger cocks. Being interested in the dick size topic, you naturally attract other guys who think alike (in fact, you said you actively look for hung guys interested in this topic), so probably the guys you're talking to get off on big cocks and thus cum faster with hung guys. But that's not a representation of the whole world.
The impression I'm left with is that you are into big cocks and then you get more turned on by big cocks than smaller ones, so you're projecting it into the rest of the world. But we're not all the same.

I'm also curious about what you mean by "cum faster". Who's trying to cum faster? Usually people want to make sex last longer, I don't see why cumming faster would be a desired thing.

If by saying big dicks make man cum faster you mean that big dicks cause more pleasure, I would dispute that as well. Speaking from experience, even being attracted to big dicks, my best sexual experiences weren't with the biggest cocks I've seen. A bigger cock is not automatically better than a smaller one just because of the size. Of course, someone who is attracted to big cocks tends to be more turned on by a big one, but it doesn't mean the sex will be better or they will reach orgasm faster (again, if cumming fast is what you're into, I personally am more interested in the intensity of the orgasm).

I think it's similar to looks or physical attractiveness. Like most gays, I'm attracted to lean muscular guys. If I go to bed with a guy like that, it will immediately turn me on the moment he takes his clothes off. But that doesn't mean he will be good in bed, that we will have chemistry, that he will like to do the things I like and vice versa. The sex will not be better just because the guy looks attractive to me. It's a good start, of course, it will turn me on from the beginning, but there's a lot more to sex than that. It is the same with dick size.

I'm not big on giving advice, but since you asked how to live with this information, I think you need to change perspective. I think that the notion of you being a hung dom is challenging if you're not hung. You could play that part with guys that have smaller dicks than you if they're into it (my dick is average size and have done it), but you said you're not attracted to small dicks. If you're into hung guys, you need to know your dynamic with them won't revolve around you being the hung one.
Similarly to you, I reached adulthood believing my cock would be big but it isn't, and I'm also attracted (but not exclusively) to big cocks. The way I found to deal with the fact my cock is not as big as I expected it was by discovering that I can be turned on by size difference even when the other guy is bigger. And the fun in being average is that you can experiment both sides of it: being the bigger one and being the smaller one. And I find joy in both: praising and uplifting guys with big cocks I will never have, and giving small dick guys the opportunity to do the same to me.

At the end of the day, getting your dick hard and making other dicks hard is all that matters. Regardless of the size of these dicks.

thank you. i'm processing

 

[Usacawk]

get some kratom viva zen have them drink that and they won’t cum for hours

 

[ANYHONYK]

get some kratom viva zen have them drink that and they won’t cum for hours

Really?

 

[chrisrobin]

I’m jealous of guys that have big cocks attached to themselves and so I’m putting this in this thread

So people keep telling me don’t worry, your size (5.75x4.3) is OK enough and size isn’t that big of a deal.

Well lately I’ve been chatting with a lot of big guys in the chat rooms (because I myself am only attracted to big cocks…and I identify as a hung guy inside however, but sadly god gave me an average cock) and i’m finding that yes hung guys will chat with average guys. They are somewhat interested in average cocks however they are more interested in larger cocks and in general they come faster when having sex with a larger cocks. Also, sometimes they chat with smaller guys such as myself mainly because it makes them more aware of how big they are and that turns them on. Also, if there is a larger cock available to talk to them, they will totally ditch me to talk to them.

So what am I supposed to live with this information? How am I supposed to have a sex life where men cum faster because I am hung when the dick attached to me is only average? My body isn’t me and I dont know how to show people who I really am inside (that is a hung dom)

As you say you cant do a lot about your cock size - I'd happily take it balls deep - and all big cocked guys dont only look for bigger cocks. Dont be fooled by size, some are to big to work, so, the myth about big cocks shooting quicker is not true.
One guy I hung round with for a while was hung like a stallion, it needed so much blood to get hard he looked as if he was going to faint. I liked frotting with him even when it was soft, it was still massive, it would remain hard for about minute before sagging, in three months I never got his load out, not one orgasm, sucking, fucking, nothing would get even pre cum to dribble.
So, be grateful your tool works, gets hard and delivers the goods.

