Hair pulling and ass slapping while fucking

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  1. LouisVauban

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    Hate the hair pulling-crap... I usually reach around and yank HARD on his head if someone does this...

    Light slapping is fine... if painful, NO!

    I am nobody's "bitch". People frequently equate "bottom" in gay culture with being "submissive".....

    Am a power bottom. Just because I like to be fucked does not give someone license to think they can dominate and be abusive... those that ask first get high marks... and I always say, "I'll play along... but if you hurt me, trust me, I WILL HURT YOU BACK."
     
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    Hot!
     
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    Right like you get to decide what is stupid or not...
     
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    I can literally come from neck suck, biting, kissing. It's the best!
     
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    Hair pulling is good too, but not too tight, it has to be the force of his hand, and not the sensation of hair pulling, if that makes sense. I also love hands aroudn my throat and that cliche porno arm lock.

    I love everything done to my arse and tits; the hard the better; to have my arse squeezed so tightly and slapped and bitting and then lovingly stroked, fuck its a total turn on; a bit more gentle with tits, but because mine are big they aren't as sensitive as smaller ones so I like my man or woman to have a firm grip. MMMMMMM!

    I hate the whole sub/dom play though, its not about being submissive, its about hard fucking, and when you fuck a guy hard you get a bit rough with him too.
     
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    I don't really get off on hair pulling OR ass slapping, but I don't mind if a guy does it to me as long as he doesn't hurt me. :smile:
     
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    It's not for me, I don't find any kind of slapping a turn on and if someone pulled my hair I'd be quite likely to kick them out of bed so fast they'd make a sonic boom.
     
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    HAHA I can just picture that...
     
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    I pictured someone exploding in midair, flying across her bedroom.
     
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    that im ok with.i had a lady in spokane who liked to wear spurs when we got it on.....that was a little much!:redface:
     
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    I was thinking like... someone slapping her ass and her turning around being like.. "oh no you didn't" then her eyes turning red, and almost fire breathing.. and boot stomping his chest.. so he flies into the wall causing a huge dent.. haha
     
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    I sure do darling,


    it's my body and I get to decide what I like and what I don't and that whole ass slapping thing is stupid and not a turn on; it's actually an irritating turn-off.

    You can have your opinion about it too, but do not insinuate that I cannot have my own opinion on the matter.:tongue:

    XOXOXOXO
     
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    Not my thing at all. No slapping, no biting, none of that.
     
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    i suppose to that women love hair pulling and ass slapping and feeling a little hm,...dirty.!but as far as we don't hurt them in any way and the are turned on enough to accept it.
     
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    A little ass-smacking and hair pulling is quite often part of fucking for me. MrB reads me very well and knows when I'm in the mood or not. He also know exactly how hard is enough and how hard is too hard. - With previous lovers and fuck-buddies it not sos easy. I don't remember ever asking for it - just liking it when it happened. With MrB tho I just shout out if I want it and he's not doing it. I also love having my clit slapped lightly when I'm really truned on - that makes me cum hard.

    Stranguation I'm not into - I have some bondage type gear I like to wear sometimes (collar with wrist cuffs / collar with wrist and ankle cuffs) and a couple times wearing those I've had a little pressure on my throat/windpipe while fucking and I've liked that - but never restricted breathing - that's just not a turn on. I like the illusion of being controlled but the without any actual loss of control.

    And that's what I think hair pulling and slapping is about - if you are turned on by being controlled during sex - be you male or female, some people get off on being their partner's fuck toy. That's my take on it.

    Talking of giving up control; I remember one time with a friend we were fucking by an open window and I sat up on the window ledge so he could kneel and lick my pussy. (big, tall georgian sash window - you get about a metre, 3 to 4 feet, of 'open') It was very early in the morning and I leaned backwards out the window to get some air and enjoy the view - this was in the centre of town, overlooking a leafy canal path but surrounded on other sides by offices and residential. I had my hands on the outside ledge and my ass on the inside ledge and he stood up and start fucking me, kinda lifting me up so my ass was more on the outside ledge. He was thrusting quite hard and my hands started slipping towards the edge of the sill. Now I trusted this guy completely, he was my best friend, and he was very strong and fit - so when he pushed me further back and told me to let go I went with it, I let go and leant back. I was three stories up with a sheer drop down to concrete below me and getting totally fucked. He was holding my hips at first but that was placing pressure on my back so he shifted a little way out the window himself so he had one leg in the room, one knee on the window ledge and he was holding me by one leg with his other hand braced against the sill. He took his time, with long slow strokes, lifting me slightly to get balls deep each stroke - then he sped up a little, I was already on the edge of cumming and he kept me there for a few minutes - then somehow managed to brace with just his legs and started slapping my clit. At this point I totally lost it - I must have woken up half the neighbourhood. That make him cum too and he let he knee drop off the outside of he sill as he pulled my leg back up into - though he had to leave off my clit to grab the window frame to stop us falling. Then he reached down grabbed my hand and we fell back into the room in a panting, sweating heap. A totally amazing fuck...
     
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    This has been really informative and hot I might add. I have some new tools:smile:

    The animal thing: I have posted this before, but if you have ever watched horses being bred its a complete fucking rush. My friend breeds thoroughbreds and he has one of the top sires in the country, a champion. When he fucks a mare there is lots of biting and snorting and nostril flaring.
    I sort of feel the same way when i bite and nibble at my partners neck while fucking her, very animal.

    Interestingly, the champion sire has a small thin cock for a horse. He is a massive, incredibly muscular stallion but light in the crotch. In comparison I ( and most men) look really big compared to him proportionately, and the real monsters on this site would just dwarf him in proportion to body size. We primates are huge in relation to other animals. However he does get paid tens of thousands ( his owners anyways) to breed lots of mares. Its a nice job.

    On the other hand my friend also has a short course *speed* horse that he breeds. Skinny smaller in the shoulders with a gigantic cock, like 3 feet long or more. Watching him impale a mare is quite a sight. Talk about a snarling rutting fuck!
     
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    ~*growl*~

    ...not fair putting images like that into the mind of a woman who's in self-imposed celibacy while healing a pierced tongue...
     
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    Good, so I'm not the only egotistical one... I usually giggle evilly when he looses that control..
     
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