Guys.. Seriouslly.. Wise up

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by FunLovin.1, Dec 4, 2007.

  1. FunLovin.1

    FunLovin.1 New Member

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    Im sorry but im fed up of getting messages like this:

    That is an example of one i received. The person in question joined the website in April.

    Why do guys type such bullshit :mad: I am so close to disabling my private messages.

    Who else gets private messages like that? Or maybe i should as who doesnt.

    Sorry i have a headache and need to have a rant :smile:
     
  2. tripod

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    It's got to be the worst part of being a female member here...
     
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  4. Revanchist

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    I guess when guys have it they want to show it off, maybe?

    Its unfortunate you have to go through that on a regular basis.
     
  5. southwest

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    Probably that's the reason why a lot of women leave, I reckon they think that all the guys on here are of the same mind. Untill you have been posting in the treads for a while do you start to find out who is trouble and who's nice.
    My advice is only p.m. with people you know from the forum and delete any from people you don't know.
     
  6. Industrialsize

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    There are also tons of threads that say the same thing asking you to look at their pictures, and invariably the pictures are of a tiny dick.....Can someone explain this behavior?
     
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    I wonder if there could be a forum modification which would allow users to accept private messages from people only with a certain amount of posts or a certain amount of time spent on the forum?

    That would be a good solution for someone in your situation if so.

    Woe is me as a new member, but I think it would be beneficial if it keeps people, especially the female members, from leaving. :)
     
  8. southwest

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    Serious attention seeking!
    I think there should be an auto answer for these people.... 'your cock is bigger than Cleopatras needle..... I want to hook up with you... I beg you, please you are soooo handsom.... Your threads are the best...' and so on:biggrin1:
     
  9. The Dragon

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    Funlovin I got the exact same message. If I wanted to comment on someones cock I'll do it on my terms.
     
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    Not a bad idea, I say set the number at (checks to see what his post count is ...).

    In reality, I don't think I've sent an unsolicited PM yet. Typically if I like what a woman here looks like, I'll leave a comment in her gallery.

    That said, I've been trying to learn how to stop judging people based on how I would handle a situation; and after thinking about it, it doesn't surprise me girls are hassled here.

    A shame.

    On the other hand, I'm all for being the hasslee (by girls) :)

    /eom
     
  11. 36DD

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    I'd say it is better than a recent one I received from a very hostile member which read as:

    Typically Stupid Republican Cunt

    Yes, that was his response he made to me after I sent him a pm apologizing for insinuating he wasn't forthcoming about his age. Nice guy...real nice guy. I have forwarded it to the moderators and will continue to send any pm's of that nature there. I don't understand why some people are such cowardly, unpleasant and abusive people.
     
  12. Principessa

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    ROTFLMAO :biggrin1: ALL the real women on this site get those kinds of private messages all the time and yes they are annoying!

    Though I must say, if I had received that particular message I would not have become as incensed as you have. I might have actually looked at his pics and responded, if only because he was incredibly polite and is also quite literate. That is a rare thing in PM's from men of any age on this site.

    I received this PM on Saturday, it is unfortunately typical of what I often get from some of the idiot men on this site. :mad::frown1:
    "damn ure hot ive never bin with a black woman b4 but i wood sure go 4 u."
    Those are the SPH losers. I hate those PM's the most! They are very sneaky they start out polite and nice and complimentary and then BAM! It's be honest, I can take it, Grrrrr.


    Thank you, that is exactly how I feel!
     
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    I'm always getting stupid PM's, I just ignore them. If i want to comment on somebodys photos then i will, but i didnt choose to join this site to look at photos and pacify insecure men with manhood worries.
     
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    What a jackass! Everyone knows vaginas are liberal Democrats. :tongue::biggrin1:

    Seriously though, he needs to be given a temporary ban and he needs to know why. Though my guess is he doesn't understand a lot of things about how to behave in a civil fashion.
     
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    NJ, leave it to you to actually get me to laugh about this one! Thanks sweetie, I can always count on you when I'm having a down moment! I'm still waiting to see if he has been banned, so far nothing.
     
  16. FunLovin.1

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    It might have been polite but its a pile of shit he said nj. He said he had just signed up and yet he has been a member since April. Its just a pre-made message. Just like many.
     
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    You're right -- men suck. Men are fucking retarded! <Men are really stupid and annoying.

    I cannot BELIEVE men come on a website about BIG DICKS and have the nerve to PM a woman asking her opinion about...ummm.. BIG DICKS.

    To me, it's a laugh riot that some of you "women" who complain about this actually have a penis tucked somewhere underneath keyboard you're typing on.
     
  18. Bbucko

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    Once in a while I get the same kind of PMs, which are easier to ignore than respond to.

    But every now and then I get a PM along the lines of "Hey, I'm coming to Miami for a vacation and would love to hook up" from someone who has obviously never read any of my substantive posts, especially regarding my HIV status or preference for rough sex, and who thinks I'd be happy getting blown or whatever.

    I work in a nightclub here in SoFla, so my usual response is to swing by for a drink and introduce himself on a night when I'll be working. One dim soul didn't find that enough and was pushing for contact info, phone number, etc. After several urgent PMs I finally responded with:

    To answer your question:
    8" cut

    I'm HIV+ and do not use condoms. I'm a ravenous top who edges, anything less than three hours is a boring quicky and I'm not interested.

    My preferred type is small/average hung, uncut, lots of overhang. The ideal candidate is not much taller than me (5'6) with what I like to call "child-bearing hips".

    I am an ass freak. Don't much care for tight hole and am a very patient, thorough fist top. For me, fisting's a means to an end, in order to get big, open wet, sloppy mancunt...twitching, needy gash looking for a good pounding and occasional piss wash-out. Will take piss from especially small cocks with copious foreskin overhang.

    I require constant titplay. You will be rewarded with a hard, throbbing, insistent cock and eventually, near-constant body orgasm with much shuddering/shaking/twitching. Straight gangbang/creampie porn is most appreciated.

    Other items on the menu, served a la carte:
    *Humiliation;
    *Spanking/slapping;
    *Spitting;
    *DP with toys (yours) and much extended assplay with toys;
    *Rough verbal treatment;
    *Pinning down/wrestling;
    *Farming out to other tops, groupplay.

    Other specialties considered by request.

    I require a thoroughly clean, freshly-douched ass.

    I do not party but am very cool with whatever party favors are required to bring the right subservient attitude and stamina to the bottom at his choice and discretion.

    The most important part of this is an HIV+ diagnosis. I do not use condoms and am absolutely not a gifter.

    This effectively ended our game of Post Office for good.
     
  19. Osiris

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    Funlovin, don't let them get to you. As you see the men who have replied to this thread are stand up guys and have a little more respect for a lady than you mystery PMer,
     
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    My favorite PM is the one that states"you are so good looking, mind if I PM you?"

    Yeah right. I don't even have a picture of myself on the site, and Hell yes I mind if you PM me with that BS.
    Sometimes I politely respond that the female members do not wish to be bothered with such garbage and I usually do not hear from them again. I hope it deters them from Pming other female members.

    Honeydew
     
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