Guys Who Like to Watch Big Cocks

[AlphaMale]

my whole point is that even if she found out he specifically wanted to watch big dicks bang hot chicks in his porn, and she DIDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY and automatically thought he was bi or gay, then she's an idiot. lol.

Yep and I totally agree with you! You're 100% right! :biggrin1:

I don't, however, think that most girls think the same as you. I think most straight acting guys are like my homophobic married friend, and most girls would take the opposite view point of you for this subject... as wrong as they both may be for their viewpoints, at least where I live that is the societal norm.

But again, I think what you're saying is 100% right and I agree with you - that is how it should be!

 

[Ramsey]

Yeah on the guy's face is the worst! Who wants to see some porn guy giving his goofy O face look as he blows his load?

I agree completely! I mean if it's gay porn it's one thing, but if it's straight porn... then WHY! Let's see her reaction instead, or watch the cum fly.

But actually dick size in general doesn't matter to me, it's seeing the ladies really enjoying it, that's what I love seeing.

 

[Nekoman]

my whole point is that even if she found out he specifically wanted to watch big dicks bang hot chicks in his porn, and she DIDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY and automatically thought he was bi or gay, then she's an idiot. lol.

Cool. Would you also say it's cool for me to fantasize -- and talk about the fantasy -- of my gf/wife sucking a huge cock?

What would you do if your bf said -- I think about you sucking some guy's big dick? Would that weird you out? Would you talk about it with him?

Is there something creepy about him getting off on you with a big dick that's not his??

 

[voidout]

Cool. Would you also say it's cool for me to fantasize -- and talk about the fantasy -- of my gf/wife sucking a huge cock?

What would you do if your bf said -- I think about you sucking some guy's big dick? Would that weird you out? Would you talk about it with him?

Is there something creepy about him getting off on you with a big dick that's not his??

absolutely not.
some people are into watching, there are swingers, threesomes, foursomes, the list goes on and on...

infact i've seen people advertise for a possible large member to join them and their wife/gf on this website. it's perfectly natural to explore your sexuality like that, so long as everyone involved is comfortable with the situation...

besides, you might not even like it once it happens! there are plenty of things i've fantasized about, but the thought of actually doing it, or when it did happen, has completely turned me off.

sexual exploration and fantasies are a natural curiosity to both men and women.

 

[Enid]

Actually I just have to chip in a bit, as I love words.

The Compact Oxford English Dictionary online (the Oxford English Dictionary is the dictionary for word geeks) defines homosexual [adjective] as feeling or involving sexual attraction to people of one's own sex and [noun] as a homosexual person. The word comes from both Latin and Greek roots and literally translates to "same sex".

Gay [adjective] is defined as homosexual, relating to homosexuals, dated: light-hearted and carefree, and dated: brightly coloured; showy. Under usage it states that gay is now a standard term for homosexual. As a result, it is now very difficult to use gay in its earlier meanings 'carefree' or ‘bright and showy’ without arousing a sense of double entendre. Gay in its modern sense typically refers to men, lesbian being the standard term for homosexual women.

The word homophile is an alternative to the word homosexual, preferred by some because it emphasizes love.

To most people though, sexuality is so inseparable from love that the terms homophilia and heterophilia are rarely used while homosexual and heterosexual are in general use.

 

[hotwetkiss]

Just a little curious -- what do you girls think when guys show a real interest in watching guys with really big cocks?

If your boyfriend gets real turned on by very big ones in action, do you ever think it's because he's gay or bi? Or do you just think it's naturally to like 'em that way.

Is it a sign of some kind of gayness to be extra excited by big dicks --
or do you just chalk it up to nature?

I would chalk it up to nature. I'm what I consider a regular straight woman but I would be lying if I said I didn't find a beautiful naked woman erotic or stimulating. I presume it's the same for guys watching other guys. There is curiosity as to what members of the same sex have to offer, if you get my drift.

 

[latinluva]

The term gay is so defining today, its a label that only a true gay man would wear comfortably. I like both but happen to be a lil fem and very submissive. Bisexuality, pansexuality and homosexuality are all terms that people try to develop to identify ones sexuality. Some men think other men are good looking, but aren't gay or even close to gay. Pretty soon we all will be numbers on the Kinsey scale. Kinda like on this site O%-100%. So one day they might ask if your gay, and I'll say I'm a 4 out of 10. But I tend to be sexually attracted to clean, healthy, funny and smart people. As far as porn, I wouldn't think watching big dick porn with a gf would mean a guy is gay or has gay tendencies. If ya watched a small dick porn, I think we'd all laugh and say how stupid this porn is.

 

[AlphaMale]

Actually I just have to chip in a bit, as I love words.

The Compact Oxford English Dictionary online (the Oxford English Dictionary is the dictionary for word geeks) defines homosexual [adjective] as feeling or involving sexual attraction to people of one's own sex and [noun] as a homosexual person. The word comes from both Latin and Greek roots and literally translates to "same sex".

Gay [adjective] is defined as homosexual, relating to homosexuals, dated: light-hearted and carefree, and dated: brightly coloured; showy. Under usage it states that gay is now a standard term for homosexual. As a result, it is now very difficult to use gay in its earlier meanings 'carefree' or ‘bright and showy’ without arousing a sense of double entendre. Gay in its modern sense typically refers to men, lesbian being the standard term for homosexual women.

