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Do you search out cock to suck, or get your cock sucked or sucking and fucking? And do you search for some real action or just fantasy to satisfy you need for cock here? How do you deal with the overwhelming need for cock?
 
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It’s a never ending desire. I’ve never acted on it, but I think about it constantly. I can’t tell you how much I wish I wasn’t attracted to guys at all. I think I always have been my whole life, but as I’ve gotten older, the desire has only gotten stronger. I love my wife more than anything, and we have built an amazing life together. She is my best friend, but this is a desire that she can never satisfy.
 
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It’s a never ending desire. I’ve never acted on it, but I think about it constantly. I can’t tell you how much I wish I wasn’t attracted to guys at all. I think I always have been my whole life, but as I’ve gotten older, the desire has only gotten stronger. I love my wife more than anything, and we have built an amazing life together. She is my best friend, but this is a desire that she can never satisfy.
Frustrating to say the least!
 

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It's soooo frustrating. Cause I want some dick. But when I think about the consequences.....I feel better. I just watch gay porn and cum, everything is better. I told my Wife I would love to have a threesome with another bisexual man. She said she'll think about it. So, I'm keeping my fingers crossed. She worries about the dangers as well as I do, but if we weren't married, we'd be having sex with multiple people at least once a year to be generous. Protection and safe sex is 100% a must! But I think I'm gonna have to wait a while. : (
 

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I have a tough time resisting the need for servicing a nice cock. I have no desire to have a relationship with a man, or a real sexual relationship. I just want to see, feel and suck a big cock.

I only want to play with dicks bigger than my own. I have played in the past and don't remember what most of the guys even look like! I wouldn't recognize them if I saw them on the dtreet, but their dicks are vivid memories!

I eventually cave and end up sucking a cock by finding someone online, but feel very guilty about it afterwards. Most times I don't even want reciprocity... just want to enjoy making them hard and blow their load in my mouth or on me.

I hope to be able to indulge with my girlfriend's approval or even participation someday. She knows I have done it before i met her during a previous long, bad marriage, but doesn't know the craving is still there.
 

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I have a tough time resisting the need for servicing a nice cock. I have no desire to have a relationship with a man, or a real sexual relationship. I just want to see, feel and suck a big cock.

I only want to play with dicks bigger than my own. I have played in the past and don't remember what most of the guys even look like! I wouldn't recognize them if I saw them on the dtreet, but their dicks are vivid memories!

I eventually cave and end up sucking a cock by finding someone online, but feel very guilty about it afterwards. Most times I don't even want reciprocity... just want to enjoy making them hard and blow their load in my mouth or on me.

I hope to be able to indulge with my girlfriend's approval or even participation someday. She knows I have done it before i met her during a previous long, bad marriage, but doesn't know the craving is still there.
I don’t think the craving ever goes away. It is part of you. How well I know. A day doesn’t go by without a desire for cock.
 

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It’s been about a year for me and over 30 prior to me getting with two different guys in late 2017. First one was off silver daddies and the second I went on grinder. Grinder experience was easy but I was just lucky. A guy was in a mall across the interstate from my hotel. He was 22 and had a beautiful cock, first black guy. He was fully gay and had around a seven inch cock. I sucked him for over 30 minutes. I’m pretty sure he had cum recently, once he got off it was mostly clear, but he did shoot about five ropes up his chest. Nice being young.
The other we ended up texting a bunch and he would go quite for a long time. I was staying in a hotel in his town. Thought I was out of luck but he texted after I checked in, he was an Asian Dr.
I really trusted him but not the other kid, 20 year olds are unpredictable. The Doctor had a decent cock but it was no larger than mine. I just want one friend with a big fat cock I can suck regularly, is that too much to ask?
 

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It’s a never ending desire. I’ve never acted on it, but I think about it constantly. I can’t tell you how much I wish I wasn’t attracted to guys at all. I think I always have been my whole life, but as I’ve gotten older, the desire has only gotten stronger. I love my wife more than anything, and we have built an amazing life together. She is my best friend, but this is a desire that she can never satisfy.
I understand your plight but be careful of your desires for what you have now could be lost. Would she be open to it? If not keep.it as a
Fantasy..
 

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It’s been about a year for me and over 30 prior to me getting with two different guys in late 2017. First one was off silver daddies and the second I went on grinder. Grinder experience was easy but I was just lucky. A guy was in a mall across the interstate from my hotel. He was 22 and had a beautiful cock, first black guy. He was fully gay and had around a seven inch cock. I sucked him for over 30 minutes. I’m pretty sure he had cum recently, once he got off it was mostly clear, but he did shoot about five ropes up his chest. Nice being young.
The other we ended up texting a bunch and he would go quite for a long time. I was staying in a hotel in his town. Thought I was out of luck but he texted after I checked in, he was an Asian Dr.
I really trusted him but not the other kid, 20 year olds are unpredictable. The Doctor had a decent cock but it was no larger than mine. I just want one friend with a big fat cock I can suck regularly, is that too much to ask?
I understand. For me it was about twenty years from my first experience until my next. I fanticized often about sucking another guys cock but kept my desires to myself and would just masturbate thinking about it. When the opportunity came about again I took it. Though after that the obsession abated for a period of time it kept coming back. I finally found a regular suck buddy after many suck and go experiences. Unfortunately he moved and again I am left with the desire and no cock to suck.
 

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I understand. For me it was about twenty years from my first experience until my next. I fanticized often about sucking another guys cock but kept my desires to myself and would just masturbate thinking about it. When the opportunity came about again I took it. Though after that the obsession abated for a period of time it kept coming back. I finally found a regular suck buddy after many suck and go experiences. Unfortunately he moved and again I am left with the desire and no cock to suck.
Do you suck and swallow ?
 
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Do you search out cock to suck, or get your cock sucked or sucking and fucking? And do you search for some real action or just fantasy to satisfy you need for cock here? How do you deal with the overwhelming need for cock?
I do like both to suck and be sucked, my favorite is 69 position, usually looking for skinny guys with small butt to play
 
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I am in same tough spot was an active cocksucker from 22 till 41 off and on met my would be wife wanted to tell her but it would have been a big time no go in six years since I have flirted and talked to some but have not pulled trigger plus something has always been an isuue if I could find a type that I like married chubby small cocks Asian especially maybe something can work and also mind boggling because I do like ;A,; small cocks short guys and chubby guys white or asian NYC area here
 
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I haven't acted on it in the last 5 years, so its mostly fantasy. That said, I've tried a few times and people have just not come through.
I hear you so me want to but people are different was easier years ago in early to. Mid 2000s I mean I was single but hooked up with plenty of married guys plus was a cruising place in Staten island South Beach I used to clean my car in open show off hair legs and got snatched plenty of. Times by dirty older married guys