Guys pretending to be women...

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by B_Hung Muscle, Feb 19, 2007.

  1. B_Hung Muscle

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    Over the years, guys come to the message board -- and especially into the chatroom -- and pretend to be women. To me, but especially my straight bro's in here, they are very transparent and stupid fakes. I generally catch on after others. It amazes me how straight guys call foul on the fakes so quickly: how do they sniff them out so fast?

    I also wonder why these dudes do this to begin with. It seems so freakin' stupid.

    Are they gay guys (closeted or otherwise) who are trying to "snare" some straight guys to chat with them? Are they trannies-in-the-making? Are they just the usual breed of insecure geeks, hiding in anonymity behind the computer screen?
     
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    Yeah, the ones who are like hey guys, who wants to hook up, are probably fakes. When you see a woman posting you can pretty much imagine if a woman would probably say something like that and you can figure it out. I'm sure sometimes they really are women but sometimes they probably aren't.
    But lots of people like on here, like all the guys who say they're like 13 inches. I seriously doubt it.

     
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    Yeah, I reckon ther are a few around. Any prime suspects?

    Name and shame?
     
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    It is weird and very creepy. You can tell usually by the things they say or if you look in their gallery. What normal/real woman is going to have pictures of her and ten of her GIRLfriends naked at a pool party? Or modelesque pics?

    I don't know whether the freaks that do this sort of thing are straight or gay. And I don't care...I just try to stay away from them.
     
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    One of my chat pals tells me that anyone who has a bra size in their nickname is probably a man. Similarly, I think names like HeatherLikesOral or CollegeSuzyFucksBigOnes look fake as hell. The chat room has a number of these nicks on any given night.
     
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    I don't think that there's one reason that fits all of the fake women out there, but my hunch based on the ones I've observed is that a lot of them fall in the same category: They're not just closeted, but in denial -- they're petrified of the idea that relating to a homosexual man might lead to something further. By posing as a woman, they're able to ensnare straight men.

    In doing so, they avoid the highly contagious gay cootie they're so terrified of, but more importantly, they avoid the opportunity to be honest about their feelings and the soul-seeking that such an opportunity might provoke.
     
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    I think 36DD is truly female- but I guess there are exceptions. I am always glad when you guys post stuff like this- cos I just never think of it, ya know? I always tend to think people are genuine until I learn otherwise, at which time I am usually humiliated.:confused:
     
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    Well most of the fakers are here trying to get straight guys to give them pics or videos or jack off on camera for them, those are the easiest ones to spot because they all operate with the same M.O. and act in ways and say certain things that no girl would say. They also usually have pics up that they've stolen, sometimes of well known models or porn stars, so that's a dead giveaway. If they demand pics or vids and claim that their own cameras are broken and can't produce new pictures or want you to cam for them and say their own webcam is broken or something like that, that's also a pretty good sign.

    Some of the points already made are probably right on... anyone obsessed with anatomy, either their own tits or your cock size, is probably a guy. Anyone who has a SN suggesting they're some kind of easy slut is probably also a guy, or maybe someone selling a website. Guys in general take the initiative more, are more aggressive about turning the conversation sexual... there are a number of different tip-offs.
     
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    I was giving a little webcam show for someone I thought was a girl, who I met in a chat room.... After I was done, the person watching sent me a message saying HA HA, you're a fag cause I'm (the person watching) a guy.

    I couldn't stop laughing... cause frankly I didn't really mind showing for a guy, and technically he was the one watching a guy, not me. I don't understand why theses idiots pose as girls, there are plenty of men in here willing to show other men.
     
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    Max, that is so fucked up, and speaks to both mindseye's and NIC's posts.

    The dude tricking you is so uncomfortable with his own sexuality that he snares you into showing cock, and then calls you a fag! One of the darkest corners of the closet is internalized homophobia.

    It sucks the guy did that, but it is typically cool of you to take it in stride.
     
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    Like someone said before you can usually spot the people by their pics. If it looks like it was taken with a 2500$ camera in a studio with strobe lights there's a 90% chance it's fake.... Although some members here take great pics, Heather LouAnna for example.

    I've even seen people put up pics of 2 different girls... idiots.
     
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    This is slightly off topic, but I think the weirdest thing about this site, are the guys in here just to hook up with women.

    1- 80% of the members are men

    2- Alot (not most) of the women in here are looking or used to big cocks... so chances are they're not gonna be that impressed with an 8-9 inch one. And since that what turns most guys on... women's reaction, being the biggest etc. seems to me they're looking in the wrong place.
     
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    There are very very very very few real cocks that are actually over 9 inches. At least half the people here claiming more are lying.

    That said, yes, this is a pretty bad place to come to hook up with girls.

    Also, not every guy cares about being the biggest dick their gal has ever had. We're not all quite so insecure/egomaniacal.
     
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    I notice this behaviour specifics too..and I may can smell fakers vibes too.

    Most women know how to carry their breasts..LOL..fakers really dont...as like having balls..LOL...yep.

    Dont know who/why are behind it or do it but I think they are not going away and we learn to exist together because they are someone any ways...but who are they is a mystery.:biggrin1:
     
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    It just seems to be pathetically infantile.
     
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    Great thread and great responses. Try relating to people as yourself -- you might be surprised at the positive reactions you get from people here as well as IRL. If the goal of the charade is to watch a guy on cam, there are many guys here who will show off regardless of sexuality, like Max said. Don't disrespect them or yourself by lying and being manipulative.
     
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    <<<<<< Requsite pussy pic.

    "Oh, me so horny. Me love you longtime."


    I dunno, I've spoken to no less than three 13x8s so far and one 15x9:rolleyes:
    Believe it or not the 15x9 had a webcam, just no instrument of measurement. Go figure.
     
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    I've been on the net a long time I still don't quite know why a guy would fake being a woman, if it's in the hopes of getting someone on cam fair enough he has a shot at that, but if it's in the hopes of getting cybersex what can he possibly get out of some guy telling him what he'd like to do to his pussy? And yeah guys can spot some fakes, the obvious ones, if a woman comes in asking for photos or camming she's highly likely to be fake, we get so sick of guys wanting to cam for us it loses it's novelty in about ten minutes, but I think women can more easily feel if it's a woman or not, and I find it surprising how many 'women' are accepted as such by guys on the net when it's obvious to me (and probably most real women) that that lady has a dick. I've seen women with slutty nicks who are real women, I've seen women with a tit size in their nick who are real women, it's not always a sign of them being a fake, neither is if they're verbally assertive, I'm very assertive myself. Photos of course can be a big give away and these aren't always obvious, some fakers are a bit craftier than to steal photos of celebrities/famous porn stars, and just hunt around for a few pics that are of a similar body type - look at the hands on the pictures, they're often the giveaway when they've been a bit more canny.
     
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    The other penomena i've seen on here and maybe a little bit more on newbienudes.com are guys that have couple or cpl in their name but 10 pics of their cock and one of some woman. They're always looking to watch other couples on cam, but chances are it's just a guy alone. I guess they figure that more women will respond if they think it's a couple on the other end.
     
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    i think us guys know what's going on. The internet is actually split between men and women. However sites based on a sexual topic or just about any singles chat room often are 85% men. The problem of men pretending to be women won't go away very soon. It could be the same type of men who put on women's clothes.

    I would like to see the chat rooms setup with webcams that everyone can see who is who so there is less confusion.
     
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