guys flriting with me at gym

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  1. B_biginalldepartment

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    the other day i was at the gym and this guy he was proper ripped and really big and he kept staring at me and looking me up and down and he was chatting with me and complimenting me i kinda cld tell he wanted it but i didnt no if i shld act i mean im straight but like i wanna no wht it feels like to be with a guy
    anyone got any tips on wht i shld do?
    if i see him again should i see if he wants to get together
     
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    Yes.


     
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    hhahha yeh but like i aint never done tht before how shld i act on it
     
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    How could he not flirt with you m8 you're gorgeous :p~

    Just go with the flow I bet he will make you feel REAL GOOD
     
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    Next time, suggest going out to get something to eat after your next workout. You both will be able to talk more openly than at the gym.
     
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    stop being such a pussy and do it :p
    then lemme no whether its worth it not haha
    cant c it bein better than pussy tho man
     
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    Why not? We go through this way once - we are called to be happy & fulfilled - if not one is getting hurt, why not?

    Go with the flow! Keep us posted too.
     
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    I have my favorite flavor of ice cream, but even so, sometimes I want a different flavor.
     
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    hahaha i like ur thinking well then im gonna go for it and his body is amazing which is a bonus and yeh sure when it happens i will tell all
     
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    Hey big,

    First of all, if he was, I don't blame the guy at all!! :biggrin1:

    Ok, so how you should go about it it, really varies with each situation. I mean heck, if he's blantant enough, you might just be able to just ask him directly if he's interested.

    But if not, there's some basic stuff. Did you return any compliments? That's the first thing I would do. Pick a few areas of the body that he's obviously been working hard on, and tell him how nice, or big, etc., they are.

    That should develop more into the conversation. At some point you can ask him some other questions. Maybe about his job, or what does he do when he's not in the gym, etc. You may find a common interest.

    Eventually if he hasn't already, you'll have to get a bit more personal. Maybe ask him if he wants to meet up for a coffee or juice at a health food place. Things will progress from there.

    Not knowing your personality or his, it's hard to say exactly how you should go about it. If he's into you, and you have interest in him, just go with your gut instinct.

    Good Luck, and I'm officially envious of him, lol
     
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    The group awaits. It's to your advantage not to rush into it.
     
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    Right. Although if he is being the aggressor, and I get the impression he is, don't put the brakes on either or he'll think you're not interested. Countryguy had good advice about returning compliments. He says "Great biceps, man." you say "Thanks. I wish I had thighs like yours." That type of thing. This has the added advantage of leading into asking him what he does for that body part. He can show you and pretty soon you're workout partners.
     
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    Stop working out, eat lots of sugar and carbs, get fat and flabby, and then youn wont have to worry about being hit on. ;-)
     
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    Why not? You both seem to be shallow, vain men so your "morals" shouldn't get in the way!!
     
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    And he deserved this because,,,why? :rolleyes:


     
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    Was there any need whatsoever for that?
     
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    The OP doesn't come across as shallow or vain but if he was it wouldn't be as bad as being a rude moralising ignoramus.
     
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    I'd just meet at an offsite location, like dinner or drinks or something.

    It will probably flow to more, but at least you can figure out if he's a freak or not, or what his true intentions are.

    And, no matter what "Straight boy".... Wear a condom!
     
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    Tho I've been working out for nearly 15 years in several gyms, I'm never quite sure what constitutes flirting, unless the course of conversation clearly indicates that they want to get to know me. With the women, it's fairly obvious. With the guys it's really a cloudy area. My workout buds and I often realize that others may be staring at us. If they do come up to us, conversation may be centered around a few compliments and maybe questions such as whether we have any tips on attaining the definition in our arms. If thru the course of conversation, they find out you're an M.D. then the questions really start flowing...creatine, supplements, diet, etc. I personally feel that a lot of guys, especially those that have never used a trainer, have little idea as to what they're doing, their goals, reps, etc. and over a period of time get over their fear of approaching the well-developed guys that they see repeatedly. I can also think of a few instances where their initiating conversation was a prelude to asking me to spot for them, after which they've admitted that they felt they singled me out cause they could tell that I knew what I was doing. I've made a number of close (non-sexual, older, younger) friends over the years, especially when we both realize common interests (cars, bikes, schooling, etc).
     
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    BIGINALLDEPARMENT is a fucking magnet for men
     
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