Handjobs

Lentils

Expert Member
Joined
May 6, 2018
Posts
69
Media
0
Likes
116
Points
68
Location
London (Greater London, England)
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
What do guys generally think of handjobs?

I get the impression from a lot of men that they think that handjobs are kind of dull, or boring. Or that a handjob is only of any value as a precursor to a BJ or sex. Whereas for me, I think handjobs (when done well) are one of the best and most pleasurable parts of sex. And it's not just the sensation, but also that you can kiss each other at the same time, or suck her tits, or just watch what's happening, and enjoy the swing/jiggle of her tits.

Perhaps it's just that my wife is very good at them? What do others think?
 
1

1078791

Guest
They are great. My wife is so good at them or maybe because it only happens every year or two.
 

socalfreak

Superior Member
Joined
Apr 25, 2012
Posts
3,651
Media
107
Likes
6,128
Points
233
Location
Atlanta (Georgia, United States)
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
My girl absolutely LOVES playing with my dick.
At home.... In the car... Under the table at a restaurant.... Can't keep her hands off it. (I'm not complaining)
She is insanely good at it, too. She can coax noises and writhing out of me that I didn't know were possible. Over and over and over...
And she has plenty of stamina. She's edged me for hours, with a smirk on her face the whole time.
The best part?
It turns her on like crazy.
She gets dripping wet from it.
Many times, after a session, she'll pull her bottoms off and tell me :"you need to clean this up.".
 

HOU_HEADHUNTER

Superior Member
Joined
Jan 22, 2017
Posts
1,768
Media
0
Likes
8,089
Points
233
Location
Houston, Texas, United States of America
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
I think some men get accustomed to their own hand to the point that climaxing becomes a task. Another hand taking over can be great for some because it allows the person receiving the handjob to relax and just enjoy the handjob without having to do the work. It really depends on how well the handjob is done however.
 
1

1305465

Guest
I've had my first handjob like a year or two ago and I kinds like it but hated the fact that I came too quickly.
 

marriedasian

Legendary Member
Joined
Sep 2, 2008
Posts
1,579
Media
1
Likes
2,021
Points
343
Location
Wisconsin (United States)
Sexuality
69% Straight, 31% Gay
Gender
Male
handjobs are awesome if done well and in conjunction with some eye contact and hot dirty talking. i see it as the equivalent to rubbing a woman's clit or fingering her. it's not quite intercourse but very pleasurable and all one-sided to the one receiving. in some situations, it's the only option and it's super hot (like in a darker movie theater, hehe, i could tell you guys some stories).

all the women i've dated have enjoyed giving me a handjob. very few have taken it all the way to me exploding as most will either want to suck it or want it in them once i get very hard.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Elmer Gantry

xXSlateXx

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Feb 16, 2015
Posts
1,128
Media
370
Likes
12,618
Points
433
Age
38
Location
Missouri (United States)
Verification
View
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
I enjoy a great handjob, personally. You get the eye contact and sexy dirty talk going, letting her take control of the speed and grip on your shaft and its quote the pleasureable experience. Perhaps I am biased, as my wife is the only one to have given me such a pleasure, but I greatly enjoy her technique. Handjobs seem sadly underrated these days.
 
1

1069369

Guest
handjobs have little effect on me. I find them too rushed. It’s like I am expected to get it up, or to cum? Fuck expectations. I like to be edged slowly and for hours. Some of my most intense orgasms were from bar girls in South East Asia. They tested me at the bar for hours, sometimes giving my cock bulge the occasional gentle flick or scratch through the jeans. That drives me insane.
 
  • Like
Reactions: OKCLane

lapdog2001

Worshipped Member
Gold
Platinum Gold
Joined
Jun 30, 2004
Posts
5,631
Media
15
Likes
13,187
Points
643
Location
Massachusetts (United States)
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Handjobs and blowjobs have almost always been a precursor to sex with every woman I've been with. I do enjoy when a woman is stroking me as I love the sensation of somebody else's hands giving me pleasure. On the rare occasions where the handjob was going the sex act, I've just laid back and enjoyed it.

A past girlfriend wanted to see me cum (as we always finished inside her pussy) so she gave me a nice sensual handjob/blowjob combination until I was getting close to orgasm. She stroked me until I came, shooting cum straight up into the air 2-3 feet for 4-5 big spurts That surprised her (me too!) so the final few strokes were with my own hand to milk out what cum remained.
 

Razor500

Loved Member
Joined
Oct 21, 2018
Posts
442
Media
0
Likes
578
Points
113
Location
Pittsburgh (Pennsylvania, United States)
Sexuality
60% Gay, 40% Straight
Gender
Male
handjobs have little effect on me. I find them too rushed. It’s like I am expected to get it up, or to cum? Fuck expectations. I like to be edged slowly and for hours. Some of my most intense orgasms were from bar girls in South East Asia. They tested me at the bar for hours, sometimes giving my cock bulge the occasional gentle flick or scratch through the jeans. That drives me insane.
Sounds awesome. I could never last
 
  • Like
Reactions: 1069369

Razor500

Loved Member
Joined
Oct 21, 2018
Posts
442
Media
0
Likes
578
Points
113
Location
Pittsburgh (Pennsylvania, United States)
Sexuality
60% Gay, 40% Straight
Gender
Male
My girl absolutely LOVES playing with my dick.
At home.... In the car... Under the table at a restaurant.... Can't keep her hands off it. (I'm not complaining)
She is insanely good at it, too. She can coax noises and writhing out of me that I didn't know were possible. Over and over and over...
And she has plenty of stamina. She's edged me for hours, with a smirk on her face the whole time.
The best part?
It turns her on like crazy.
She gets dripping wet from it.
Many times, after a session, she'll pull her bottoms off and tell me :"you need to clean this up.".
She should give a class! It seems like all the women in my life had to coaxed into what you are vetting. What gives?