Had my first gay experience

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  1. DrumGasmic

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    And I hate how it happened.

    I was just driving around trying to forget a shitty birthday when I saw this adult outlet. I looked around and found out they had viewing boothes. Letting curiosity get the best of me, I went back and started watching. After a while I put the curtain up next to me and the guy in the next booth did the same. We watched each other go at it until he left.

    15 minutes later another guy went into the booth across from me (lets call him Derick) and I noticed he kept looking at me. I stood up and noticed he was wanting to watch me so I happily complied. After just looking Derick came over and we took each other's hard ons in each others hands. My hornyness got the best of me and I went in and started sucking him. It only lasted two minutes or so since someone walked by and freaked us out. Derick came back and he finished me quickly and he had to go back since another person walked back.

    After I put my pants back on I left and got the hell out of dodge. I didnt realize what really happened until I was back on the highway, and I was pretty freaked out about it. I did enjoy it but I got scared when my mouth and throat felt funny and I noticed a wierd taste. I freaked and got enough mouthcare products to make a pile of dog crap to smell minty fresh. The back of my mouth feels funny, but I cant tell if its from my encounter with Derick or me yelling at crappy drivers (road rage). I feel stupid since I dont know if he could have had any STD's or not, and I wanted my first time to be with my one friend or a my boyfriend if i ever got one. I loved jerking him but I truly regret blowing him.

    Kinda long of a post but just wanted to post about it. Feel free to post your thoughts, THANKS!
     
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    Really sorry that was your first experience. Yikes. I say that now as I have a boyfriend but 10 years ago I did that a few times myself and its not the safest place to go. I had a friend tell me he caught crabs off a chair/seat/bench at a video booth arcade. I believe him because I got crabs from the bench in the mens locker room at my gym. I never sat down to put my shoes on again after that.
    Good luck and if I were you, I would stay out of those places as they ARE filled with diseases. Just remember you are probably ok. you did not mention that if he came in your mouth....
     
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    Really, stop thinking thinking about the health part of it unless you ACTUALLY experience some weird symptoms.

    Don't be upset by this experience. Though true, you probably shouldn't do it again because there is an inherent risk at these places, the way I see it is that you can't control the parameters of the first time (with exception to cases where you don't consent or are really unsafe). Everyone has an image of an "ideal" first time, but the truth is when it happens, it happens -- you let go of inhibitions, and that in itself is as poetic as anyone could ask for.
     
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    Hey, DG...! Indiscriminate unprotected activity is, to be sure, not at all advisable these days--from now on don't frequent such places. But don't regret the experience itself, first one or not. Just consider it testing the waters, so to speak. You'll ultimately have many memorable and many eminently forgettable encounters...all in a lifetime's sexual activity. DO, however, for both your health and peace of mind, see a doctor for appropriate immediate examinations; he'll instruct you on how long to wait for an HIV test. Good luck, good spirits...and good, enjoyable experiences from now on.
     
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    If it were me, I would go get tested ASAP. Congratulations on your first same-sex experience though. Glad you at least enjoyed the moment.
     
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    Thanks you guys. He didnt ejaculate and I dont think there was any precum either. I did sit with my pants down on one of those booth seats. I'm going to wait a few days to see it I feel any strange symptoms, and if I do suspect anything Ill go to a doctor for thorough testing.
    And I am DEFINITELY NOT going to anyplace like that again. I'll visit adult shops cuz those are just fun. But no more boothes. Or strangers.
     
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    Glad to hear it. Especially the last part. Always use protection unless you know for a fact the other person is STD-free. Can't be too safe these days *shivers*... Good luck!
     
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    I don't think this makes any sense except from the pov that you were scared or uncomfortable with the whole situation. First, I've never heard of someone getting an STD so quickly from one experience. I mean, maybe in a few days you could have had some symtoms but not within a few minutes.

    Also your actual experience was nothing like wanting it to be with someone who is special or a boyfriend. It sounds like a quickie where you didn't have the opportunity to even know who the other guy was. I'm not against casual sex, but I don't think it's realistic to feel that this guy you barely even met would satisfy your needs for a more intense and caring sexual connection.

    Next time try exploring sex with someone who you are attracted to and who you like. It will be a whole lot different. All the best. :smile:
     
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    People are so hyper freaked these days.
    HIV is a rather hard virus to transmit.
    He didn't cum in your mouth, and unless you had bleeding gums you have a higher probability of getting West Nile or Swine Flu from what sounds like a moment of wild abandon. Don't have regrets, they just lead to cancer one day. Live life. Be happy.
     
