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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Bb luv, Aug 14, 2005.

  1. Bb luv

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    I know this is probably gonna be a short thread, but I was wondering if anybody has some techniques to share on how to handjob a cock? And I do mean more than just stroking it while watching porn.
     
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    BBLuv,

    This link may help you. http://www.geocities.com/roccomassaggiatore/
    It is a website featuring erotic massage. What really is a handjob other than a type of massage. I hope this helps in your quest for fulfillment.

    naughty
     
  3. Lex

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    Ask a guy. Men know MUCH more about how to make a cock feel good (especially without hurting it). They've got one that they themselves play with, y'know.
     
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    A gay buddy of mine and I joke that this is more propaganda from the Office of Homo-Land Security. ;) But he swears it's true.

    Not that he's sampled the feminine wares...

    That website Naughty posted might have some good ideas, Bb. I ran across a website awhile back that was just filled with suggestions for varying the techniques with handjobs, but I can't find it now.

    I think, though, that you've come to the right place to ask. I think you'll get some good suggestions and resources.
     
  5. Lex

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    Do you play with your dick, Steve?

    I bet YOU would know 100 times more things to do with my dick than a random woman on the street.

    Now, that is not to say that women can not learn what to do and do it well. Just that it is more intuitive for men.

    TRUST me.

    I've been with several women in my lifetime and very few of them have been experts at attending to the needs of the penis.
     
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    Really, man, it makes sense to me. It does. Only logical as far as familiarity goes.

    And I'm sure we've all had our share of hapless partners (of both genders?) who just couldn't manage to make it happen. :(
     
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    *I'll* come a show ya, Steve. How's that? ;)
     
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    Okay, some advice:

    *The penis feels good, but so do other parts. Usually if a part is a different color than the rest of the skin or is long and skinny, it can be an erogenous zone. But even touching areas which are neither (such as the abdomen or inner thighs) can feel good.
    *Don't go for an orgasm immediately. Tease him. One thing you can do is just massage the shaft. The longer you take, the better it feels.
    *Don't stop as soon as he cums. Continue stroking for a few minutes.

    Beyond that, guys masturbate differently. What works for one guy might do nothing for another guy or even hurt him. You can get books or videos on erotic massage.
     
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    I like what jonb said about not stopping immediately post-orgams. I often find the "cool down" to be just as important.

    Also, every person is very different. A guy knows best what feels good to HIS DICK, but that may or may not apply to the next guy. Yeah, overall I would say that guys would have more of an idea than women do, but I think the person who makes themselves a student of the art would be the best. Ever notice how foreign people who learn English often speak it more beautifully and perfect than those of us who know it by growing up with it? I think the same principle applies. No hard-and-fast rules (pun intended), just that people are individuals, and cocks are too.
     
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    Easy Chief.

    Ive been with a large share of guys too...and sad to say, that alot of them dont have a clue how to do it right.

    So it's not just the ladies.
    Everybody's different, and some guys just have their own monotonous way of "Spanking the Monkey"

    Here:
    http://www.jackinworld.com/expert/01basica.html

    Try the Rosy Palm

    C


     
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    a student of the art I like that, madameZ. Many mundane activities excape the recognition they deserve and masturbation is one of them. Proper handling of the male organ is a requisite for superb pleasure and utmost satisfaction and the rewards are just unbelievably awesome. I would think that your endeavors playing with and stroking the dick would be artful and really gratifying.

    Luke
     
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    OK, clearly I'm just making this worse. :icon_redface:

    Lex, my friend, I appreciate it, I really do, but I'm good. Taking care of business myself these days and that's working out OK.

    Often, to answer your earlier question. Quite often. (Rosy palm....hmmm...)

    Nice to have encouragement from the membership, though. :pals:
     
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    OK, clearly I'm just making this worse. :icon_redface:

    Lex, my friend, I appreciate it, I really do, but I'm good. Taking care of business myself these days and that's working out OK.

    Often, to answer your earlier question. Quite often.

    Nice to have encouragement from the membership, though. :pals:
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    Lex-- of course he likes to take of things himself-- just look at his avatar and he'll show you what he uses
     
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    I was kidding Steve. Sorry if I embarassed you.
     
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    No apologies, man. Don't let my shyness make you feel bad. :hug:

    Loving you just the way you are.

    I'm working on those boundaries, Lex. Good folks like you help.
     
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