How easy is it for you to give up sexual control to your partner?
Not necessarily in a D/s manner, but for your partner to introduce you to something you wouldn't normally take part in (butt play, tying you up), or, guide you to an orgasm (jerk off instruction, for example), or some other play where you follow their lead?
Can you give in and go with the moment? Or, is there always something in the back of your mind that does not want to submit to their will?
If you can give in, is it more your natural submissiveness or partner's talent?
If you can't, is there just a preference for routine/tried and true or something else that stops you?
Reason I ask:
I have discussed this in previous posts, but I like to take control on occasion (ok, ok, a lot!) and open my partner to new sexual experiences. In doing so, I have noticed a 50/50 split between those totally open to it and others where it seems to go against their natures, and wonder what's stopping them from letting me have my way. *stomps foot* :08:
Not necessarily in a D/s manner, but for your partner to introduce you to something you wouldn't normally take part in (butt play, tying you up), or, guide you to an orgasm (jerk off instruction, for example), or some other play where you follow their lead?
Can you give in and go with the moment? Or, is there always something in the back of your mind that does not want to submit to their will?
If you can give in, is it more your natural submissiveness or partner's talent?
If you can't, is there just a preference for routine/tried and true or something else that stops you?
Reason I ask:
I have discussed this in previous posts, but I like to take control on occasion (ok, ok, a lot!) and open my partner to new sexual experiences. In doing so, I have noticed a 50/50 split between those totally open to it and others where it seems to go against their natures, and wonder what's stopping them from letting me have my way. *stomps foot* :08: