Ok, when people say they have a big cock, it's impressive (when it's true). But I want to know what gay guys would prefer the definition of "big" to be. Would you rather it be a long but normal thickness dick or a normal length with thick dick? I know some women prefer thick over long since their vaginas can stretch out enormously (obviously, since babies come out of there). But us guys, our assholes can't stretch out THAT much without tearing (which REALLY REALLY hurts, btw). So personally, I'd prefer long/normal-thickness over thick/normal-length. What do you think?