No, never. Most of my phone conversations with the ladies I've been involved with have been too serious in nature to promote an erection, let alone orgasm. But during those phone conversations that were sexually hot I've almost always whipped it out and played with myself, just not secretly, I've always been honest about what I was UP to. And sometimes that has just made the conversation all the hotter.
The only time I did such a thing in secret it wasn't a woman I was involved with, it was with a best friend's wife. She had a very sexy, sultry voice and I'd always been physically attracted to her. But I never entertained any adulterous thoughts about her because 1. I don't mess around with married women (unless their husbands also take part) and 2. Their friendship meant far more to me than any lustful feelings I might have for her. But this particular conversation promised to be a lengthy one and her voice caused a stirring in my loins that just couldn't be denied. So I unzipped, pulled it out and in no time brought myself to the edge of orgasm. I kept myself on the "edge" for quite some time and then, when she entered into a new thought that promised to be lengthy I took myself over the brink and spewed cum all over my shirt. By the time it was my turn to speak I was fully recovered from the throes of orgasm and we continued our conversation with she never being the wiser.
Did I think myself to be weird, crazy and perverse for what I did? Absolutely! Did I feel any shame, remorse or regret? Absolutely not! It's not as though I had broken the Commandment against coveting thy neighbor's wife, as they and I had never been neighbors .... hehehe. No seriously, I found it no different than masturbating to a hot movie star, singer, porn star or any other public figure that you know you can never have but who is a total turn-on for you. They (she and her husband) and I are still best of friends and our relationship is no different now than it was before I pulled my little stunt.
I think that anyone who can't do something like that without remorse is too hung up on our society's mores to truly enjoy life.
Aha!!
I knew some of you boys must have done that at some point!!!
See I think that is quite saucy...:wink:. Yes its a lil perverse BUT provided it was a once in a blue moon thing u are RIGHT no1 has got hurt!!!
So is anyone else guilty of the same shameful/not so shameful act??? :smile: