Had a mfm threesome

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Well…I had a mfm threesome and the fella turned out to have an incredibly giant cock.
I’ve always thought I was average (and I really am) and it was if this guy and I were different species.
I was totally shocked and am having a hard time knowing that I introduced this guy to the woman I love.
I know all the things about how it’s not supposed to matter and blah, blah, blah…but holy shitballs it really threw me for a loop dealing with the insecurities and body anxiety.
Anyway…here we go it’s either sink or swim now!
 

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Were you and your woman specifically seeking a large dicked man, or did the guy chosen just-so-happen to be large?

If you and your partner discussed the threesome ahead of time, were in agreement about what would and wouldn't happen, and enjoyed yourselves, then there's probably nothing to worry about at all.
 

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What did your wife/GF/SO day about it?

If it helps, just remember that in real life especially, the other guy's dick always seems bigger than your own. It has to do with the angle with which you view your own vs the other one. So even if he was measurably bigger, possibly not as big a difference as you imagine.
 
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She’s totally supportive and of course was just about as shocked as I was.

She loves me and I satisfy her and all the things.

It’s in my head and my work to do to regain my equilibrium and confidence.
Sounds like you both thought this through and agreed on it.
I think you should just be glad that it all went well. Just because she enjoyed his huge cock, the two of you can still have a great relationship, even if you continue to have a threesome with that man.
Love and sex are not the same thing.
 

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Damn that is so hot man! I love mfm scenerios where there is an unanticipated size difference between the two guys cocks! I had an experience once in college and I was the bigger guy by quite a bit and assumed we’d be the same size! It was so hot and both he and she commented on it multiple times!
 

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Well…I had a mfm threesome and the fella turned out to have an incredibly giant cock.
I’ve always thought I was average (and I really am) and it was if this guy and I were different species.
I was totally shocked and am having a hard time knowing that I introduced this guy to the woman I love.
I know all the things about how it’s not supposed to matter and blah, blah, blah…but holy shitballs it really threw me for a loop dealing with the insecurities and body anxiety.
Anyway…here we go it’s either sink or swim now!
My partner and I live the lifestyle. So we see a lot different shapes and sizes. And everybody is different, you get used to it.
 
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I appreciate all the support…
After overcoming the shock, the body image challenges, insecurities and all, I believe it has created strength and deeper trust in my relationship.
Still, there is occasional shakiness, but overall I’m feeling good.
We’ll likely do it again, and I’m thinking it will be even more positive with a higher level of comfort.
 

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I appreciate all the support…
After overcoming the shock, the body image challenges, insecurities and all, I believe it has created strength and deeper trust in my relationship.
Still, there is occasional shakiness, but overall I’m feeling good.
We’ll likely do it again, and I’m thinking it will be even more positive with a higher level of comfort.
U did one? a threesome.? I think that would be fun..
 

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Well…I had a mfm threesome and the fella turned out to have an incredibly giant cock.
I’ve always thought I was average (and I really am) and it was if this guy and I were different species.
I was totally shocked and am having a hard time knowing that I introduced this guy to the woman I love.
I know all the things about how it’s not supposed to matter and blah, blah, blah…but holy shitballs it really threw me for a loop dealing with the insecurities and body anxiety.
Anyway…here we go it’s either sink or swim now!
Our first we knew the guy was large. As her guy, I wanted her to experience that. This mfm thing is really about doubling her pleasure. If she got off and everyone enjoyed, she does not care about size comparison. Neither should you. Tee it up, without the surprise in size this time.
 

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Man, y'all sound lucky. I asked my wife about trying one. She instantly thinks "oh you want to fuck another woman". I told her that I wanted to see her with two guys totally focused on her. Personally, I fantasize about another guy coming to my woman and me having to step up to the challenge. We have done anal. I just wonder how DP would go.
 

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MFM means the focus is two men pleasing a woman. Focus on that and not the other guy's cock.

If you know how to fuck, that's all that matters. Get naked and enjoy sharing her body and making her cum
 
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Man, y'all sound lucky. I asked my wife about trying one. She instantly thinks "oh you want to fuck another woman". I told her that I wanted to see her with two guys totally focused on her. Personally, I fantasize about another guy coming to my woman and me having to step up to the challenge. We have done anal. I just wonder how DP would go.

That's the first response from most wives when their husband suggests a threesome. One guy on another board said that sooner or later that wife will meet a guy that turns he on and then she will say to her husband, "So, were you really serious about wanting me to fuck other guys?"

Check out r/HotWifeLifestyle on Reddit.
 
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