Happy Ending Massage Signals?

[Welshcross]

I'm booked into a sports/relaxation massage with a local guy, at his business premises, I'm 80% sure I've seen him on gay hookup websites.
I'm absolutely hopeless though with picking up subtle signs that might signal they would be happy to go beyond the basic massage. So any tips on picking up on signals and what to actually look out for beyond the obvious, of paying more attention to my ass, dick while I'm faced down on the massage table.

 

[winesthel945]

The tried and true methods include:

* Be squeaky clean -- freshly showered, wash your nether regions very well, be reasonably well groomed down there (nobody likes rooting through filthy unkempt bushes)
* Be nude on the table
* Tell him that you want attention to your glutes (ass), quads and psoas muscles
* When he's starting to work on your ass, make sure your cock and balls are down and spread your legs a little so that he'd be able to see them while working on your ass
* while he's working on your ass, you can do a little grunting or heavier breathing to show you're getting into it... if you can will yourself to get hard, a hard dick would be a sign too
* you can also arch your back a little to perk up your ass while he's working, that can also be a sign that you're getting into his work on your ass
* on the flip, again trying to get yourself hard can be a good sign too

If he ignores any of that, then you will just have to resign yourself to the fact that he's not going to do that. He'll know what you're trying to do and while he probably won't be offended, he will just ignore it so as to not cause an embarrassing conflict. But if he's into it, then he'll usually indicate it by brushing your balls or dick while he's working, massage closer to your hole, etc., or "accidentally" brushing your dick on the flip to see if the jostling gets you hard, etc.

But also understand that if he's in a spa facility, with anyone else working there, it may be too dangerous for him career-wise to do anything considered "sensual" or "erotic" so be aware of the situation and don't try to get him to do anything that might cause him problems. If you are in a professional venue and you get any sense that he might be up for it, you can ask him if he has a private studio that he works out of... I've had CMTs in high-end 100% professional spas who couldn't do anything remotely sensual, but responded to some quiet grunts and sighs and a little ass-perking by giving me his personal card and saying, "come see me in my private studio."

 

[deleted342096]

I had some happy endings. One time the guy kept touching my balls which kind of gave the signal and another time he kept putting his finger in my ass lol it was weird but kind of exciting

 

[Welshcross]

The tried and true methods include:

* Be squeaky clean -- freshly showered, wash your nether regions very well, be reasonably well groomed down there (nobody likes rooting through filthy unkempt bushes)
* Be nude on the table
* Tell him that you want attention to your glutes (ass), quads and psoas muscles
* When he's starting to work on your ass, make sure your cock and balls are down and spread your legs a little so that he'd be able to see them while working on your ass
* while he's working on your ass, you can do a little grunting or heavier breathing to show you're getting into it... if you can will yourself to get hard, a hard dick would be a sign too
* you can also arch your back a little to perk up your ass while he's working, that can also be a sign that you're getting into his work on your ass
* on the flip, again trying to get yourself hard can be a good sign too

If he ignores any of that, then you will just have to resign yourself to the fact that he's not going to do that. He'll know what you're trying to do and while he probably won't be offended, he will just ignore it so as to not cause an embarrassing conflict. But if he's into it, then he'll usually indicate it by brushing your balls or dick while he's working, massage closer to your hole, etc., or "accidentally" brushing your dick on the flip to see if the jostling gets you hard, etc.

But also understand that if he's in a spa facility, with anyone else working there, it may be too dangerous for him career-wise to do anything considered "sensual" or "erotic" so be aware of the situation and don't try to get him to do anything that might cause him problems. If you are in a professional venue and you get any sense that he might be up for it, you can ask him if he has a private studio that he works out of... I've had CMTs in high-end 100% professional spas who couldn't do anything remotely sensual, but responded to some quiet grunts and sighs and a little ass-perking by giving me his personal card and saying, "come see me in my private studio."

Thanks, I'll keep the tips in mind. It's in his own studio, so that should help. Already mentioned I'd like my gluets/hamstrings looked at in the initial conversation we had. Will probably do the polite thing & ask if naked is fine with them, that way if they say sure, will more than likely be another little hint to what might happen.

 

[hairybubblebum]

Just be flirty. I had a guy that kept teasing me and I told him hey that's not nice I'm not a tease so don't be mean. He said my body is a tease to him.

So I reached over grabbed his dick and started to suck it and told him see I don't tease

 

[mxguy52]

I once got a "subtle" sign when (more than once) he brushed his cock against my hand and arm while on the table.
another time I it started as the same a subtle sign but then it turned explicit when he told me "You can touch me anywhere you want" - it esclated quickly from there

 

[Welshcross]

I once got a "subtle" sign when (more than once) he brushed his cock against my hand and arm while on the table.
another time I it started as the same a subtle sign but then it turned explicit when he told me "You can touch me anywhere you want" - it esclated quickly from there

Did it go beyond the standard wanking? Reading in here some guys have had hand jobs while others have done full on anal sex.

