bigmike11: [quote author=benderten2001 link=board=clothing;num=1034391585;start=30#35 date=02/27/03 at 22:09:36]
Well, bigmike11.....you're obviously quite a smart fellow.
You are younger than I am....but it took me....ahem---
let's just say a "few" more years

to come to the same conclusions you have.
The flaccid size-factor you and I are dealing with (I'm the same for the most part or thereabouts on certain days) leaves me to believe you are absolutely right.
I do believe however, in certain clothing choices (business attire mainly), men in our fix may be able to "conceal a bit" with looser-fitting slacks (with pleats if we dare can find them and be at risk being a little out of vogue these days here in the U.S. wearing them!)...but I'm with you....we can't go around being ashamed of having a bulge.
We can attempt to use discretion of course whenever possible. But, there are going to be times when, especially for comfort's sake, there are limits and we may as well accept them.
Being around this board has convinced me...I'm not by myself (afterall!) in what I am experiencing in the "larger" world.
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Benderten, exactly. When I'm at work, I don't wear tight fitting jeans that make my cock obvious. But when I'm at the gym working out, I'm going to wear shorts, and if someone doesn't like that, I can't help it. I've had people give me dirty looks (I'm lucky enough never to have been arrested or harassed like some people on the board), but that's their jealousy or prudishness. I'm not going to wear a burlap sack around my waist just because my dick is huge when it's soft. I think the analogy to big-breasted women is exactly right.
And when I go out to the bar looking to pick up, you can bet I'm going to wear the tightest jeans possible. Sometimes you
do want to flaunt the fact that you're hung
