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Wow. I think that is the single most insensitive comment I have read here. Congrats.

It's an ironic assertion though, considering you have demonstrated so thoroughly that the cock most definitely does not make the man.

It is an honest answer, if you have an issue with it take it to PM
 

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It is an honest answer, if you have an issue with it take it to PM

Honesty and insensitivity are not the same thing. You may have started the thread but you do not get to dictate every response. I've said my piece and have no intention of taking it to PM.

As an aside, there are members of the board dealing with cancer at the moment and nothing in the title of the thread to suggest that this is what the thread is about. I clicked on the most recent post in Women's Issues and was faced with Incocknito's post. Thank fuck I don't have cancer - it would've been like a kick in the stomach.
 
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SizeQueenNY, is the question personal to you, or just a random curiosity?

the first are easy answers... shaved head? bald head? depends on head shape. most HOT!
shorn for fashion = bad ass. bald for medical reasons = rock that shit out, girl!

the last two questions. deeper thought process than how i feel about hair.

short answer? as long as she didn't thump me for being a bit over protective/clucky? yeth.
 
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Honesty and insensitivity are not the same thing. You may have started the thread but you do not get to dictate every response. I've said my piece and have no intention of taking it to PM.

As an aside, there are members of the board dealing with cancer at the moment and nothing in the title of the thread to suggest that this is what the thread is about. I clicked on the most recent post in Women's Issues and was faced with Incocknito's post. Thank fuck I don't have cancer - it would've been like a kick in the stomach.

Not really some men are not good with being sensitive and I want straight up answers. No kidding there are members of the board dealing with cancer. The title says hair on a woman it is about hair on a woman
 

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Well, women have hair other places too - vulvas, armpits, faces.

The answer for me is a total yes to all. My wife's best friend had breast cancer and wore a wig during her two bouts of chemo. She was hot and now shows off the fake boobs that she proudly sports. Her husband is my best friend in Europe. I think his wife is hot, he thinks his wife is still hot, and all three of us would do anything for her. And if my wife got cancer, I would be kissing her bald head while holding her hand during chemo, and then going down on her hairless pussy with glee as often as she'd let me.

To Incocknito, I say...wow. Your response is the shallowest and most insensitive response I've seen anywhere on this site. I hope you never get cancer. Karma being what it is, I foresee a loss of attention by women and a very long and lonely demise.
 
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I shaved off all my hair three years ago and went natural (black girl thing it's okay if you don't know what it means) I can tell you that I got WAY more attention with a buzz cut to 3 inches than I did with shoulder length hair. I on occasion wear hair extensions and there is a difference. I get fewer smiles and winks from guys on the subway but the few who do approach me are way more aggressive. I've never owned a wig but I don't look down on them.

I think women are super hot with short/shaved hair. It just exudes confidence and a "f#ck you" attitude.
Cancer would be difficult but love makes a lot of things make sense.
 

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You meet a woman that has cancer, she wears a wig because her hair is shaved since it thinned, the wig is fairly natural and you can only tell if you know wigs, she doesn't talk about her illness at all with you and keeps it private, could you be with someone meeting them in this

So it is hard to poll this since there are some questions related to the same thing-

Would you have sex with a woman that wore a wig

Would you have sex with a woman that shaved her head

Would you have sex with a woman that has cancer

Would you date a woman that has cancer

I'll pretend I'm single when I answer these.

1. and 2. depend on the woman. I need more information than that. But those things are not themselves dealbreakers, if that's the point of your question.

3. Sure.

4. I wouldn't dump someone I was dating if she discovered she had cancer. However, I probably wouldn't commence dating someone with cancer.
 

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I've posted a couple of pictures with a wig and no one knew the difference. So when you think someone has awesome hair- they might just be sporting a wig and you just don't know it.

Thank you but the issue for me is, my hair is very blonde. Wigs in a champagne/beige look pretty fake especially if they are long. I ordered a really good one but my natural hair wavy, even took a bit of a shorter style since it would look more natural but it still looks so fake to me. The week before I bought a black bob that got good reception but it is cheap and not something to wear out for the day. At night I dress creative, feminine, with a little avant garde so I can get away with it then but during the day it is hard to look natural

I always had a lot of hair on my head, it would drive stylists crazy. It was hard when it thinned during the last rounds but I did not have to shave it, just cut it to a shorter style to look even. Then it started falling out more so I wore it in different twist styles. Now I started wearing a wig for few weeks but need to shave my head. I even tried coloring thinking it would look fuller

I asked because during the recurrence, I have been single and dating. I did not have any outward appearance issues so it was easier to save telling someone if I cared for them enough to. I was dating someone and ended things right before my first surgery but he still liked me and we dated again months after. Sex is also important to me and I wanted to understand some of the male perspective of the situation. It hurts less knowing there are people who just can not deal with illness and I am starting to understand

I avoided going out socially for the most part this weekend because of my hair. I missed one of the biggest parties of the year that I was looking forward to. It just felt weird to be around a lot of people looking very different. I have only gone out socially three times in the past two weeks because of it. When I was out friends saw the black bob and loved it but the blonde style looked fake to them too

Now it is the week of shaving my head. It is going to be better than having some hair under a wig that is uneven. It is just hard to decide about walking around with a shaved head, a wig, a wrap, a hat or who knows. I do not want to stop dating either because it is something I enjoy doing. It is the normal things that keep me from being depressed
 

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Thank you but the issue for me is, my hair is very blonde. Wigs in a champagne/beige look pretty fake especially if they are long. I ordered a really good one but my natural hair wavy, even took a bit of a shorter style since it would look more natural but it still looks so fake to me. The week before I bought a black bob that got good reception but it is cheap and not something to wear out for the day. At night I dress creative, feminine, with a little avant garde so I can get away with it then but during the day it is hard to look natural

