Guy who doesn't cum in your face...

What do you think of a guy who doesn't cum in your face ladies?


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Personally i don't see the big difference between a guy cumming on my face or in my mouth. :confused: Besides that i don't see why a guy would be against giving a facial, especially if he was asked to

First time a partner asked me for a facial, I was bit weirded out by the request. But that was years ago when I was much younger. Now a days, if any of my partners want it, they just ask and out it comes! Some women and men don't like it, so I don't do it with them. No big deal either way.
 

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i don't have a problem with it personally, in my limited experience with it. but my partner is careful about the eyes, nose, hair. it's a nice way to mix it up sometimes, instead of swallowing it all or having it elsewhere on/in the body. it's more like a i swallow some, he pulls out and shoots on my lips type thing with us. it seems kinda kinky and wild to me so i like that. i'd never use it as a bartering thing either, that just seems déclassé -- "well i let you cum on my face!". especially when asked for, kinda tacky.

i can see though seemingly degrading elements to some porn. like with choking, some of the hair pulling, facials, other stuff of that nature. i can see how it's got a slightly sinister feel to me so i avoid that stuff. not my cuppa tea.


p.s. i didn't vote because i don't think a guy is a sweetheart for doing it or a pussy for not.
 
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Cummin in a woman's face has absolutely nothing to do with degradation. It's one of the kinky sexual thing I like to do. Women who think it is degrading just dont like sex enough to do kinky things.
 

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Cummin in a woman's face has absolutely nothing to do with degradation. It's one of the kinky sexual thing I like to do. Women who think it is degrading just dont like sex enough to do kinky things.
please! :rolleyes:

i know girls who like anal, bondage, whips, clips and needle play, who choke, stroke and attach electrodes to their tits...and still think facials are degrading.

but nooooo, if they don't like what you like then they must be prudes!

seriously, you think a bit of spunk on the cheek is kinky?
mate, you've a lot to learn.
 

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Cumming on a woman's face doesn't appeal to me - even if she was begging for it (the begging wouldn't appeal to me either). Now cumming on a nice big pair of breasts would be another matter entirely :biggrin1:

As far as I am concerned facials are things other people do - mainly in porn.
 

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im sorry , maybe im the odd one out here but I have had sex with as many women as any guy here on this board. I did this very early on, high school but dont anymore. How can you cum on a girl you respect or if married or dating love and see this as not totally degrading and a lack of respect. Why would you want to shoot it all over her face, watch her lick and suck it and pretend to be a video whore, then she cleans up and you kiss on her. Thats just my take and everyone might have a different one. But that trend started with porn and girls should feel degraded if they allow this to random fuck buddies. Its not a sign of respect at all. some of the pics people put on the internet of them with it all over there face or a fist in one hole, a dick in another, another dick in her mouth. you will one day have kids. I would never even consider dating a girl that would allow that to be done to her. Its a class and moral issue for me i Guess. I know this wont be to popular but its my take
 

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it's not a moral issue to me...more a cultural one.
in our culture we throw a drink on someone's face to humiliate them, we cringe if we realise we have food round our mouths in public, we find dirty clothes or handseasier to bear than a dirty face.
spinach between your teeth is something to blush over, but spinach under your fingernail is no big deal.
it has nothing to do with being a prude or a pervert, a whore or a bully.

i hate the feel of having something slopped over my face. i hate the look of a messy face. to me it is degrading.
 

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it says alot about a girls morals. If you will allow some guy to nt on your face, not on lips and mouth as your finishing up but with the intent of spraying all over your face, mouth, hair, ear, and rubbing his cock on your face, that is degrading. this isnt a sign of affection. Its more of a hey I am the dominant one here and ill show you i am. this isnt a kinky way of spicing things up, its a way of giving a guy pleasure by degrading a women. Simple as that. I would never even consider dating a girl that allowed that. That says alot about her beliefs, morals and character. No guy is going to tell you he thinks its degrading, its his way of thinking he has the power
 

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it says alot about a girls morals. If you will allow some guy to nt on your face, not on lips and mouth as your finishing up but with the intent of spraying all over your face, mouth, hair, ear, and rubbing his cock on your face, that is degrading. this isnt a sign of affection. Its more of a hey I am the dominant one here and ill show you i am. this isnt a kinky way of spicing things up, its a way of giving a guy pleasure by degrading a women. Simple as that. I would never even consider dating a girl that allowed that. That says alot about her beliefs, morals and character. No guy is going to tell you he thinks its degrading, its his way of thinking he has the power
that might be how you & i feel, but that doesn't make it a universal truth.

if two people are in a loving, stable relationship then where they both consent to throw the splooge wouldn't make me think less of them.
 

