Hair or bare?

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by feelingfine, Sep 22, 2006.

  1. feelingfine

    feelingfine New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 21, 2006
    Messages:
    9
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Ireland
    I'm really interested in what you all think of the fuzzy public hair problem.
    I like to think that I'm a neat and tidy trimmer but have been considering recently going the whole hog and having a Hollywood. Who thinks that bald is best or would you rather have a little fuzz?
    If you're brave enough to admit it maybe you even prefer a shag pile rug 70s porn star style.
    A gay work colleague recently fessed up to having had a tear inducing back, sack and crack wax.
    He was loving his new shorn style and said any partners he's had since went crazy for it.
    Made me wonder if I should follow his brave lead take two painkillers and go for a new all off wax.
    Brazillian or Hollywood, hairy or barey what's the verdict people?
     
  2. DC_DEEP

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 13, 2005
    Messages:
    9,029
    Likes Received:
    12
    I'm sure that I'm in the minority, but I prefer something pretty close to natural. A small bit of trimming is OK, but the completely bare look just seems a little too "pedophilic" for me, and keeping it trimmed down to a little "poodle-puff" just look so silly that it ruins the mood.

    I recently saw some of the current Playboy issues, and the little moth landing-strip that most of the models have now is really unattractive.

    Yes, the sasquatch look is not great, but neither is the 6-year-old look.
     
  3. Lordpendragon

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 5, 2004
    Messages:
    3,880
    Likes Received:
    1
    I don't know, there is something strangely erotic about a woman with a hairy back, sack and crack.

    The only way you will find out - is to try it.

    This has been discussed quite a few times, and the consensus is that guys in particular will go down longer on you if it is neat and tidy down there.

    Perhaps you could post a before and after pic and then we can decide.
     
  4. D_Beatrice Bedpan

    D_Beatrice Bedpan New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 13, 2006
    Messages:
    38
    Likes Received:
    0
    all bare for me is a little unusual.. I will eventually get the guts to say 'bald me up scotty'.. but til then a landing strip works fine for me... :wink:

    I do prefer waxing to shaving tho.. makes it soo much smoother! the pain is worth the pleasure lol...
     
  5. Riven650

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 29, 2006
    Messages:
    1,620
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    21
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Norfolk UK
    Back in the 60's and 70's when I were a lad, a bald pussy was a very rare thing - and a huge turn on to me. It wasn't until the late 80's or early 90's that models were seriously getting into pubic hairdressing. It's now gone full circle and there are specialist websites and magazines showing girls with natural hair growth. Isn't that funny:biggrin1: I'm afraid I still REALLY like a bald pussy. And one that has been plucked or waxed is so smooth and lickable. YUMMY! :smile:
     
  6. Is6.5big

    Is6.5big New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 22, 2006
    Messages:
    36
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    ATX. In a fantasy world.
    is the question posed for preference on females or males?....not that it makes a difference to me...I like a little trimmed hair up top on both sexes, but smooth underside is a must.
     
  7. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

    D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Apr 5, 2006
    Messages:
    5,455
    Likes Received:
    14
    Glad someone else picked up on that too..:eek:

    I would like to go natural, think of the time saved but i do perfer to be smooth all over..it feels more sensual and hygenic
     
  8. feelingfine

    feelingfine New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 21, 2006
    Messages:
    9
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Ireland
    It was really open ended if you excuse the pun. I am obviously interested as a women in what gets you men's motors running but as i said earlier I have a gay friend who swears by the clean cut look.
    I've had the landing strip look before but to be honest i thought it looked a bit like Hitlers moustach. I cant see anyone being turned on by that. Im also intested though in what you bi-women and gay men think.
    For this to be an honest straw poll I need all the info I can get so keep it coming.
    If I'm to let some strange woman in a salon put hot wax on my pussy lips and whip it all off I want to be sure I'm doing the right thing.
    When I put it like that though it sounds like a fun day out!
     