I always had a lot of hair on my head, it would drive stylists crazy. It was hard when it thinned during the last rounds but I did not have to shave it, just cut it to a shorter style to look even. Then it started falling out more so I wore it in different twist styles. Now I started wearing a wig for few weeks but need to shave my head. I even tried coloring thinking it would look fuller

I asked because during the recurrence, I have been single and dating. I did not have any outward appearance issues so it was easier to save telling someone if I cared for them enough to. I was dating someone and ended things right before my first surgery but he still liked me and we dated again months after. Sex is also important to me and I wanted to understand some of the male perspective of the situation. It hurts less knowing there are people who just can not deal with illness and I am starting to understand

I avoided going out socially for the most part this weekend because of my hair. I missed one of the biggest parties of the year that I was looking forward to. It just felt weird to be around a lot of people looking very different. I have only gone out socially three times in the past two weeks because of it. When I was out friends saw the black bob and loved it but the blonde style looked fake to them too

Now it is the week of shaving my head. It is going to be better than having some hair under a wig that is uneven. It is just hard to decide about walking around with a shaved head, a wig, a wrap, a hat or who knows. I do not want to stop dating either because it is something I enjoy doing. It is the normal things that keep me from being depressed

Hair is so overrated to me. I've had all colors, styles and lengths and even guys who swear by long hair still have complimented me on having super short hair.

Now I embrace not having long hair because it's a part of my persona that helps me stand out. Not everyone has a face to pull it off. When I shaved my hair I was fully expecting the men to be repulsed by it. Instead I couldn't beat them off with a stick. It was such a conversation piece. It showed my confidence and men (and women) were really drawn to that. I relished in the attention I received from it.

But now that I am a Mom, I feel like I can't pull it off without being judged harshly for it. Even though my hair isn't very long now....I still love every inch of my hair I've grown out in the last couple of years. It doesn't grow very fast.

I included a link to a picture of me with a shaved head, how I met my husband who still wants to keep this picture up at work to show off his cute shaved-headed wife. Even though I look nothing like this years later!

But I digress, this is about your hair and feelings of self-worth. I agree when it comes to wigs they often aren't in a natural enough shade. Blonde tends to be too shiny and plastic looking and the hue is either yellow or greyish. I find the same thing with red hair, they are often too eggplant purple, fire truck red or have way too much brown.

I hope you can find something that works well for you. When it comes to wigs, you definitely get what you pay for and if you can go into a wig store and try several one and get a 2nd opinion in the store rather than buying from the internet that is the way to go.

OH i forgot to add even though my hair was shaved I still managed to make it purple LOL

http://www.lpsg.org/attachments/23137d1203549446-do-you-know-how-attractive-purple-jpg
 

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Yeah but you're beautiful, when I try to have shorter hair it does not work. The blondes do look like pastic lol. I was checking wigs on both wigs.com and vogue, watching the vids with blonde hair to get a better idea of the color. It took going through over twenty wig options to find the right color and style. Now that I have the right color, when I can afford a new one I am going to get a style with some bangs since it seemed to work in the bob
 

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How long is your hair now and have you considered hair extensions? Since they are smaller quantities of hair they typically are a better quality for the money. I know it's a pain to think of compared to just putting on an entire wig, but it's food for thought. I have blonde extensions that matched my hair perfectly when I had long blonde hair. I've not found a wig that matched better since.
 

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How long is your hair now and have you considered hair extensions? Since they are smaller quantities of hair they typically are a better quality for the money. I know it's a pain to think of compared to just putting on an entire wig, but it's food for thought. I have blonde extensions that matched my hair perfectly when I had long blonde hair. I've not found a wig that matched better since.

My hair is past my shoulders and I can not have extensions since there is hair coming out
 
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I fall for and have a relationship with a total package.

I can honestly say that it's mental first and physical second. Something like hair length or presence, or physical illness come after the person and their mental or spiritual make up.

Having long hair or short hair or no hair... Who cares. My mom is slowly losing her partner of 20+ years to Alzheiners. Her love transcends all of these traits and is an inspiration to me.

A mature person won't base attraction or love on one trait. Someone looking for a fuck will.
 

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I'm sure almost positive you could get some type of AMAZING extensions. Manly because I'm a black women and at least 80% of black women wear extensions. Beyonce? Wig! The're are lace front wigs that have a more natural look. They are expensive but durable and look like your real hair. you can check out some black beauty salons for better pricing.

What are Lace Wigs
 

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I'm sure almost positive you could get some type of AMAZING extensions. Manly because I'm a black women and at least 80% of black women wear extensions. Beyonce? Wig! The're are lace front wigs that have a more natural look. They are expensive but durable and look like your real hair. you can check out some black beauty salons for better pricing.

What are Lace Wigs

I saw a few lace wigs that were nice and I am looking for a store in the area to see one. Right now I use a double monofilament top so it can be parted different ways. I can not do extensions because you need hair for them to hold
 

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There are glue in tracks of hair. They are less expensive if you use synthetic hair, and become more expensive with Indian human hair being the most expensive.

Here's a youtube video that shows what I mean. full weave alopecia - YouTube

I have heard about glue but not comfortable with it trying to let my hair grow after
 

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I could be in a relationship with someone who was bald or had cancer if I had feelings with them.

I have a hard time imagining myself with a fuck buddy who's undergoing chemo fighting off cancer.
Ok I guess I was just speaking from my point of view which is I would never fuck someone on a whim or as a FB..