Hand Wrapped Around Throat?

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  1. D_JoeCockHer

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    How many women (and men, no discrimination here) liked to be choked during sex or very rough degrading sex?

    Not enough to kill someone, lower someone's standards or class it as rape of course but it seems to be growing into a very favourable and enjoyable act amongst relationships for both sides these days!!
     
  2. dolfette

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    i don't see rough sex as degrading.

    i like to be able to breathe but a hand around my throat feels good. actual chocking is too hard for me but a little pressure adds a buzz to the sex.
     
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    Rough sex, absolutely. As far as a hand wrapped around the throat, I've met some that do like it and some that don't. Fewer are into actual choking, but a hand around the neck gives a good feeling of control
     
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    I like rough sex but I have to admit that "play choking" a woman is something I would never bring up spontaneously...I would need to have her ask me to do it
     
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    Ive been asked to, but didn't like doing it.
     
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    A good friend of mine said the same...Honestly, I would also feel a bit weird about it
     
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    It is never a thing to be asked really but just done! The girl I am with it she likes it really rough....rougher than I naturally feel comfortable with. Deep down it turns me on to really go all out and do as you please with a girl as long as she is down with that thing but its natural instincts kicking in when you actually care about her and afraid to her hurt her!! So I try to think like she has done something to make me angry and I go all out and it can definitely be rewarding :)......but to do this all the time (which I have a feeling she wants) makes me think I would need to continuously hate the girl....hence my reference to 'degrading'
     
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    that's a dangerous line to type here.

    it's a thing to be carefully felt out, testing her reactions to the hand just being there, to gentle pressure, to firmer pressure.

    nobody should think you can ever just assume it's ok.
     
  9. D_JoeCockHer

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    I agree with you without a doubt. I meant its not asked and just done in the heat of the moment and left it there, apologies for not explaining further!! :tongue:
     
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    's cool, doll.
    i guessed that was what you meant, but we must allow for the fact that our words might be read by utter fucking morons :wink:
     
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    Leave no stone unturned :wink:
     
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    im all for rough sex but hands around the throat don't do it for me. Im fear that it may go too far
     
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    L-M-C, you choke me every time I look at your gallery! :biggrin1:
     
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    Anyone see "Lies and Alibis"? Good times gone awry. Course that guy WAS a moron.
     
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    I think only the women who have been sexually abused would have trouble with this ow and if a woman just doesn't trust you because it's pretty intimate.
     
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    as far as i am concerned, i admit that i would always accept begin chocked and degraded during sex from my man. Obviously not from everyone
     
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    No one's asked me, but I would feel a bit uncomfortable doing it too.
     
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    Nope - can't even get my mind around how this would be good...
     
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    Yes Ill happily have my hand wrapped around her throat, not choke her as she's not into that but enough pressure for a firm grip. Enough to make a mark.

    We actually play a game where I having to kiss her lips and she'll trying and fight me off. One hand around her throat and the other holding her jaw/side of head is a good technique so is one hand on the throat the other pulling her hair back.

    She loves it!
     
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    Choking? Not so much, but I often will guide a lover's hand to my throat while sucking him. I find it highly erotic when he can feel my throat expand as he pushes into it.
     
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