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Hey guys,
I was wondering if anyone has gone through anything similar and could give me some advice. I’m a normal guy, 26 now. And I feel like I have terrible daddy issues. I identify as straight but I have a yearning for the protection of an older man. I would like to spend time him maybe have his arm around me or lead me by the hand. I would like watch him shower or shave or pee even, but not have sex. I don’t really want to be touched sexually, I just love the idea of being a beta to an alpha dad type and while it turns me on, I don’t want to have sex or be touched by him in a sexual way.
I have spoken with 2 therapists about it and they just try to convince me im gay which isn’t the case because my attraction to them isn’t sexual, I again, don’t want to have sex with them at all. I like dads, coaches, doctors etc. but its debilitating because my urge for them is sometimes greater than it is for women even though I don’t want sex or a relationship with one, I really just want a dad.
I’m young and single and would like to deal with it and get on with my life but I cant find anyone that can tell me how. Any stories or advice would be great.
Thanks,
Mike
I was wondering if anyone has gone through anything similar and could give me some advice. I’m a normal guy, 26 now. And I feel like I have terrible daddy issues. I identify as straight but I have a yearning for the protection of an older man. I would like to spend time him maybe have his arm around me or lead me by the hand. I would like watch him shower or shave or pee even, but not have sex. I don’t really want to be touched sexually, I just love the idea of being a beta to an alpha dad type and while it turns me on, I don’t want to have sex or be touched by him in a sexual way.
I have spoken with 2 therapists about it and they just try to convince me im gay which isn’t the case because my attraction to them isn’t sexual, I again, don’t want to have sex with them at all. I like dads, coaches, doctors etc. but its debilitating because my urge for them is sometimes greater than it is for women even though I don’t want sex or a relationship with one, I really just want a dad.
I’m young and single and would like to deal with it and get on with my life but I cant find anyone that can tell me how. Any stories or advice would be great.
Thanks,
Mike