Guys Not Cumming, Do You Feel Bad?? Also drying up

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Ladies, If you finish and your man cant, do you feel bad.

I ask because my last 5 times ive had sex, 2 different girls, i have only been able to cum once, and after wards the girls get pissed off and say its there fault that i couldnt come, which i dont think it is, its my penis haha, but yeah if you finish and your man doesnt , do you feel bad for him or not

Also drying up, what is with this, 1 minute my latest girl is like a bath downstairs, next minute its extremely painfull to the point where we stop, anyone else had this happen before
 

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I wouldn't feel bad for him, I've had my classmate not be able to maintain an erection at the start of our play times. You can't give up on the men, I think you need to form a bond with them first.

With my classmate he'd never experienced that before, but he'd also never had sex with a close friend. By creating a trusting bond with him, he was able to get an erection and orgasm. The sex now is amazing.
 

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Must admit I faked an orgasm once with a girl. I didn't really want to go on having sex with her but she came round to see me anyway and I felt obliged. Couldn't cum so I moaned a bit, pulled out and went to the bathroom to take the condom off. If she guessed she didn't say. Now I know I get much more turned on by guys anyway...
 

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Never had that issue when I was younger, but have a few times in recent years. The worst thing about having a hard time cumming is thinking too much when you realize you can't. That makes it even worse. With my current gf, my first few times I didn't come either. But after getting used to her sexually, I overcame that and no issues cumming at all now.
 

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my guy had a hard time cumming at first and after about 7 sex sessions its getting better. i read up on "delayed ejaculation", its psychological. so i changed my attitude as i thought he just was holding back for my pleasure, but after 4 or 5 orgasms, it became apparent there was a problem. i tried to encourage him by begging him to cum in me, but i don't think it helped, just put on more pressure so i stopped that. he's gone from 50 mins of fucking to cumming down to 25 so we are getting somewhere.

i did feel bad as i felt like i was getting all the goods and leaving him hard and alone if i stopped (i was getting badly sore) and it bothered me.

as for the drying up thing - i find that there is a peak of juice flow before orgasm but this decreases even if horny still. also never let her lay with open legs near a fan or open window! i've got majorly dry in seconds like that. it is the mans job to check lubrication as she can't tell till it hurts afterwards.
 

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it is the mans job to check lubrication as she can't tell till it hurts afterwards.

I have to disagree with this. I can tell how wet I am during sex. both parties should be expected to notice the change in friction and I would even say the woman moreso as the man is often wearing a condom.