I have noticed in the swinging world a number of guys who will have ads with their nude pictures posted and self-describe themselves as very well-endowed. However, you can see from their pictures that this simply is not the case. Typically, the guy appears in the average to large average range. Yet, in reading the content of their ad they seem very sincere in their belief. Now, it makes no difference to me whether they want to fantasize about it but this doesn't seem to be the agenda. My question is how does this false perception about themselves occur? I mean prior to the internet, you could look at a well-endowed guy in a video and conclude that he is a porn actor with extreme proportions and think that you still have a relatively big one. But, now a days with the internet, the tons of pictures, videos, and similar content that we all are bombarded with or available everyday, I would think we all sort of know where we stand in terms of size. Am I wrong? Again, assuming the person is not trying to lie what is that all about? And, does this same thing exist in other situations. Have any of you encountered people that talk about their big dick, etc. and it really isn't?
Guys who think they are hung but aren't.
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rob_just_rob
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It is possible that the man has only had sex with a lover who has only seen smaller cocks and so complimented him on his larger (than she has seen) size.
Maybe he is a shower and feels big around other men in the showers.
Maybe he has never compared himself in real life with someone that is trulybig:wink:
I have the opposite problem to that guy, although the dimensions tell me that I'm big, I still find it hard to believe.
Maybe he is a shower and feels big around other men in the showers.
Maybe he has never compared himself in real life with someone that is trulybig:wink:
I have the opposite problem to that guy, although the dimensions tell me that I'm big, I still find it hard to believe.
That's exactly how I am. I've never had sex with a girl that wasn't ranting and raving about how big I was (I'm 8-8.5x6 any given Sunday and 9-9.5x7 on my "good" days :tongue: ), but I still don't necessarily feel like I have a humungous penis.
Maybe it's because I'm used to it, or because I always thought guys had penisis my size or bigger from watching porn, heh.
Maybe he was lying, trying to attract more partners?
Or maybe he honestly didn't know there are bigger cocks than his...maybe if he was older and not internet savvy that would be the case.
I have a friend who says he's hung although his soft penis is really small. He says it grows a lot...meh.
Or maybe he honestly didn't know there are bigger cocks than his...maybe if he was older and not internet savvy that would be the case.
I have a friend who says he's hung although his soft penis is really small. He says it grows a lot...meh.
kenshin_281
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Though I have had people say that my cock is a decent size I have never really thought that I was that hung. But then there have been those people that I knew in HS through basketball that thought that they were huge and then it turns out that their dick flacid was the size of a concorde grape go figure lol.
Hey now, my penis grows quite a lot as well =P In fact when I'm playing sports it can become quite small (literally 1-3 inches), but hard is a different story.
My gf once encountered a guy who's dick was not even 5 inches long erect, very thin, and had an upward hook curve. The guy was very proud of what he had. She also had a guy who she simply refers to as "crayon". Both of these small guys were proud of what they had and presented their penises to be the glory of their manhood.
She's seen plenty of 7+-inchers, but at most maybe one that was 8 inches or close to it (and she's seen over 20 erect penises). And she has yet to have slept with a guy with a thicker penis than me, and I'm 7 inches hard, sometimes 7.25 when really into it, and about 6 inches around.
There are guys with huge girths and shorter lengths that girls will classify as hung. Look at Jimi Hendrix. He's been widely known to have possessed a "monstrous member", but few people really know that though he was indeed as thick as a woman's forearm, he was only average length. Hendrix was just short of 6 inches long, and 6.25" around. And that myth has stood for almost 40 years!
I had a friend who used to make me feel like shit because he would brag about his thick 8.5"-9" dick. It turns out that he's at best 6 inches hard, and noticeably thinner than me at his thickest point. Guys who brag usually end up smaller than me -- and always thinner.
Plenty of guys would like people to think that they're hung. Plenty of girls like to think their bf's are hung. Let sleeping dogs lie, I say.
I prefer the opposite -- it makes it more of a shock when she or he drops your pants :tongue:. And though I acknowledge there are much bigger than me out there, they're apparently not very easily found, so I can gain at least a local reputation for being hung.
She's seen plenty of 7+-inchers, but at most maybe one that was 8 inches or close to it (and she's seen over 20 erect penises). And she has yet to have slept with a guy with a thicker penis than me, and I'm 7 inches hard, sometimes 7.25 when really into it, and about 6 inches around.
There are guys with huge girths and shorter lengths that girls will classify as hung. Look at Jimi Hendrix. He's been widely known to have possessed a "monstrous member", but few people really know that though he was indeed as thick as a woman's forearm, he was only average length. Hendrix was just short of 6 inches long, and 6.25" around. And that myth has stood for almost 40 years!
I had a friend who used to make me feel like shit because he would brag about his thick 8.5"-9" dick. It turns out that he's at best 6 inches hard, and noticeably thinner than me at his thickest point. Guys who brag usually end up smaller than me -- and always thinner.
Plenty of guys would like people to think that they're hung. Plenty of girls like to think their bf's are hung. Let sleeping dogs lie, I say.
I prefer the opposite -- it makes it more of a shock when she or he drops your pants :tongue:. And though I acknowledge there are much bigger than me out there, they're apparently not very easily found, so I can gain at least a local reputation for being hung.
Do not regard myself as Horse Hung but hung yes. 9" Hate to admit it but hell....been with a few guys who advertised themselves a certain size and no no no way were they that size. Othelo is one - 12" he claims. no way, ten yes,
Been with loads of guys and believe me any over 9" are very hard to find.