 

[Lil dog]

It happens often that we attract the like-minded... You're attracted only to big cocks, the ones you attract to you are too. The question is not your about own cock size, it's why are you attracted exclusively to big cocks?

what to do with this information? i look at it this way- sex is sex, you are you. you allow your definition of yourself to be whatever you want. I would love to be an NBA basketball player getting paid $40 million a year, not one of those 1-5 million a year mind you. but I lack height, speed, strength, a hole lot of accuracy and basketball IQ. oh well, guess I will be doing something else. I assume by the fact you note guys cum quicker witha big dick, you are implying it is functionally or mentally better at making them cum (ergo turning them on). well again, not all guys- some men nor women will touch a big dick. it seems like you 'are big dig guy mentally.." is what you said, maybe you meant more of a top or dom, you could explore that. use toys. but honestly, don't let it eat at you too much, sex is only a small percent of your life or waking hours, if its more than that- you might have a different issues that needs to be dealt with (all kidding aside- like some people on these or other sites many hours a day). so put it all in perspective 5.75 seems literally to be near the average of all men, what you do with tha tinformation depends more on you.

 

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

As you say you cant do a lot about your cock size - I'd happily take it balls deep - and all big cocked guys dont only look for bigger cocks. Dont be fooled by size, some are to big to work, so, the myth about big cocks shooting quicker is not true.
One guy I hung round with for a while was hung like a stallion, it needed so much blood to get hard he looked as if he was going to faint. I liked frotting with him even when it was soft, it was still massive, it would remain hard for about minute before sagging, in three months I never got his load out, not one orgasm, sucking, fucking, nothing would get even pre cum to dribble.
So, be grateful your tool works, gets hard and delivers the goods.

I’m curious if that guy would’ve prefered to be an average size. I’ve asked over 200 hung guys on here if they would prefer to be average. None wanted to be. But per research studies over half of all men want to be bigger.

Clearly big guys are more satisfied with their size and us average and small guys lost the dick lottery

 

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

what to do with this information? i look at it this way- sex is sex, you are you. you allow your definition of yourself to be whatever you want. I would love to be an NBA basketball player getting paid $40 million a year, not one of those 1-5 million a year mind you. but I lack height, speed, strength, a hole lot of accuracy and basketball IQ. oh well, guess I will be doing something else. I assume by the fact you note guys cum quicker witha big dick, you are implying it is functionally or mentally better at making them cum (ergo turning them on). well again, not all guys- some men nor women will touch a big dick. it seems like you 'are big dig guy mentally.." is what you said, maybe you meant more of a top or dom, you could explore that. use toys. but honestly, don't let it eat at you too much, sex is only a small percent of your life or waking hours, if its more than that- you might have a different issues that needs to be dealt with (all kidding aside- like some people on these or other sites many hours a day). so put it all in perspective 5.75 seems literally to be near the average of all men, what you do with tha tinformation depends more on you.

I hear you. Makes sense. But my dick is not enough to even feel like a dick to me. It’s pathetic. And I’ll just have to seek real dicks in other men. I’ll no doubt spend too much time doing this. My need for real cock is high. I’ll try not to be resentful of big guys while getting them off

 

[Lilbetauselessclit]

I hear you. Makes sense. But my dick is not enough to even feel like a dick to me. It’s pathetic. And I’ll just have to seek real dicks in other men. I’ll no doubt spend too much time doing this. My need for real cock is high. I’ll try not to be resentful of big guys while getting them off

I agree with you 100%. I think about my little dick all day everyday and I am not a kid anymore that's not gotten any better I so wish I had a normal size together or even a dick altogether three and a quarter inches isn't exactly a penis if you ever want to talk

 

[LetsTalkAboutSize]

I agree with you 100%. I think about my little dick all day everyday and I am not a kid anymore that's not gotten any better I so wish I had a normal size together or even a dick altogether three and a quarter inches isn't exactly a penis if you ever want to talk

Thanks for sharing. Yeah it just sucks man. What can we do? Nothing. Just be happy for the winners and be losers for life. Well at least we can agree it sucks