Guys who like you unshaved- turnoff?

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  1. chaosaysmu

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    Personally, I prefer a woman to go natural, whether that means she only has a little bit of hair, or a lot. I can't stand the look or feel of stubble, or even recently shaved skin, and admittedly I've got a thing for girls with denser body hair. I've heard from many female friends, though, that they dislike the feeling of going unshaved, because it doesn't feel "clean"; this leads me to wonder:

    Does it bother you when a guy (or girl, if that's your preference) says he prefers it when you don't shave?
     
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    I trimmed not shaven, yes, been criticized a lot. Don't like bald dick/pussy either

    minority here, bring back the 70's
     
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    Criticized for trimming, or for not shaving?
     
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    Trimmed is a good look. You shouldn't be criticised sexxxx
     
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    i like hairy on both as well
     
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    Does it bother me? No, I'm relieved. Far more often, I've come across guys who make it clear that they think I'm hot anyway, but would prefer me shaven. I immediately cut them out of my sex life. I don't want to be with anyone who's not cool w/me as is.
     
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    i'm only bothered if you think your opinion should change my behaviour.

    my pubes. my choice.
     
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    I love being clean, shaved, and am going through laser hair removal. Having done this has been the bes choice for me, providing the best sexual experiences ever! I enourage women to go the laser hair removal route, rather than shaving, as shaving just creates ingrown hairs, stubble, and bit of a weird feeling... Even an ugly five o'clock shadow witin a day or so, which is not very feminine nor attractive, at least to me!

    Save your money if need be and just do it. Your laser hair removal specialist will work with you to leave strip or patch or whatever you want. I had mine removed all together, and absolutely love it, haven't had any complaints in person!

    I also love it when a man shaves as well, it's soooo much nice and more enjoyable for both!
     
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    I like to trim, but if a guy told me he liked natural i guess id be happy that i didnt have to worry about keeping smooth or being stubbly anymore
     
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    Good for you, but the question is about women who DON'T shave.
     
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    Trimmed does for me.
     
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    Im not keen on women with over grown pubic hair, its like licking a rats back:biggrin1:
     
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    i look an feel more clean when shaved, plus i don't itch to death in the hot summer. but the main reason i shave, [ 2 nd actually] is hubby prefers it smooth. says [ jokingly of course] that when he wants to floss his teeth he would rather use a dental floss. an so he shaves it for me, i should say keeps it shaved for me. i prefer a nice trim on a guy tho, as a hairless cock looks like a plucked chicken to me. but some like it i guess so good for them. but yes it use to bother me when a guy would take it upon himself to ridicule me for having hair also didn't like it the other way around when they said this either. my body my pubes. like i read some where else here i think. but myself i prefer to keep hair free their for my own self and the clean feeling as well. and when a guy didn't like the way i looked down their he didnt get a second chance to change his mind. an they still wouldnt.
     
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    I prefer being clean shaven too...much like previous reasons I feel sexier and cleaner. I like my fella trimmed aswell...love the smooth feeling!!! It also looks better when the camera comes out! lol
     
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    I am not that hairy even when full bush so i guess ive not had any complaints. I dont mind picking a hair out of my mouth every now and again. I dont see what the big deal is. Everyone has to pick a hair out every now and again- thats just the way it goes.

    Shaving wouldnt eliminate me getting a hair in my mouth, his dense chest hair and tummy hairs rub off all the time on my sweaty skin.

    I dont get this generation of being hairless is cool and somehow having pubic hair is considered disgusting. It's no more disgusting as foreskin to me, its natural and in fact very normal.

    The pubic hair has a purpose and i happen to enjoy its purpose of keeping pheromones there for you to smell, keeps your pubis from getting chapped during sexual positions and i also LOVE LOVE LOVE the look of a man and a womans body when they are well out of puberty. Nothing sexier than a young looking man with a huge bushel of pubes under there.
     
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    OK, ladies: good for those of you who like to shave, but THAT'S NOT THE TOPIC! This is about women who DON'T shave.
     
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    I just typed out a hella long response about why i keep my pubic hair and this is what i get? .....mmmmmkay
     
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    Sorry, that was in reply to several of the previous ones. I guess was still typing it while you were posting, I had a delay.
     
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    I guess girls who really prefer themselves shaved would find it a turnoff and those who like their pubes wouldn't be bothered by such a request :confused:
     
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    It's odd that you feel this way about pubic hair but wrote, the other day, that you "don't want to see" armpit hair. Why is there such a difference between the two in your mind? Both are natural. I love both on myself and others.
     
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