Someone brought this subject up in another section and I felt like elaborating...Grabbing the thigh thing as coming on to you has made me start to think now...I totally thought it was kind of innocent but who knows...This guy that I have been hanging out with for about 3 or 4 months has always been really friendly with me since the first day we met...Always considered him straight and he did have a girlfriend when I first met him but he quickly broke up w/her not too long after we started hanging out...
But Saturday he came over to my loft to hang out for awhile which he never really done before since we usually meet at the bar...Well after being there for awhile he asked me (don't take offense or anything but are you gay because I consider you a really good friend)...I said no and he quickly apologized and said it would not matter either way...He is probably one of the nicest people I have ever met and I know he is not homophobic at all because he has a gay friends that I know he is really good friends with...
That being said when we were out Saturday night and it was pretty late and we had been partying a bit he sat next to me on a couch at this club pretty close and started talking to me and put his hand on my mid thigh...I didn't think anything of it thinking he was just making a point and get my attention...He left his hand on my thigh for a couple of minutes and then I thought it might mean more...Plus he rubbed the top of my head a couple of times...
I mean I have got drunk several times and crashed on his couch and nothing ever seemed weird about that...Like I said I have always considered this guy straight and I am not the type to ask a person if they are gay or not...I rather a person be comfortable enough to tell me...I really like this guy because he is a really truly good and positive person and a good friend and sometimes in the world today that is hard to find...But anyway has anyone ever being in a situation like this or what do you think was happening...
But Saturday he came over to my loft to hang out for awhile which he never really done before since we usually meet at the bar...Well after being there for awhile he asked me (don't take offense or anything but are you gay because I consider you a really good friend)...I said no and he quickly apologized and said it would not matter either way...He is probably one of the nicest people I have ever met and I know he is not homophobic at all because he has a gay friends that I know he is really good friends with...
That being said when we were out Saturday night and it was pretty late and we had been partying a bit he sat next to me on a couch at this club pretty close and started talking to me and put his hand on my mid thigh...I didn't think anything of it thinking he was just making a point and get my attention...He left his hand on my thigh for a couple of minutes and then I thought it might mean more...Plus he rubbed the top of my head a couple of times...
I mean I have got drunk several times and crashed on his couch and nothing ever seemed weird about that...Like I said I have always considered this guy straight and I am not the type to ask a person if they are gay or not...I rather a person be comfortable enough to tell me...I really like this guy because he is a really truly good and positive person and a good friend and sometimes in the world today that is hard to find...But anyway has anyone ever being in a situation like this or what do you think was happening...