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We all have seen the guy but very few of us are him. The guy who seemingly without effort scores. The one with the long list of conquests. Who here is like that? When did you realize you were skilled? How do you go about seducing? How do you manage? How many were there? Does it ever get boring?
 
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For me, it started, when I was on the tennis team in college. We wore tight tennis shorts that told the world that I was big.

Word spread very quickly. My groupies fell primarily into one of two camps:
1.) wealthy middle aged women with too much money and too little common sense;
2.) good looking twinky guys.

Soon, I had more offers for sex than I knew what to do with.
 

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What's the old saying? If you have to work at it you haven't got it?

I realized I had it when some of my older sister's friends bedded me one by one. At about the same time several friends of girlfriends came after me one by one. Then I started working at a hotel and hooked up with many female patrons most middle aged and and married. I also hit the clubs where pick ups were easy--sometimes all the ladies in a friendship group.

I'm not sure I've ever seduced anyone. Most come after me, some subtly some not so subtly. The earnest ones are easiest to bed. In my experience women know what they want when they want it.

How many? Over 400. Have I ever tired of it? Yes. I've taken breaks over the years. And I'm as picky as anyone.:cool:
 
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We all have seen the guy but very few of us are him. The guy who seemingly without effort scores. The one with the long list of conquests. Who here is like that? When did you realize you were skilled? How do you go about seducing? How do you manage? How many were there? Does it ever get boring?
Honestly, it's a matter of confidence, charisma, brazenness, and just having a spirit that people want to be near. Be naturally you. Don't try, because people can smell disingenuousness a mile away. Be genuine, be nice, and respect the people that you meet. If someone isn't into it, walk away.

I don't look at the people I've been with as conquests. Don't be a Chad. There are just quite a few people I've met in my life who I was lucky enough to have a shared attraction, and the right timing to have some fun.

Grindr is boring. There isn't any fun for me in picking someone from a list who will say yes and be over in 10 minutes, then leave after they've gotten off. That said, I do use Grindr when I travel. It may be easy, but you can also find someone entertaining. I try to find the gems, not the whores.

I much prefer a long flirtation. Like, a year or more. One guy and I have been at it for over 15 years, and we haven't had sex yet. It is definitely in the air, and we could, but the energy between us is fucking electric and that in itself is worth keeping. I really enjoy a build up, of thinking about them when I am away, and also of making them think about you when you aren't there. Inch by inch, introduce that you are interested, that you find them attractive, and don't be afraid to let that be known. A certain amount of brazenness is hot, but overdoing it reeks of sleaziness. Stay classy.
 

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In my teens[highschool] i very much didn't have it, i was always too shy, focused on pleasing people, let people walk all over me and saw casual sex as a bad thing. There was a tipping point around 18-20, got walked on one too many times i guess and in a way snapped, said fuck it and stopped caring, things fell into place after that if i wanted someone i made my move, if it worked out it worked out, if not oh well move on to the next, being in a smaller town by my early 20s i'd gotten a reputation for my size and went through a stretch of reconnecting with old female friends most of whom i ended up fucking usual after they brought up rumours about me. Mid 20s i dated a bit usually in the 18-23 range and when those relationships ended it wasn't hard pick up their friends, they'd practically beg for it . By late 20s i'd even began fucking my female co-workers, usually older married cougars.

I'd have to agree with the others, conquest would imply working for something which hasn't been my experience. i think most guys biggest issue is they think too much and get inside their own heads over analyzing every detail of what they are doing and by the time they plan it out an make a move the woman they are interested in is getting her brains fucked out by some other guy
 
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Partner is one on those ppl that has to beat women away from him with a stick, nearly. Had many fuck buddies before we got together n became couple. Is just him. Honest 'bout who he is, what he wants. Respects he is no everyone's type. Fortunate genetics to be to a lot o mainstream folk good looking. Hobby n past work required being fit, so is in shape too. Has been drive women crazy for well.. Forever. Been aware has an "effect" on women for a long time. Didn't go out o way to find his fuck buddies, just has women throw themselves at him. No idea if was boring or not, but monogamousish an he says does no miss all the fuck buddies
 
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I've always been one of those guys. I've been popular with women ever since I was very young. And I'm honestly not being disingenuous when I say I really have no idea why. I'm shy and eccentric and my appearance could usually generously be described as "disheveled hot mess." But, so far as I know, there's no magic formula or special trick to connecting with women. It's just a matter of getting out of your own way and making contact on a genuine, human level. Having a good sense of humor and a kind disposition also help, I think. I've never had to put any work into it--it just happens. And I like women a lot and enjoy being in their company, which I think is of key importance--I've spent a great deal of time in dance studios and other places where there's a majority of women around--so I dunno what else to say. I don't keep count, but I've been with a *lot* of women, and it is what it is. It never gets boring, quite the opposite, it can actually be kind of overwhelming.
 

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Honestly, it's a matter of confidence, charisma, brazenness, and just having a spirit that people want to be near. Be naturally you. Don't try, because people can smell disingenuousness a mile away. Be genuine, be nice, and respect the people that you meet.
I've scored with many women. A lot more than most. I had a reputation for this. Guys used to bet how long it'd take me to pick up a chick.*

I think it's a combination of looks, confidence, personality, and being fun to be around. I also agree one shouldn't try too hard. Nothing's so off-putting as neediness. Nothing's so attractive as looking like you don't.** Another thing is to be genuinely interested in the girl and what she says.

