My legs/butt are fairly furry, so it would look awkward if I shaved or overly trimmed everything down there. I'd have to get rid of ALL the hair below the waist, and I'm not willing to do that....so I just run through the pubic hair with my hair clippers on an 8. As for what I like on other dudes, I prefer a naturally hairy crotch, but can deal with trimmed. However, totally bald is just a turnoff