Gym partner

[lynxz23]

Hi guys I wanted some feedback on this situation so I joined a new gym last year and this guy and I became training partners honestly since training with him I made the most progress in the gym than I have in years. So he left to go on vaca (2 weeks) when he came back he acted like he never met me before and he started training with a new guy. So I decided hey I will just train solo again,one day i brought one of my friends to the gym with me on a day pass and my former partner came in my friend said to me hey those two guys are checking you out ( former gym partner and his new workout partner) I never noticed before because honestly when I am in the gym I just concentrate on what I am doing but since he pointed out its fairly obvious both of them are checking me out. Then the next day my former gym partner somehow remembers me again and speaks to me like normal I am thinking wtf is he bipolar so what do you guys think is up with this dude.

 

[hung_cock_007]

MAYBE he thought you were looking for a gay relationship..realized you werent, found someone else and moved on. But when he saw you with your friend, he may have thought you reconsidered and he got re-intrested??

 

[putputt00]

he was being an ass, that's my opinion, maybe i'm wrong

 

[lynxz23]

MAYBE he thought you were looking for a gay relationship..realized you werent, found someone else and moved on. But when he saw you with your friend, he may have thought you reconsidered and he got re-intrested??

Interesting view thanks for the feedback its funny you said that but you might be right he only started speaking back to me when I brought my friend. I never got a gay vibe from him until my friend pointed out the looking

 

[lynxz23]

he was being an ass, that's my opinion, maybe i'm wrong

Lol I just found the whole situation to be weird but hey they are some strange people out there

 

[Padad7]

I think u nailed it..

 

[CUBE]

If you trained with him for a year I think it is odd that he would be distant. I would call him on it. He comes up and I would say I thought maybe you were mad at me as you didn't speak to me before. What is up. Are we OK. I would just be curious but that is just me

 

[lynxz23]

If you trained with him for a year I think it is odd that he would be distant. I would call him on it. He comes up and I would say I thought maybe you were mad at me as you didn't speak to me before. What is up. Are we OK. I would just be curious but that is just me

We trained for about 4-5 months I am not a confrontational person so I just let it slide and training solo has been going good

 

[D_22]

I'd leave it alone. Just seem like idiotic BS. People like that aren't worth my time.

 

[PacknThick]

Yeah thats def weird. Sounds like he got jealous when you were with another dude even though he was with a guy too. Very odd but hey you are solo now and the leash was cut for a good reason.

 

[hairyversmuscle]

Sometimes people just have bad days. Unless you ask, you will never know. There is only one person who knows why he didn't talk to you and that is him. You clearly want to find out why, so asking a bunch of huge cocked online buds isn't going to get you to the answer, politely ask him if your friendship is all good.

 

[buzzrider7]

Another vote for communication. If you're curious, then ask him and you'll probably get an answer that makes sense. If he closes up and doesn't want to explain, then move on. I think all too often a misunderstanding is too quickly chalked up as the other person being an ass, when all it takes is a little authentic communication to clear things up and realize that this isn't the case at all. (Of course this isn't true all the time, but you'll never know unless you ask, and since you're posting about it here, it's clear you are interested in knowing what was going on.) Good luck.

 

[crescendo69]

I, too, have been dropped by a homophobic gym partner. I now think he had unresolved issues.

 

[lynxz23]

I, too, have been dropped by a homophobic gym partner. I now think he had unresolved issues.

Thanks for the response but I'm not gay

 

[lynxz23]

Another vote for communication. If you're curious, then ask him and you'll probably get an answer that makes sense. If he closes up and doesn't want to explain, then move on. I think all too often a misunderstanding is too quickly chalked up as the other person being an ass, when all it takes is a little authentic communication to clear things up and realize that this isn't the case at all. (Of course this isn't true all the time, but you'll never know unless you ask, and since you're posting about it here, it's clear you are interested in knowing what was going on.) Good luck.[/

I am curious but not curious enough to ask I just find the staring from his new gym partner a little too weird for me other than that working out solo is what I am accustomed to now .

 

[crescendo69]

Thanks for the response but I'm not gay

Sorry I phrased that wrong..

I just meant he may have thought so.

 

[lynxz23]

Sometimes people just have bad days. Unless you ask, you will never know. There is only one person who knows why he didn't talk to you and that is him. You clearly want to find out why, so asking a bunch of huge cocked online buds isn't going to get you to the answer, politely ask him if your friendship is all good.

I would not say we had a freindship per se I just was pissed I lost someone to push me in the gym because I was making great progress outside of that I'm not too bothered.

 

[lynxz23]

Sorry I phrased that wrong..

I just meant he may have thought so.

Lol np man in retrospect I think I missed that he might be gay I try not to judge people or make assumptions on their sexuality I just thought he was a touchu feely sort of person so when ever he did I just backed off or when he would greet he would hold my hand in a weird way hard to describe but I always put out my hand to give a fist bump.

 

[rayray]

Come on you work out with this guy 4 or 5 months and did not suspect or figure out he may be gay ? It did'nt cross your mind? No disrespect to you but....

 

[Mercurygirl]

Sounds like a jackass. His hot and cold adolescent behavior is bullshit. I'd ignore him. He says "hi," you shoot back with an emotionless, "hey" and keep with your workout. People who act weird like that and play games I have no patience nor time for.