Been with loads of guys and believe me any over 9" are very hard to find.
JWright said:
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Hmmm...I'm starting to think that guys between 8" and 9" by 5,5" to 6" are the ones who carry this syndrome " I dont feel i have a big one"...and we girlfriends of those think: or they are bananas or something else is going on...unbeliavable, guys!
You syndrome ones drive us crazy!
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Yeah, I have a friend like this. Always talkin about how big he is. I finally told him to prove it one time. He did... sort of. He was admittedly a bit thick, but only about an average 6" in length. It looked nice, but in no way "hung", and I wasn't really sure what to say when he said, "See? Told ya. You'd squeal so bad if I ever did you with this."
I've also see the opposite though. Had a buddy tell me, "Nah, we're about the same size. I'm only average... 'bout 8 inches." Well, I'm not 8", and held them next to each other and showed him the difference, and he insisted they looked the same.
I've also see the opposite though. Had a buddy tell me, "Nah, we're about the same size. I'm only average... 'bout 8 inches." Well, I'm not 8", and held them next to each other and showed him the difference, and he insisted they looked the same.
just from my experience
like some of us have said, i never thought i was big until a few girls told me i was...and i still dont let it stay in my head, cuz i always remind myself that size is relative to each girl...for example, i was with a girl who had only been with 2 guys before me, and each was literally 4 inches hard...i didnt believe her til he showed me pix...she also said she met a guy with 11 inches, and refused to fuck him cuz she was scared heh...so my 7-8 was big for her, but not too intimidating
and there have been times where i hear a girl or guy say "wow, that dick is huge" and i look at it & say "eh, i'm unimpressed"...so i think it just matters as to how many dicks a person has seen in their life...so maybe these guys who claim to be huge are just lucky to have only been with girls who dont know any better :wink:
like some of us have said, i never thought i was big until a few girls told me i was...and i still dont let it stay in my head, cuz i always remind myself that size is relative to each girl...for example, i was with a girl who had only been with 2 guys before me, and each was literally 4 inches hard...i didnt believe her til he showed me pix...she also said she met a guy with 11 inches, and refused to fuck him cuz she was scared heh...so my 7-8 was big for her, but not too intimidating
and there have been times where i hear a girl or guy say "wow, that dick is huge" and i look at it & say "eh, i'm unimpressed"...so i think it just matters as to how many dicks a person has seen in their life...so maybe these guys who claim to be huge are just lucky to have only been with girls who dont know any better :wink:
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Gisella said::33:
Hmmm...I'm starting to think that guys between 8" and 9" by 5,5" to 6" are the ones who carry this syndrome " I dont feel i have a big one"...and we girlfriends of those think: or they are bananas or something else is going on...unbeliavable, guys!
You syndrome ones drive us crazy!
The "syndrome" I think is a product of the porn industry. I am new here signed up about two weeks ago, and learned a few things I did not know. I am in my mid 30s and have seen my fair share of porn, with the male stars all advertised with 10",12" up to like 18" dicks, pounding away on these women screaming with pleasure. That with the male instinct to always be the biggest
and best at everything, some guys are worse than others. I myself believed all of this, I still feel that I am big but hot huge at 8.5" x 6.25" even though more women have had problems with my size than seem to enjoy it. That is what brought me here in the fist place, now I am being told that all that 12"+ penis size is all crap except in VERY rare occasions, and that john holmes is only like 8 or 9 inches. Now, here I am up until a few weeks ago unable to understand why all the problems, I am not saying sex has been imposable but I have had only two women were I did not have to worry about hurting them. During sex GOOD sex you need to be able to let go in order to connect with your partner if you know what I mean
. When you have to worry about hurting her and she has to worry being hurt it is hard if not impossible to make that connection. Everything I have learned here makes sense to to me but I am still trying to convince my self. So maybe we all suffer a little of the "syndrome" :biggrin1: "Looking for that girl"
Randll86 said:The "syndrome" I think is a product of the porn industry. I am new here signed up about two weeks ago, and learned a few things I did not know. I am in my mid 30s and have seen my fair share of porn, with the male stars all advertised with 10",12" up to like 18" dicks, pounding away on these women screaming with pleasure. That with the male instinct to always be the biggest
and best at everything, some guys are worse than others. I myself believed all of this, I still feel that I am big but hot huge at 8.5" x 6.25" even though more women have had problems with my size than seem to enjoy it. That is what brought me here in the fist place, now I am being told that all that 12"+ penis size is all crap except in VERY rare occasions, and that john holmes is only like 8 or 9 inches. Now, here I am up until a few weeks ago unable to understand why all the problems, I am not saying sex has been imposable but I have had only two women were I did not have to worry about hurting them. During sex GOOD sex you need to be able to let go in order to connect with your partner if you know what I mean
"Looking for that girl"
Randll ...you have a just perfectly big and delicious size..what can i say more? take your time and you will soon be convinced!
Yes, we all have our particular syndromes mine is 'i need girth 5,5' to 6,5" (like yours) to match my natural wetness production, like a glove...:biggrin1:
You see? We are great!!!!
SurferGirlCA
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Ummm, yeah, I don't think the original thread idea pertains to you, JWright. :tongue:JWright said:
P.S. Actually my ex was one of "those guys"; he was about 5.5" hard but told me 3-5" was "normal" ergo he was "a bigger guy." He was way more obsessed with his penis and its size than I ever was; I would rather he focus more on being a better lover.
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