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I'm in my 50s. I had a gym membership in my mid 20s early 30s -- and went a long time without one until my mid 40s. Most of my memberships ended because the gyms closed, and there weren't any viable alternatives. Times have changed -- there are probably too many gyms in my area now.

But anyone over 40 probably realizes how times how lockerroom behavior has changed - and that's for two reasons: technology and an over all prudishness that seems to have escalated even as porn became more acceptable.

I have never seen anyone sexually aroused in the showers -- and I wouldn't want to. Only on once occasion did I get hard enough to be noticeable -- and I quickly walked away. That was when the very hunky manager of the gym showed up in the locker room and stripped naked in front of me - before putting on a jock strap (it was the 80s -- and it was a racquetball club -- so I guess they had a purpose). The guy was beefy with a huge ass and average to small dick. It's the stripping that gets to me. Seeing a hot guy go from clothed to unclothed for the first time -- hoo boy. Fortunately, that almost never happens these days. I often see someone naked before I even see them clothed -- and when i do see someone -- it's usually just a quick flash -- and I don't stare. So it's not enough to really get the blood flowing.

I've caught a few guys looking at my dick when I was undressed -- it's a little annoying, but only once did I let on that I was annoyed. That was an occasion when I opened my shower -- and a guy who had followed me in was in the shower opposite me (all the other stalls were empty) and staring at me. I think my response was 'Good Lord!'. He's still a member -- and I avoid him when I can.
 

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As sad as it is to say, I would only be annoyed if the guy flaunting a boner in the shower was unattractive lol. If he was hot, I would be thrilled.

I've only ever seen one guy pop a full fledged hardon in the shower at my gym. Early 20s, nicely equipped (a thick 8.5") black guy, but he's one of those shower lurkers that you never see actually working out. He's handsome, but (again, as bad as it is to say) has one of the least attractive physiques of all the young guys at my gym.

In the 3 years I've been going to my gym, I have never caught a boner, even with the communal showers.
 

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Men are men, we get boners, we check out people it’s what we do. As long as you’re not being creepy or making someone uncomfortable then it’s all good, do you.

Agreed. Most guys can't help but checking out their competition. I have no issue talking to someone nude. If it was someone peeping from around the corner then yeah that would be kind of odd.
 

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Men are men, we get boners, we check out people it’s what we do. As long as you’re not being creepy or making someone uncomfortable then it’s all good, do you.
Agreed. Most guys can't help but checking out their competition. I have no issue talking to someone nude. If it was someone peeping from around the corner then yeah that would be kind of odd.
Creepy, peepers cruising … creating discomfort for my exhibitionism:blush::(, and voyeuristic tendency.
 

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I think it’s partly social. Put a guy who usually towel dances amongst other naked guys and he will usually follow suit
That makes sense. It hasn't been my experience at my gym. Most of the guys don't do the towel dance and a lot of them sit in the sauna naked, and you still see quite regularly that one guy with his group of friends who will come into the sauna wearing shorts/leggings while all his friends are in the buff, or will do the towel dance while everyone else is hanging loose and limp.

I think they're more likely to do it when none of their friends are around, and most likely to do it if they're solo in their area of the locker room.
 

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If someone moves into the shower stall next to mine I’m already pretty cued in that they’re wanting to peep. Meh. Sometimes it’s flattering if the person’s cute but most times it’s kinda creepy. I’m not one to hide nudity in the locker room tho
 

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I think it’s partly social. Put a guy who usually towel dances amongst other naked guys and he will usually follow suit

Younger guys seem to enjoy getting naked in front of each other -- but may be shyer around more mature guys. I've seen a kid walk around naked when he though only his pals were around.
 
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I posted about this topic on other threads so I'm adding it here.

If there are any lurkers at my gym, I don't notice them. I come dressed for my workout and I don't shower at the gym. My time inside the locker room is very brief. I will hold a convo with the few guys I know well while he's stripping and even then, there will be a good amount of personal space between us. I'll look to check out his package, make a mental note and that's it. There have been a few dudes I don't know who I would like to see naked. Since I don't shower, I can only see them in passing while they change if my timing is right. I'm not standing around or following them in the locker room.

I was once touched by a dude in the locker room and it wasn't warranted. I was freeballing with grey shorts on and he made a comment and before I could answer and grabbed it. I was more shocked than anything. He apologized more than once after he did it and I told him not to worry about it. I didn't want him to feel bad.

If I'm being honest, how the other dude looks would determine how I would react to the situation.
 

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I've never looked down at a guy's junk while in conversation. It's not a cruising gym -- and if a guy is comfortable being naked -- I don't want to give him a reason not to be.

That said -- if a fully naked guy walks into my view from several feet away -- unless I close my eyes, I'm going to be seeing everything. If there is a hot guy in the showers who has the towel over his head -- I may take a peek. I'm more of an ass man, fortunately. Unless there is a mirror present -- which is often the case in the locker room, but not in the showers, I'll also take a quick look, but I don't want to stare at his ass for two reasons -- don't want to be caught --- and don't want to get excited.
 