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What does a girl think of a guy who won't cum in her face?
What's his number? I think I'm in LOVE! :heart: :cool:

Seriously though, if it weren't for porn most men would never think of cumming on a girls face. I personally hate it and find it messy as well as degrading.
 

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Cumming on a woman's face doesn't appeal to me - even if she was begging for it (the begging wouldn't appeal to me either). Now cumming on a nice big pair of breasts would be another matter entirely :biggrin1:

As far as I am concerned facials are things other people do - mainly in porn.
Thank you, this is the correct male response.:cool:
 

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please! :rolleyes:

i know girls who like anal, bondage, whips, clips and needle play, who choke, stroke and attach electrodes to their tits...and still think facials are degrading.

but nooooo, if they don't like what you like then they must be prudes!

seriously, you think a bit of spunk on the cheek is kinky?
mate, you've a lot to learn.

Yeah I know, I've known a few like that. But it dosent make much sense to me. It's like saying ooooooooh no way! I'll never smoke weed .... but bring me that big line of blow please!!! :biggrin1: What is more extreme?

im sorry , maybe im the odd one out here but I have had sex with as many women as any guy here on this board. I did this very early on, high school but dont anymore. How can you cum on a girl you respect or if married or dating love and see this as not totally degrading and a lack of respect. Why would you want to shoot it all over her face, watch her lick and suck it and pretend to be a video whore, then she cleans up and you kiss on her. Thats just my take and everyone might have a different one. But that trend started with porn and girls should feel degraded if they allow this to random fuck buddies. Its not a sign of respect at all. some of the pics people put on the internet of them with it all over there face or a fist in one hole, a dick in another, another dick in her mouth. you will one day have kids. I would never even consider dating a girl that would allow that to be done to her. Its a class and moral issue for me i Guess. I know this wont be to popular but its my take
It has AB-SO-LU-TLY nothing to do with respect for me. When I cum on a girls facing I'm not saying to myself "ooooh yeah you like that you fucking slut, oh yeah you are my bitch hummmm I am your master! I am dominating you! You are my slave".

As if all men who like to cum a womans face are doing it to degrade them, and any women who receive the cum in her face loves to be dedraded. Fucking nonesense! I just enjoy cumming in a girls face. Seeing them with my love juice on their face is simply sexy to me. I also like to do it IN their mouth, on their breast, on their bellly, etc. Oh and by the way I dont wait for them to be cleaned before kissing them again, I actually lick my cum and then move up to their lips and we french kiss with it. So please, tell me where I'm beeing disrespectfull here.
 
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I will not be with anyone who doesn't respect a request I make. I am not a demanding or unreasonable lover. If I wished come on my face and he refused, it would bother me.

Whether coming on a face is degrading? another question. I would come on a man's (or woman's) face if they asked nicely. So what if it is not semen?
 

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Cummin in a woman's face has absolutely nothing to do with degradation. It's one of the kinky sexual thing I like to do. Women who think it is degrading just dont like sex enough to do kinky things.

Its only degrading if they see it that way. I for one cant see how it would be degrading when two people like having sex together. if shes ok with it, shoot alway.
 

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Facials are just part of the sexual experience. My GF is quite conservative in general but loves it when I shoot cum on her face and neck. She says that they ought to name a shower head after me.
 

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So I can take a female cumming in my mouth and on my face when I'm eating her out, but she can't take a little skeet on the cheek! :p
 

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Its only degrading if they see it that way. I for one cant see how it would be degrading when two people like having sex together. if shes ok with it, shoot alway.

No woman on this thread has said IT IS DEGRADING, we're saying WE find it degrading to US.

If a woman likes it, great go for it.

We all like and dislike different things. We're not saying it's universally wrong, just wrong for us!
 

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I personally think it adds to the whole sexual experience. It gives the guy a sense of empowerment and it turns me on too. Plus it makes me feel slutty which I like