I prefer hairless on both me and TheBF.
He asked me to remove my hair and he said that if I wanted, he'd do the same, to be fair about it. I was really pleased by that.
We both shaved and discovered that we loved having sex with each other with no hair! His penis and balls smelled so much nicer and I loved giving him oral even more than before. The skin to skin contact during sex was amazing! I didn't realize how many sensitive nerves I had that were hidden underneath all that hair! I felt like I had discovered parts of my genitals that I never knew I had. I loved it! TheBF enjoyed going down on me more. And to my surprise, my clothes felt more comfortable. I didn't realize that would be a benefit. :smile:
Sure, he looked bare, which was shocking the first time I saw it, but it only took seeing him bare two or three times before I thought, "It looks really good like that."
Then, it grew in! OUCH! Beard stubble! It was traumatic to both of us. I couldn't have sex with him because it hurt my tender bits very badly during sex, and just walking around with my own beard stubble gave me beard burn on my clitoral hood and labia. It was awful!
We tried waxing, but it just hurt too much. So now we both epilate. Removing the hair from the root means that there's about 3 weeks between groomings and when the hair grows back in it's fine and soft, not sharp and stubbly and scratchy. It's really nice, a huge improvement over shaving.
Or I did epilate. I think I'm going to have to get professionally waxed from now on until the baby is born because I can't see around my tummy any more and I really hurt myself trying to use the epilator with a mirror. I accidentally took off skin instead of just hair. :frown1: