I've been seeing this guy for a little while now. It's strictly a sexual relationship. We get together sometimes to fool around. Anyway, this last time he was like "Can I sound you?" And I was like "What's that?" He said it's taking a metal rod is sticking in the hole of your penis. I was like "Umm..no." He started begging me "Please...just one inch. If it hurts I'll stop." And my answer was a flat no. Anyway, eventually he dropped that subject and we had our fun. Now he's sending me e-mails saying he want to get together again and I should consider letting him "sound" me. Again, I told him no. And he sends me another e-mail trying to convince me to do it. So I'm thinking I should cut this relationship off. If he can't respect my wishes then I probably shouldn't meet with him anymore. What do you guys think? I've only seen one or two videos online where guys stick things in their penis and it looks painful to me and there is no way in hell I would ever do that. Anybody here done it? Aren't there health risks if you do it wrong?