guys who are vocal

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  1. dave2006

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    ladies have you been with a guy who was very vocal during sex? who it a turn on or turn off?
     
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    Groans, grunts, sighs, etc are great.
    Running commentary like it were a porn sports event is a turnoff.
     
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    haha, I like both.

    sometimes it's dirty talking, orders, the whole nine yards. sometimes it's just this roaring growl when he comes. all good all over. yum yum yum.
     
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    talking dirty and giving orders are great, but there is a point when it just becomes bad porn dialogue.
     
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    Silence is unacceptable to me.
     
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    especially if one is loud oneself. it makes a girl self-conscious.
     
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    I don't have a response to the thread topic title.

    I'm still marveling at your good grammar:

    'guys who are vocal' rather than "guys that are vocal" :rolleyes:

    Impressive.:wink:
     
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    Not yet very but just vocal...i like very much male natural expressions that comes out bcause they 'have' to but as already said by some dont like 'scripted' words too bcause will not touch and excite..better say little carrying real emotions than say too much 'windy' words...
     
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    I like to know the guy is really excited, but I also like everything to be natural and unscripted. So I'll go with what Gisella said. It's natural to let out grunts and other happy noises during sex so he should feel free to do that. Too much talking is a distraction though.
     
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    A man who is vocal is such a major turn on for me. Sexy, dirty talk is very exciting, also.

    When a man is vocal AND a sexy, dirty talker, there is not much that I won't do to please him. That combination absolutely drives me wild.

    I guess it's a major weakness for me :wink: .

    Hugs and Kisses,

    Karmen
     
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    it seems to be only you and I that like full sentences karmen... I must say I find it anything but distracting. more like uber-focusing.
     
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    I'm torn about it, really.

    I was with a guy onetime, who talked constantly, like I wasn't even there. lol He was pretty drunk at the time though. I had to actually stop blowing him and tell him to shut up.
     
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    that scene will be in my Great North American Novel

    too funny
     
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    Key words being "like I wasn't even there." I think for me a lot of it depends on what he's saying. It's such a turn-on for me if the guy is totally into my pleasure, so I don't mind a little banter based on that, like asking me rhetorically if I like that, how does that feel, or telling me how hard he's gonna make me cum (provided he can back it up of course :tongue: ). Running commentaries are no good, and I'm not a huge fan of too much talking period because it does get to be a distraction.
     
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    I think it's funny when you're blowing a guy and get goes "YEAH, suck that cock."

    like...I'm already doing it. lol I guess it helps the guy get off. I guess I shouldn't let it bother me...Nothing like getting all technical and serious about shit while you've got a cock in your mouth. lol
     
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    alien here.with my wife i'm always vocal.she doesn't like the "porn talk" but she does really like me to express how she's doing what only she can do to me,and when the moment is there,i just can't help it,i just EXPLODE,literally and vocally.one of the supplements i take(all natural),provides for the most insanely intense feelings.i just give in to it completely.makes me dizzy!
     
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    LOL. Very true. Of course I've been known to say "fuck me" when the guy is already doing just that, so I suppose it's the same thing :confused: . Just indulging in the moment.
     
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    when i was younger,that talk was the rule rather than the exception.now when my cock is in her mouth,i can hardly speak.we've been together for so long,she knows she can get me off in 3 minutes or string it out for hours.there's talk and then there's talk!
     
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    hey karmen,when do we get to see the rest???????
     
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    Seriously, don't be such a nit.
     
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