Guys: Have you ever been barebacked WITHOUT your consent? Ie: Removing condom mid-sex

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Yes. I once met up with a guy to swap head, but he ended up deciding to ride me without any warning. I was pretty inexperienced so I didn't realize what he was doing until I was inside him. NGL it was a little traumatizing, became totally disinterested in sex for weeks after that until I had processed.

Another time I bottomed for a guy. I handed him a condom and he just...didn't put it on. After a minute or so I noticed and asked him to wear it, which he did for the rest of the encounter. But after that I got on PreP and now I do bareback sex almost every time.
 
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Yes. I once met up with a guy to swap head, but he ended up deciding to ride me without any warning. I was pretty inexperienced so I didn't realize what he was doing until I was inside him. NGL it was a little traumatizing, became totally disinterested in sex for weeks after that until I had processed.

Another time I bottomed for a guy. I handed him a condom and he just...didn't put it on. After a minute or so I noticed and asked him to wear it, which he did for the rest of the encounter. But after that I got on PreP and now I do bareback sex almost every time.
Never. I would not allow something like that to happen. Consent must be given to all parties before you have sex.
 
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Yes. I once met up with a guy to swap head, but he ended up deciding to ride me without any warning. I was pretty inexperienced so I didn't realize what he was doing until I was inside him. NGL it was a little traumatizing, became totally disinterested in sex for weeks after that until I had processed.

Another time I bottomed for a guy. I handed him a condom and he just...didn't put it on. After a minute or so I noticed and asked him to wear it, which he did for the rest of the encounter. But after that I got on PreP and now I do bareback sex almost every time.
Something very similar happened to me about a year before covid stuff. I expressly said I’m not into anal and would just give and receive oral. He asked me if rimming was ok and I agreed. He put me on my back, started rimming and without warning, he just entered me bareback and started fucking me. I froze and was kind of too shocked to do or say anything. Luckily he didn’t cum inside me. I was just too stupidly damn polite to say anything as I was also inexperienced and a bit shocked by it all. It also took me quite a long time to process what had happened and call it out for what it was. I can totally relate to how you feel
 
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Yes, I have. My second bottoming ever took place in Walnut Creek, CA. The hosting top had a ton of facial scruff that irritated my hole. He was having a good old time taking me lying prone on his bed and pulled out to rest for a bit. Luck had it, turning around, I saw his condom was off. Although another condom was nearby, him not telling me what he was doing added an element of mistrust. I periodically would reach back and hand check to make sure his condom remained on, and it did.
 

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I booked a massage from an ad I saw on Craigslist . I found his apartment , should have left when he opened the door . The small place was crammed with furniture and junk . Only space was around the massage table . I was already there , horny , and he looked good . I stripped down and got on the table
He was nude , felt his hard dick pushing on my body a few times . A good massage complete with happy ending .
I went back next month . This time he did some ass work , felt his working some oil around my crack and hole , still massaging glutes and inner thigh . He got on top of me on the table , continued working my back , shoulders , and glutes . I felt more oil dripping on my ass , then he used a finger for ass work . I didn't object , next thing I realize he has entered me . I told him it hurt and he stopped . I got off the table, saw there was no condom on his dick or in his hands . I asked him - his reason was it was better bare .
I dressed and left. Felt really stupid about the whole experience . I should have been paying more attention , did I give signals that I was looking to be fucked . I never went back , have never told anyone . I did have an HIV test a year later, came back negative
 
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