  9. TopDudeFtl

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 9, 2004
    Messages:
    1,365
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    155
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Fort Lauderdale, FL
    Verified:
    Photo
    I've always liked a woman bare. Less to get in the way of a good meal. :wink:
     
  10. Gisella

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 18, 2006
    Messages:
    4,872
    Likes Received:
    23
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    USA
    Well..I like the fredom to not have to wax it...I as many here already said find naturale very erotic. And erotic for me is a male that find it too...and if I fancy to landscape it is very sexy to ask him to do it for me...wow..laying there like a she frog (is a slang for pussy in Brasil: perereca...:wink: ) and he as my hair stylist, as braiding or comb it or tammed it....very sexy and cool.:cool:

    I'm in Cleoprata mood today...as wanting to bath in essences and golth milk , honey and etc...:rolleyes:
     
  11. BlackCock85

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 9, 2006
    Messages:
    1,655
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    62
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Boston
    Go BARE! When I watch those classic pornos I've downloaded its always so gross to see those women with them big bushes and hairy ass cracks..........a nice bald pussy is so yummy. I'll eat that beat that and do it again and again........but only if bald. I remember my first time I figured I'd go down in the chick and omg she had the biggest bush I almost puked not to mention the smell that was coming from the situation. so yea BARE FOR CARE! :cool:
     
  12. Lordpendragon

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 5, 2004
    Messages:
    3,880
    Likes Received:
    1
    If you have protruding labia - don't go bare IMO - it looks funny.
     
  13. tallman

    tallman New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 22, 2005
    Messages:
    8
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Hamstead
    I'm in the all natural camp too. There's something about seeing women with a full natural bush. I've never gotten over it yet. Don't get me wrong I have been with women without it but it wasn't for me. To run you're hand through luxurious soft pubic hair is heaven.
     
  14. thirteenbyseven

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 9, 2004
    Messages:
    1,487
    Likes Received:
    109
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Orange County, SoCal
    I'm with you. there is something extremely arousing about a natural blonde woman with a shaggy bush. Maybe it is because you don't expect a soft, feminine, beautiful blonde to be endowed with a furry bush as you would with an Italian woman.
     
  15. B_josiah852

    B_josiah852 New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 21, 2006
    Messages:
    2,025
    Likes Received:
    7
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    In the Rolling Hills
    I love to eat a pussy that is very neatly trimmed short and shaved were need be. More of a turn on than to dive into a thicket of ugly bush.
     
  16. jake7.5

    jake7.5 Member

    Joined:
    Jan 12, 2006
    Messages:
    258
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Texas
    A landing strip looks awsome on a woman and not bad for eating out too, less hair to get in the mouth. But when my wife use to shave it all off (once in a blue moon) and I was clean shaven on my face it made for some wild eating out sex! Although she looked like she was 6 yrs old when she would shave it all off, it was wierd looking at her that way and it made me feel kinda creepy seeing her that way. But she liked it when she would shave it all off and she said it made it more exciting for her that way. As for me she loved it the same for me when I would shave, less hair in the mouth. I like the way it feels too when I am shaved, I like the way it feels when my cock is laying between my balls....lol
     
  17. bigpuss

    bigpuss New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 25, 2006
    Messages:
    6
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    California
    I'd say do what YOU like. A guy won't turn down pussy because of hair, they're all beautiful.
     
  18. socoken

    socoken New Member

    Joined:
    May 12, 2006
    Messages:
    261
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    This question comes up from time to time. In my opinion, its a generational thing. The older guys (30+, no offense) seem to be in the bush camp, while those in their early 20's or so like the shaved better. Im 24, and ive had my fair share of randoms. I would put my bald estimate at 50% or a little better. Of the older women Ive "met", its much, much less. But younger women seem to be more into shaving and such. I gues what I am trying to say is, its the trend, and I am all in favor of it. So, for a woman, it depends on your target audience.
     
  19. smoothnhard75

    smoothnhard75 New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 11, 2006
    Messages:
    3
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Well, I'd have to say that I prefer bare myself. If a girl feels well, too girly and not womanly enough without any pubes at all, then I don't mind a "well manicured lawn", however the lower regoins are DIFINITELY better hair free. When I dine out I do NOT like finding hair in my food, so why would I like a bunch of hair while I'm uh...dining in?

    As for myself, I go completely bare. I've done so for years now and am used to how it looks. It seems cleaner and past eczema/dermatitis breakouts I'd get are next to non-existent (not a common reason to go bare I'd guess, but it seems the trapped sweat would aggrevate whatever causes these breakouts I had). It feels AWESOME when my GF goes down on me and when I'm thrusting my bare balls will sometimes slap against her bare crotch and it feels quite nice too :biggrin1: (even sounds erotic too).