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It's a locker room. Guys only. Guys should have no problem getting naked with other guys around. Strip naked, throw your towel over your shoulder and walk NAKED to the showers like you are supposed to. If another guy checks you out, take it as a compliment and acknowledge it.
Amen bro!
 

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I have two gym memberships. These two gyms are very different. One gym has a very modest locker room crowd and it’s a young group. There’s lots of towel dancing and hardly any nudity, even the showers are private with doors. The guys seem like they are embarrassed about their bodies but I’m not sure. It’s not particularly friendly and the members have an attitude about them. I wish I could say it’s a good looking crowd but it’s not.

The second gym is a lot more relaxed with a real mix of guys and they seem to be friendlier. Just about everyone says hello and nudity is no big deal. Hardly anyone wears a towel and there’s a lot of cock on display.

It’s a big place so there are two shower areas both open rooms. One smaller room with eight heads next to the steam / sauna and another larger room with twelve heads both rooms are never crowded and you have plenty of space.

After a workout I’m bumped and the blood is flowing; it’s not uncommon for me to get a semi once I remove my workout gear and since the locker room is never crowded there’s rarely anyone in my vicinity to notice. I’m not shy or modest but don’t normally walk around without a towel in front of me just in case I become completely erect.

I’m one of those guys who get hard easily so once I’m in the shower and the water is beating down on my cock, it sticks straight out. Since this is pretty normal for me, I don’t give it much thought. And yes, if there is soap involved I’m rock hard. Most of the time there’s only one or two guys showering with me so my erection is easily out of view but there are times when it’s difficult to hide. No one seems to care if I’m sporting wood and often guys will strike up conversation. I’ve even noticed other guys get hard. Never has anyone done anything inappropriate but like me they will soap up their cocks and display their package.

I will often stand at the sink and shave naked; no one can actually see anything but my butt so I don’t care. I’ve even had conversations with guys at my locker while getting dressed; cock still hard from the shower and no one seems to care.

I do find it interesting, the contrast between the two gyms and I do prefer the more relaxed one.
My experience is along similar lines and I too have found the contrast between the culture at the different gyms I go to interesting. I go to four gyms: (1) near my work (company-reimbursed membership), (2) on route home in main center of town, (3) a "Y" on route home in a "racially mixed" area, and (4) a basketball court in a community center with a small shower and changing facilities.

I usually go to the company-sponsored gym for a quick work out during lunchtime. Lots of fellow employees. I occasionally drop in there after work. During the day it's pretty "straight", but in the evening things are a little looser, with a fair representation of gays from the local neighborhood. The gym downtown is very "business-oriented" during the day but in the evening, it's heavily gay. Obviously things are a lot more "relaxed" there.

I play basketball once or twice a week at the latter two. The first has great basketball; about two-thirds of the players are usually black, the rest white or Latino. I meet up with the same group of guys at the community center once a week. They're mostly black, except for myself and abother white guy. There's only two enclosed shower stalls with a small changing area. It'a pretty crowded; everyone's almost on top of one another. No one bothers with the shower curtains.

During the day at the gym near work, many do the "towel dance", but for some reason all the guys I work with have no trouble being naked. However, of course, everything's on the up-and-up, although I'm sure we all check each other out. It's kind of hot seeing guys you work with naked like that. When we're back at work, I can never really forget what I've seen at the gym! It's kind of hot thinking they probably can't, either.

In the evening, it's a different story. It's not uncommon to see guys get hard. I also pop a semi fairly often, and occasionally a full hard. I'll admit it's a real turn-on having other guys see me like that. There, and especially at the gym downtown, there's a lot of heavy cruising. I get my fair share. That's not surprising: I'm good-looking and well-built. What is surprising, though, is that I'm hung like a chipmunk; soft, my dick's almost completely buried in my pubic hair, just the head poking out. I'm sure that turns many gays off, but it doesn't seem to bother most, though.

Nothing like that happens at the other two places where I play basketball. However, I've picked up that one of the guys seems definitely attracted, but constrained by the situation. He's a good-looking black guy (with a big dick, natch!). He occasionally says things which have a subtle "hinting" quality, and he occasionally touches me in a supposedly natural way, but with maybe a bit too much emphasis. It's kind of hot, actually, but since I'm not interested in sex, I'm happy to be able to head home right away afterwards. An aside on this: I'm sure that a somewhat older black guy has picked up on this byplay. He doesn't say anything but I've noticed his somewhat amused look a few times. The other guys seem totally oblivious to it all.

At the gym downtown I've had a few guys who've crossed over the line into what some have described as harassment. If it gets annoying, I give them a look and that usually works. A couple times it's taken a few threatening words; I've never seen them back since. When I was younger, I probably wouldn't have; been too flummoxed. Now, I'm a lot more confident about putting a stop to unwanted attention.
 

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