I was fed by a family that dominated by men, and the size issue was not such big issue among us even my dad got really huge stuffs!! (dick and balls) we all 4 sons once expected to see ourselves like him when we were children, and we grew up with some like him, not all, the only thing we like him is thickness.
we all 4 brothers were grew up in the same room till I was 16, without any concern about the size as we thought it was everyday life to see one another's morning woods and we sometimes showered together.
my dad and his brothers sometimes hanged around in the family get together days, we often saw our uncles' dicks and balls when peeing (which we all 4 bros thought that our dad was the thickest, and the youngest uncle got the longest, even soft!!).
at school, I think it's the same around the world that one of the boys chatting issue is the size matter. I was taught by my dad that don't show yours, try to avoid it!! it was non-sense!!
so for me, size hasn't been any matter until I started dating the last girl, who talked about this all the time... she induced me some sites that showed up those huge thing, and kept telling me that mine was thick like that or those, but looked shorter than that or those...
firstly, I was sick of it, after one year, she brought me more stuffs, like dildo of some male porn stars that she used to play with them or even some toys that so weird (for me)...
actually, I don't like it and I tried to be away from her, however, her sex was soooo goood.... till I can't stop our relationship...
until ... she broght a guy with really huge stuff to see me and asked me to have a trio sex with them ... and we separated since then. (the only reason I was away, not the size, but haveing sex with a man, it's never been in my mind even if I love seeing or sometimes commenting on men's physiques and their jewels)
it was really really weird that why she liked this thing, the size matter, as the past ladies I dated never put this as important as her...
anyway, I still believed my dad that "don't show yours no matter how, son" as he told me that it's a bless from nature to every man, you will never know how nature gives you the power to grow when you make love, it doesn't matter when you show yours off to make it count among men, it makes more sense if you use it right with a woman you love.
I know that it sounded like very idealistic, but he loved my mom and never made her cry since they got married, this was confirmed by my mom on the day he passed away. and she always tells me, son, be like your dad, don't make your wife cry.
unfortunately, I was unlucky in love, I just found those made me cry instead!!