  10. AM_092

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    No, I remember the first time I sucked someone off... My mouth did feel strange afterwards!

    You'll get use to sucking cock.
     
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    I'm sorry it didn't happen in a better way. I think most people's sexual "firsts" tend to be disappointing, if that makes you feel any better.

    There are a lot more diseases you could catch than HIV. Genital warts for example are responsible for a high proportion of head, throat, and mouth cancers, and it's spread via skin to skin contact... I'm not trying to scare you, I'm just trying to be truthful. You're probably okay, but just in case I would visit a clinic and explain why you're there. I hope that you use a condom from now on!
     
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    I wouldn't be significantly worried about an STD at this point, especially since you had such brief contact. More than anything you probably had dry mouth from nerves. Using mouthwash was wise - I've blown a lot of guys in a bookstore and have always brought along mouthwash and a few alcohol swabs to be on the safe side.

    I don't mean to minimize your concerns, and I am sorry it didn't go smoothly, but our "first times" rarely do.

    My main question to you now is: If you play with another guy again, what do you want out of it? Think really hard about intentions.

    I'm a believer that experience makes you a better lover….having a few more casual experiences could be good learning experiences, but you need to decide the boundaries that feel good to you. Maybe you return to the bookstore but only jack off with other guys. Maybe you put an ad on Craigslist. I would consider allowing yourself a few more careful, safe "sessions" or find a buddy that you can "practice" with, if at all possible. But define your goal and stick with it. The times we get into trouble are the times we wander into situations with an "oh, I'm bored, I dunno what I wanna do" sort of vibe going on.
     
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    Hey, the learning curve for relationships and life take, well a lifetime. This was just a sex stop to unload some of your baggage from childhood. You'll no doubt find the right person and another time that's more to your liking.

    Until then, play safer and have no regrets.
     
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    Just to reassure you, symptoms of STDs take a least a week to manifest and generally speaking, it is unlikely that you would catch anything from giving someone oral.


     
  15. hairyversmuscle

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    Hey, it sounds like you are freaking out a bit. Calm down, see if the weirdness in your throat is still there and if it is, go to the doctor. From what you said you did, it is not too likely you contracted anything.

    As for the experience of your first time, I am afraid it is quite common. My first sexual experience with a guy was VERY similar, and my first time doing anal sex was also bad. They happened about 2 weeks apart and it was enough to make me go back to being straight for 6 months. I met a guy in a vid booth. Back then, there was no internet to hook up on (at least I didn't have a computer or home internet etc... I didn't even have a VCR to rent movies on) So I went to watch porn in an adult store. I was watching straight porn too. There was a glory hole, I looked in and saw really thick cock in the next room. the guy stood up, stuck his dick through the hole and I just instinctively started sucking it. It was so big, i loved it. A few minutes into it I realized what I was doing. I stopped and left, the guy followed me out and he was fucking hideous!

    So... the first time doesn't matter. I think hetero society's version of what the first time should be is over glorified. It is a time for experimenting. After you have some bad encounters, you know what a good encounter is! You know what you like! You who you like it from! It doesn't have to be this "we have been dating for a month now and we had a candle light dinner and I am ready to give him my flower" bullshit stuff that the women get wet pussied over.

    Point is, that was your first time and you will have so many great sexual encounters the rest of your life that you won't even remember that one.
     
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    I agree with everyone else here. You might just be scaring the shit outta yourself, see a doctor if if would help you feel better.

    My first exp wasnt ideal either, but after awhile i happened to find someone wonderful and WHAM, BAM, HOT DAMN!!!!!:eek: :biggrin1: It was amazingly orgasmic! I hope you find something like i did so you can really have some fun without the post-play panic. Good luck and happy hunting :smile:
     
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    your probably fine.

    YOu did the right thing by using the mouth wash. If he didn't cum in your mouth your fine.

    Like others have said, probably dry mouth, or just that you had something foreign in your mouth and may have had a bit of lint from his underwear. All it takes is a hair with a common bacteria to give you a sore throat.

    Don't sweat it.

    Enjoy your first experience good or bad. It's how you learn.
    The next one will be more fun for sure. Relax, enjoy, and stay safe.
     
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