It depends. Like KitKat said with a lot of wardrobe magic I can almost make them invisible, but most of the time I don't. I know which clients will pay attention to my boards and who's going to just stare. Still those who stare buy too, so it's a win-win! LOL! (I'm an home designer, so don't get weird ideas about what they're buying) If we're going out I know I'm going to catch eyes, it's just the nature of the beast(s) so I "press the puppies" as Cap says. He certainly doesn't mind other stares because I always dance with who brung me.
I've been getting stares since I was in high school, so I guess I just grew up with it. It's really more natural than anything else. I mean, I stare at attractive women (and men) myself, and I'm not a pervert. I'm just admiring them, so I kind of take it like that. Yes, I know the pervs undress me. Bad with the good.
Seriously, they are more cumbersome than advantageous. If you must go ahead and ogle and fantasize but I just wish you could strap on this contraption and carry them around for a day or two, then see how you get off on them with an underwire piercing your side. Oh, and then when the "special" time comes and they're sore as hell let's see you fantasize then.