I'm hung like a chipmunk. I'm sure most women are disappointed in what they find in my pants. That so many remained interested afterwards can only be attributed to the same things which attracted them in the first place.



* Those who knew how I was hung would be left scratching their heads.
** It helps to be a bit narcissistic in this regard. I always feel the women are really lucky to get me.
 

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I've scored with many women. A lot more than most. I had a reputation for this. Guys used to bet how long it'd take me to pick up a chick.*

I think it's a combination of looks, confidence, personality, and being fun to be around. I also agree one shouldn't try too hard. Nothing's so off-putting as neediness. Nothing's so attractive as looking like you don't.** Another thing is to be genuinely interested in the girl and what she says.

I'm hung like a chipmunk. I'm sure most women are disappointed in what they find in my pants. That so many remained interested afterwards can only be attributed to the same things which attracted them in the first place.



* Those who knew how I was hung would be left scratching their heads.
** It helps to be a bit narcissistic in this regard. I always feel the women are really lucky to get me.
I've scored with many women. A lot more than most. I had a reputation for this. Guys used to bet how long it'd take me to pick up a chick.*

I think it's a combination of looks, confidence, personality, and being fun to be around. I also agree one shouldn't try too hard. Nothing's so off-putting as neediness. Nothing's so attractive as looking like you don't.** Another thing is to be genuinely interested in the girl and what she says.

I'm hung like a chipmunk. I'm sure most women are disappointed in what they find in my pants. That so many remained interested afterwards can only be attributed to the same things which attracted them in the first place.



* Those who knew how I was hung would be left scratching their heads.
** It helps to be a bit narcissistic in this regard. I always feel the women are really lucky to get me.
Just be just be yourself.
 
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We all have seen the guy but very few of us are him. The guy who seemingly without effort scores. The one with the long list of conquests. Who here is like that? When did you realize you were skilled? How do you go about seducing? How do you manage? How many were there? Does it ever get boring?
I've been the guy that almost never scored until the end of high school. At university I was almost forced to train my social skills. To be honest, being able to talk ti girls and be relaxed and confident did way more of any physical features I could spend to get laid.
I didn't keep the count but i've been roughly with 50 - 70 girls and one guy once. Even did a mmf once and been a bull once.
 

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I've been the guy that almost never scored until the end of high school. At university I was almost forced to train my social skills. To be honest, being able to talk ti girls and be relaxed and confident did way more of any physical features I could spend to get laid.
I didn't keep the count but i've been roughly with 50 - 70 girls and one guy once. Even did a mmf once and been a bull once.

It's often the guy that was the "ugly duckling" til the end the end of high school that ends up being the stud. Be it the lack of the right social skills, or being unfounded bullied for looks, or being a grower. Middle and high school kids are very cruel to their peers. Once a guy gets away from his school crowd, he finds out there was nothing wrong with him. I've lived it and seen it time and time again.

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There is no set formula as to what attracts women to men. I only have one real feature that's commonly attractive to women. The square jawed dimpled chin. The kind you see on comic book hero men. The rest of me, including the rest of my face is pretty plain/average/messed up. The rest of my face is pretty plain. Brown eyes and hair. Long body, short legs. Long arms like a primate. While I'm decently hung, it doesn't show in my bulge. I'm very much a grower. I'm not a particularly witty talker. I tend to be on the shy side with new people. But, from 17, til my 50's, I never had to go with out. Being older now, what ever magic charm I posses is not as effective, but that's simply because when many women approach 50, they loose most or all interest in sex. I think the supposed attractive guys in school can see the average guy that has the magic charm and bully them in school so the popular girls in school won't give them a second look. I had to hang around girls from different schools to get any action. But it taught me that bullies are usually either jealous, or afraid you'll get something they want. I went from a zero in my high school, to being married to one of the most popular girls in her class and happened to be a dead ringer for Molly Ringwald as she looked in "The Breakfast Club". Funny how things change.

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I'm a big guy with a big presence, I don't know why but women have always just seemed to show me respect. I wouldn't say I'm incredibly handsome particularly but I know if wanted to pull any particular woman it wouldn't be a problem, I don't really need to go out of my way to charm a woman, I just find it easy.
I always have a noticable bulge in my pants, not because I dress to show off I've just got a huge cock and balls. Women always notice that, I can walk into a room and see people giving it a once over. To be honest I'd have thought that would put some women off but I guess it's the curiosity that gets the better of them.

I know exactly what you mean though bruh, I've been on nights out with my mates and some of them can go all night trying to score and get nowhere. I can literally just walk up to a chick, start talking to her, put my arm around her shoulder and I'm in!
 
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So most ladies men tend to be more well hung? Supposedly Casanova had a huge one. David Bowie, Michael Jackson, Jack Nicholson, Warren Beauty all said to be well endowned.
I don't know if Michael Jackson was a ladies man. Maybe a boys man.
 
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I know of only one that I met online elsewhere, and I would say looks don't play a major role (maybe unless you're severely scarred from an accident or have some obvious skin disease or something that would be a barrier to making first contact), I think it's more other qualities. It's how you make someone feel.
 
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