The word homophile is an alternative to the word homosexual, preferred by some because it emphasizes love.

To most people though, sexuality is so inseparable from love that the terms homophilia and heterophilia are rarely used while homosexual and heterosexual are in general use.

I was under the impression that the origin of the words, homo + sexual was because of GENDER, not sexuality per se. Like you mentioned from Greek and Latin literally translated as "same sex", not necessarily "having sex with your same sex"... although it has grown to mean that nowadays, much like gay.

I.e. If you were asked, what is your sex? You'd answer gender and not orientation.

And for whatever reason the word is not 'homosex', it's homosexual, and because it contains the words "sexual" (i.e. having sex) and not just "sex" (i.e. gender) people just assume it's "having sex with your same sex" and not just "involving your own sex". Or I don't know could be the other way around too, if the word was "homosex" lol.

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Not sure exactly about the validity of every dictionary, but one of the definitions from dictionary.com is along the lines of what I'm talking about.

Homosexual Definition | Definition of Homosexual at Dictionary.com

"–adjective

1.of, pertaining to, or exhibiting homosexuality.

2.of, pertaining to, or noting the same sex."

So am I incorrect in assuming that it can be used the way I'd like to use it? :tongue:

 

[latinluva]

Homosexuality is the sexual attraction to the same sex by human beings. Homo being human being like homosapien. And sexuality meaning "physical attraction or lust for sexual activity".

Gay is the term to define a males desire to have a relationship with a man and not with a woman, it can be romantic, sexual or even non physical.

This is how I would define the two, based on those I grew up with and sex classes in school.

 

[Enid]

You should ask our resident genius, Calboner. I know he'd know for sure. :-D

My Latin is rusty, and I never took Greek but...I believe the word is taken from the Greek homo or homos meaning same, and Medieval Latin sexualis (I am uncertain about Medieval Latin's meaning of sexualis) or Classical Latin sexus (the condition of being male or female). So in the strictest sense you're right but I don't know about common usage. I do know the Oxford English Dictionary is the industry standard and Webster's is looked down upon.

This may be of interest to you:

Online Etymology Dictionary


I'll check my Oxford when I get home. All I have here is access to the compact version online.

 

[Nekoman]

absolutely not.
some people are into watching, there are swingers, threesomes, foursomes, the list goes on and on...

infact i've seen people advertise for a possible large member to join them and their wife/gf on this website. it's perfectly natural to explore your sexuality like that, so long as everyone involved is comfortable with the situation...

besides, you might not even like it once it happens! there are plenty of things i've fantasized about, but the thought of actually doing it, or when it did happen, has completely turned me off.

sexual exploration and fantasies are a natural curiosity to both men and women.

Have you ever talked about your past "experiences" to guy to turn him on?

Would you tell him about that huge one you had, if he wanted to hear it?

And if you would, please, tell me how to get my wife to talk about such things, I think she's shy when it comes to talking about her past encounters.

 

[voidout]

I would chalk it up to nature. I'm what I consider a regular straight woman but I would be lying if I said I didn't find a beautiful naked woman erotic or stimulating. I presume it's the same for guys watching other guys. There is curiosity as to what members of the same sex have to offer, if you get my drift.

+1.

 

[voidout]

Have you ever talked about your past "experiences" to guy to turn him on?

Would you tell him about that huge one you had, if he wanted to hear it?

And if you would, please, tell me how to get my wife to talk about such things, I think she's shy when it comes to talking about her past encounters.

I don't think you really need anyone's advice on this. Just start talking about it, or ask her about her past experiences. Either she'll tell you she finds talking about it a turn off, or she'll find it exciting and erotic.

Also, to answer your first question, no. I don't find talking about past experiences erotic, and I generally hate explaining myself or stories in RL. I've also never had a huge guy. I don't really apply.

 

[nicenycdick]

... I've also never had a huge guy. I don't really apply.

Never!?

Awwww...you poor girl.

 

[voidout]

Never!?

Awwww...you poor girl.

 

[Nekoman]

I don't think you really need anyone's advice on this. Just start talking about it, or ask her about her past experiences. Either she'll tell you she finds talking about it a turn off, or she'll find it exciting and erotic.

Also, to answer your first question, no. I don't find talking about past experiences erotic, and I generally hate explaining myself or stories in RL. I've also never had a huge guy. I don't really apply.

You may be asked to give some details, you know.... like, the biggest you've had..... I don't know, some of us may be interested...

 

[voidout]

You may be asked to give some details, you know.... like, the biggest you've had..... I don't know, some of us may be interested...

uhh...was that your way of asking?

 

[Nekoman]

uhh...was that your way of asking?

No pressure really, just for information sake...

Um, yeah, give us the details, if you don't mind giving us a little thrill.

 

[voidout]

No pressure really, just for information sake...

Um, yeah, give us the details, if you don't mind giving us a little thrill.

haha. nahhhh...

all i'll say is that they were average.

 

[Ramsey]

And did they "leave you with a yearning for huge cock"? Did they leave an empty spot in the universe of your soul? You know, because only huge cocks can fill that space. Anything less than elephantine just wouldn't be believable on this forum.