just had my first male experience about a month ago, happened at the gym. Never really considered myself an exhibitionist, but knew i had a big cock. (just a bit over 9", but very thick) Anyway, i knew a guy was checking me out and it turned me on, not because it was a guy but because it made me feel good. He followed me into the steamroom, kept commenting on it, etc, etc, finally he just reached over and strated stroking. Completely unexpected, but felt too good to stop.