Guys..help a girl out, will you?

[Altairion]

Hey Femme, how about lettin us in on what you decided to do?

 

[Femme]

Thanks a lot to all of you who answered. =)

It really helped me out.

I don't think I'll talk to him about it, but I won't let him pull away when he tries, and look at him..so that he knows I know.

Now that I think of it, it he weren't trying to hide it at this stage in our relationship or whatever...I WOULD kinda be like "wtf".

 

[Likesembig]

Originally posted by Femme@Jul 14 2005, 10:11 PM
I wonder if I'm the only female here..? =)

I have a question. Firstly let me describe the situation. I'm almost 19, and there's a guy I'm romantically involved with. For now it's in its initial stages, I've known him for a long time...and we've been friends for a long time, so us being more than that is a very slow transition.

Anyway, we often go for walks. Like yesterday night, we went for a walk in the park. We talk, laugh, etc..I occasionally hug him and lie in his arms..

I notice he's having erections. Not visually, but I feel them pressing against me. I also noticed that he's trying to hide them and either backs away, or turns a little, or does smth to me so I won't be able to feel it..

Why does he do that? It's natural..and I realize he's 19 and at this age it usually goes up in a snap, especially if there's physical contact.

Please give me some insight..

[post=329187]Quoted post[/post]​

Sweetie, you found yourself a gentleman......once/if you two become sexually active he probably won't be so "aware" of his erections around you.

Hope this helps.

 

[Femme]

Originally posted by Likesembig+Jul 23 2005, 02:02 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Likesembig &#064; Jul 23 2005, 02:02 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Femme@Jul 14 2005, 10:11 PM
I wonder if I&#39;m the only female here..? =)

I have a question. Firstly let me describe the situation. I&#39;m almost 19, and there&#39;s a guy I&#39;m romantically involved with. For now it&#39;s in its initial stages, I&#39;ve known him for a long time...and we&#39;ve been friends for a long time, so us being more than that is a very slow transition.

Anyway, we often go for walks. Like yesterday night, we went for a walk in the park. We talk, laugh, etc..I occasionally hug him and lie in his arms..

I notice he&#39;s having erections. Not visually, but I feel them pressing against me. I also noticed that he&#39;s trying to hide them and either backs away, or turns a little, or does smth to me so I won&#39;t be able to feel it..

Why does he do that? It&#39;s natural..and I realize he&#39;s 19 and at this age it usually goes up in a snap, especially if there&#39;s physical contact.

Please give me some insight..

[post=329187]Quoted post[/post]​

Sweetie, you found yourself a gentleman......once/if you two become sexually active he probably won&#39;t be so "aware" of his erections around you.

Hope this helps.

[post=330941]Quoted post[/post]​

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Hehe, well that is true...he is a gentleman.

 

[LPSG]

I would be honored, although they happen to me when not the slightest sexual thing is on my mind. Hell, I could be thinking about not having an erection and I&#39;ll have one&#33;

 

[tillyrox]

Hey Femme
First of all you not the only girl here, i was with my bf for 2 years, when we first started dating he was typical 16 year old booy who&#39;d get an erection at the drop of a hat. He did the same thing tried to hide it from me. I think what you said you were gonna do, just let him know with out saying anything is the best bet, after a while when my bf was still pulling away i just quietly said its ok so only he could hear, and after that he was fine then he didnt get them as much i spose because he was worrying about getting them before i said it was ok. Anyway thats my pearls of wisdom, and have fun with it.

Luv Ya
Tilly

 

[lapdog2001]

Originally posted by Femme@Jul 23 2005, 01:19 AM
Thanks a lot to all of you who answered. =)

It really helped me out.

I don&#39;t think I&#39;ll talk to him about it, but I won&#39;t let him pull away when he tries, and look at him..so that he knows I know.

[post=330914]Quoted post[/post]​

My suggestion was going to be exactly that. Hug him, and hold him tight to you when the inevitable happens. If he does pull away, pull him back and hug him tighter&#33;
You really don&#39;t have to say anything, and you don&#39;t have to grope him if you two aren&#39;t at that stage yet.

When I&#39;m interested in a woman, physical contact of any kind can trigger an erection,
even hand-holding. When I&#39;m sexual active with a woman, the sight of her can cause a stirring down below.

LapDog