    Also, if you guys want your girls to go bare and she is thinking about it but still reluctant, going bare yourself would definitely be encouragement. Ofcourse, if she categorically rejects the idea and likes her guys hairy then don't bother.

    This is my personal viewpoint--guys and girls BOTH can benefit from going bare in lower regions--bare crotch and balls are worth the maintenance for me :wink:. As for "up front" being very bushy just seems "dirty" to me do try keeping it trimmed. However, if you want to keep some pubes keep the shape "natural looking"--just shorten to a nice"just long enough not to be stubbly" length and if you findthe patch to be too large for your loking then shave it down to a smaller version of the trangle you have now, without making the edgestoo abrupt. Who ever though of the "landing strip" and "Hitler's Moustache" anyways? That crap is stuipid--nobodyisgoingtothink it grew that way on its own so you might as well shave it clean.

    As for those who think it is "paedoplilic" or something...well if you are a petite, flat-chested woman or a skinny man with a small penis then perhaps you might not want to look any more juvenile than you already do. But if you have a nice juicy butt and c cup breasts then you women will NOT suddenly remind guys of 12year old girls. As for guys going bare...well I am a bit taller than average, 210pounds with a muscular build, my penis is on average 5 inches when soft (as big as many men are when erect) and I have a short-trimmed goatee. By the time any girl has gotten to the point to discover that I have no pubic hair at all I think it has been pretty well established that I am NOT a pre-pubescent boy.

    ON a relatednote...for those who go bare has there been any noticeable reaction inlocker rooms or doctors offices or similare situations? I really don't do anything to conceal my penis or the fact that I have no pubic hair in the gym (I go 5 times a week and there are quite a few regulars too). In all the years I've gone totally bare I've NEVER noticed any unusual reaction in the locker room. I don't stare but in passing I've noticed that with young men (up to about 30) that some degree of trimming has become the norm, and I've seen about a half-dozen(?) other visitors at the gym go totally pube free and nobody seems to notice. I think thy must, and maybe once out of the locker room it becomes the topic of discussion with others...who knows. What do others think?

    I might also mention something else--that I seem to suffer form some degree ofwhat I eventaully found out is called "alpoecia areata". I have typical "male pattern baldness" on my head to most observers but what is unusial about me is that it isn't totally limited to my head--I'd get bald spots on other areas of the body too. It seems related to my tendency to have had exzema/dermatitis flareups too (the hair loss seems to generally correspond to where the itchy/inflamed patches would always appear). I started getting noticeable "bald spots" on my legs and some other areas. I lost a little of my pubic hair naturally, but for the most part my eyebrows, pits, beard and pubes were pretty unaffected (even though "sweaty areas" like my pits and groin would ecome inflamed at times). I guess it is because it is a different/thicker kind of hair.

    One day, after recovering from a flareup I decided to just shave all my body hair entirely--I figured if I did get inflamed patches again that the hairs at least wouldn't "tickle" and aggravate itching. I also got a buzz cut the same length as my goatee around that time. I got down to no body hair except for untrimmed pubes and pit hair and thought it looked out of place so I trimmed it down with the clippers. At that point I thought it was too stubbly (as it wason my legs when I clipped them before shaving too)....so I went smooth all over and it felt awesome.

    It took some getting used to taking all that time to shave my whole body every other day but I've had MUCH less problems with itchy flareups (believe me, even the early razor burn andingrown hair problems were a VAST IMPROVEMENT over unbearably itchy flareups!) and well, sex after going smooth was amazing! Plus, I probably use less than half the deodourant, moisturising creams (and ointments when I get the now quite rare itchy patch), sunscreen, etc as I did before, which pretty much offsets any extra cost in razors. The effect on massage therapy sessions was similar to that it had on sex too :wink:

    Just a lot of food for thought on the subject...
     
  20. swtnspycy

    swtnspycy New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 7, 2006
    Messages:
    35
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    6
    Gender:
    Female
    I'm bisexual, and I have to say that I do prefer a woman to be clean shaven. A nicely trimmed patch at the top is sexy (and more womanly in my opinion), but bare is alright too. I just like licking everywhere when I'm down there, and I hate the idea of licking hair. I've always hated the feeling when my own hair gets in my mouth, let alone someone elses.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted