Guy does not want sex

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Actually.. yes. I have a very strong sex drive, and know myself well enough to say that if I was in a relationship with a man who wasn't interested in sex, I'd probably end up being unfaithful. It also makes me feel unattractive if a man is not interested in me sexually.. which I think is kinda illogical (I know men can find a woman to be beautiful and sexy without needing sex from her) but it's how it makes me FEEL. Feelings aren't always logical.
 

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I can understand not wanting sex in certain situations, or wanting to wait a while after meeting, but if a guy just flat-out didn't want sex, then yes, that would be a deal-breaker for me.

Actually.. yes. I have a very strong sex drive, and know myself well enough to say that if I was in a relationship with a man who wasn't interested in sex, I'd probably end up being unfaithful. It also makes me feel unattractive if a man is not interested in me sexually.. which I think is kinda illogical (I know men can find a woman to be beautiful and sexy without needing sex from her) but it's how it makes me FEEL. Feelings aren't always logical.

what if he offered oral sex instead.
 

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As a friend that would be a good thing. As a mate that would not be a good thing.

I've already told my husband, who is over 8 years older than me, that if he is ever able to not have sexual intimacy that I would be driven to distraction. Sex is such a part of who I am and want to be! Fortunately, there is nothing in the foreseeable future to indicate either of us slowing down.
 

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what if he offered oral sex instead.

Oral is good but I'm a cockoholic. If he was willing to use a toy on me while he eats, I suppose it'd be ok. Then again, I might get bored of nothing but the same orgasm over and over. I like penis, I like to switch positions. I also like to see a man's face when I'm making him cum like a maniac, I don't know if I could go without true SEX.