Guys I have questions about the gym. I work out about 5 days a week and I see some guys on a fairly regular basis. I go in the later afternoon or evening because I like to go when there are a lot of people around (helps my energy level). So what I want to know is WHY does it seem like guys don't notice me, or ever look at me? First of all, I am not a supermodel but I'm tall, in good shape and usually wear rather fitted tops at the gym. Nobody looks at me...nobody makes eye contact...the older guys with big bellies, the young college guys, big, small whatever nobody ever looks, nobody smiles. They all seem to be talking to eachother or concentrating on the machines. Now...before you think I'm vain...It just seems like human nature that people as they pass eachother would naturally look, smile or generally acknowledge eachother, right??? Of course I want to hot guys to look at me, god knows I look at them (flirt with my eyes) but they dont seem to notice. One thing is, my trainer told me that maybe guys who REALLY arent looking are the ones who are looking but trying not to look. Could this be true? Its giving me a complex! Do you look??? Do you flirt?? Do you even notice the girls at the gym? Do you try not to look? BTW I dont see any guys checking out any girls so I dont think it's just me..