Guys slapping eachother during sex ??

[RowanB]

Hi Guys,

I've been seeing this a lot in porn lately where the guys keep slapping each other in the face. What the hell is that all about? Why would you slap the guy who is busy sucking your cock? And they hit each other pretty fucking hard too!

More strange, a few hookups have even asked me to slap them... in the face... ??

Does anyone here get turned on by getting slapped / slapping some in the face during sex?

Anyone care to venture an opinion as to how this could possibly be a fun thing to do?

 

[prestige999]

When i'm bottoming it's sexy that guy is a little agresive to me, holding my mouth with his hands, spitting in my mouth, even little slap would be hot ... so why not But only in case that top hits bottom.

 

[RowanB]

When i'm bottoming it's sexy that guy is a little agresive to me, holding my mouth with his hands, spitting in my mouth, even little slap would be hot ... so why not But only in case that top hits bottom.

I do love a nice, rough, aggressive top, but I think I'd murder someone who tried to slap me in the face. lol

Take your aggression out on my ass instead - Fuck me hard, slap my ass, or even cock-slap me, but that's it...

 

[KennF]

I'm totally turned off by that level of aggression.

I don't want a guy slapping me, spitting in my face, or showing me any level of disrespect. No matter how hot the sex is, or the guy is, someone slaps me and I'm out of the moment and ready to deck the son of a bitch or punch his lights out.

I've had one guy who got into it once, I warned him not to do that. We got back into it, he did, and found himself on the on his ass (and not in a good way).

I understand some guys like to sense of control issues during sex, or submitting, or being in total control. If both people are mutually into it and agreeable, then that's there thing... I'm not one of them.

 

[notN2pussy]

That would be a turn off here, and likely a black eye for them, on the way to the door..

 

[RowanB]

I'm totally turned off by that level of aggression.

I don't want a guy slapping me, spitting in my face, or showing me any level of disrespect. No matter how hot the sex is, or the guy is, someone slaps me and I'm out of the moment and ready to deck the son of a bitch or punch his lights out.

I've had one guy who got into it once, I warned him not to do that. We got back into it, he did, and found himself on the on his ass (and not in a good way).

I understand some guys like to sense of control issues during sex, or submitting, or being in total control. If both people are mutually into it and agreeable, then that's there thing... I'm not one of them.

Couldn't agree more ! Also find the slapping and spitting at each other thing very disrespectful and quite vulgar.

I'm all for kink and fetish, but that's just too much. Don't understand why it has to turn violent and demeaning??

Try that shit with me and you're out the door, end of story.

 

[Exbiker]

It has to be consensual.

If it is, it can be fun.

I quite like it. I also whip people. Electrocute. Pour hot wax. Use nipple clamps. Gag.

But it's about doing something both want. Exploring. Maybe testing limits a little.

But only a little. It's about trust. And the top / Dom / "Master" has to care about the other guy.

 

[prestige999]

Like Exbiker said, i don't see a problem here, if both like it why not, if one of them doesn't like it, you are not gonna do it. Everyone has different limits, some don't like facefuck some does, for someone is cumming in mouth is disrespectful ... so ...

 

[RL_Praha]

It has to be consensual.

If it is, it can be fun.

I quite like it. I also whip people. Electrocute. Pour hot wax. Use nipple clamps. Gag.

But it's about doing something both want. Exploring. Maybe testing limits a little.

But only a little. It's about trust. And the top / Dom / "Master" has to care about the other guy.

I agree, it's on agreement. I have been on the receiving end of much of what you're described above, but have never had my face slapped. I always think I would have the urge to hit the guy back

 

[Exbiker]

I agree, it's on agreement. I have been on the receiving end of much of what you're described above, but have never had my face slapped. I always think I would have the urge to hit the guy back

Yeah. I get that.

But learning self control is part of it. A good Dom helps you learn, in a managed way ...

 

[RL_Praha]

Yeah. I get that.

But learning self control is part of it. A good Dom helps you learn, in a managed way ...

Well never say never. I've been beaten on the arse (especially), back of thighs, upper back and palms of hands. Face has been no go so far, but we'll see..

 

[summoner]

Like they say above, it has to be agreed. And for me it's not even about violence or disrespect or having someone who is a dom/top and a sub/bottom, that's another kind of kink. I'm more into the competitive aspects of sex (sometimes and with the right person), like erotic wrestling, fighting, boxing etc. Sometimes things get rough and it's pretty awesome In my case it's just about being competitive with another man and discover how hot that can be. Totally up for some slapping exchanges!

 

[328982]

But it's about doing something both want. Exploring. Maybe testing limits a little.

That sounds like a line from Prime Suspect - chilling!

 

[328982]

When i'm bottoming it's sexy that guy is a little agresive to me, holding my mouth with his hands, spitting in my mouth, even little slap would be hot ... so why not But only in case that top hits bottom.

All that gobbing I think is learned porno behaviour. The way they yack up and spit onto the cock, is that sexy? For me it's like 28 Days Later.

 

[Heat]

I've been asked to slap a guy a time or two. Not really my thing, but I complied. I do enjoy grabbing the guys face (with some strength), say by the jaw or hair and kissing him deeply -- eyes open for deep eye contact. That really gets me going. Nothing hotter than tongue fucking a sexy mouth while fucking a hungry hole. When I've bottomed, I enjoy the same.

 

[Infernal]

Not really my thing, but I did have a porn clip where these two guys were fucking really hard and the top hauled off and slapped the bottom across the face. In that context, it was hot, but not something I would enjoy doing, or having done to me.

 

[LeftCoast]

Slapping is sometimes done by guys in a non-sexual context to get adrenaline going. I've seen a guy slap himself or ask someone else to slap him before an athletic event or before a challenge. I also knew a guy once who would get an instant boner if you slapped him and he could never explain why. Slapping in a sexual context could also be adrenaline producing, increasing the level of sexual excitement. Some guys even slap their dick.

 

[elklindoxxx]

I like to smack a booty when I'm topping from behind. And that's as far as it goes.

 

[Bunny35]

I quite like a dominant top. I love having my face slapped with a big cock, dont mind being slapped (not too hard) while being fucked either. One guy i was with loved to call me names and spit in my mouth/face........It was a lot hotter than I expected!

 

[leykopygos]

I do love a nice, rough, aggressive top, but I think I'd murder someone who tried to slap me in the face. lol

Take your aggression out on my ass instead - Fuck me hard, slap my ass, or even cock-slap me, but that's it...

Completely agree. You can play but you do something I feel disrespects me and play time is over