 

[mxguy52]

Did it go beyond the standard wanking? Reading in here some guys have had hand jobs while others have done full on anal sex.

We exchanged blow jobs, I rimmed him, last we came. No anal though. He did taste my cum

 

[His_Sexcellency]

I'm booked into a sports/relaxation massage with a local guy, at his business premises, I'm 80% sure I've seen him on gay hookup websites.
I'm absolutely hopeless though with picking up subtle signs that might signal they would be happy to go beyond the basic massage. So any tips on picking up on signals and what to actually look out for beyond the obvious, of paying more attention to my ass, dick while I'm faced down on the massage table.

how did it go?

 

[Welshcross]

how did it go?

Haven't been yet, have it booked for tomorrow morning, it's driving me nuts waiting though as I'm trying not to wank to much.

 

[Welshcross]

Quick update.

Massage this morning, guy was happy for me to be naked, so made sure my dick was visible, but not in a obvious way, and did a few subtle movements now and again as if I was adjusting position. mentioned about extras in general conversation about clients and looking for a male massage therapist, he said he's not a massage parlour, but does get a lot of enquiries but doesn't offer extras.
Was a good massage though, so will probably return there, you never know he might warm up to doing extras after a few sessions once he knows me more.

 

[kcdave]

Quick update.

Massage this morning, guy was happy for me to be naked, so made sure my dick was visible, but not in a obvious way, and did a few subtle movements now and again as if I was adjusting position. mentioned about extras in general conversation about clients and looking for a male massage therapist, he said he's not a massage parlour, but does get a lot of enquiries but doesn't offer extras.
Was a good massage though, so will probably return there, you never know he might warm up to doing extras after a few sessions once he knows me more.

Can generally tell based on what site you book him off of For the massage.

 

[Welshcross]

Can generally tell based on what site you book him off of For the massage.

Was booked directly with him via a Google search that took me to his own website. I got a feeling he might be more of the attend a few sessions & then we'll talk extras.

 

[Welshcross]

Another update, turns out it is the same guy and is happy to be naked & do extra stuff. Looking at incorporating some rimming etc into the next massage.

 

[Welshcross]

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Usually, you know there won't be any hanky panky if they protect your modesty with a towel. If they leave you uncovered, all signs point to a happy ending. Does he work at a practice or independently?

Works independently, he was happy for me to be naked. Worked out in the end though, as the next massage with them will include a bit of fun.

 

[Jakeyd]

I used to love a happy ending, but was at one 'tantric' masseur once and he had given me a really good session, with lots of penis action. I had not cum and he indicated the session had finished. I was a bit confused and asked whether he would finish me off. He said he could, but why did I not try not cumming and just "float home on the feeling". I agreed and it was so great to feel really relaxed and still in the sexual edge for the rest of the day. Since then I have cum a lot more rarely, even when jerking off I like to end the session still needing to cum.

 

[Welshcross]

I used to love a happy ending, but was at one 'tantric' masseur once and he had given me a really good session, with lots of penis action. I had not cum and he indicated the session had finished. I was a bit confused and asked whether he would finish me off. He said he could, but why did I not try not cumming and just "float home on the feeling". I agreed and it was so great to feel really relaxed and still in the sexual edge for the rest of the day. Since then I have cum a lot more rarely, even when jerking off I like to end the session still needing to cum.

I've had a few hook ups like that where the guy has been more interested in just busting his load, rather than mutual, and really enjoyed the post hook up wank a lot more.

 

[Welshcross]

OK so final update, had another massage.
Was actually better than the last as it was more about relaxing than a sports.
He didn't put any signals out, I did a few at the end we talked a little in general, and I basically ended up giving him a blow job, now while it was a nice cock, as an extras experience, it was rather disappointing, he didn't do anything for me, no rimming, touching me.
I'll probably go back but just as a normal massage, but won't be rushing back.

 

[mfps100]

I've had a massage recently and I need your advice!

First, i lied next to a prepared towel but he covered me fully. At the beginning, when he was working on my legs, the another half of my body was covered. However, later, when he was working on my back and the front parts, he only covered my ass/dick area.
-->So, is initial draping a definite "no-go"? what's correct draping when working on the back itself and torso? Was that anyhow a sign?

Then, when he was working on my back thighs, he was gently brushing my dick (i was getting semi-hard - howeverv in my head, i was trying to Get soft tbh)
--> So, second, how much dick touching is just masagge of legs and when it's getting "flirty"?

And then, when i was on my back and he was working on frontal parts, quite a few times he did this 'long' moves that was going from my public area to the neck.
However, the most arousing was the moment, when he placed his plam gently on my higher thigh, when he was working on another body part at that moment! I was getting semi in that moment, but i was too shy to get rock hard
--> Do you think that there were just relaxing massage moves or rather signs and tries to get me hard?


And, all in all, is that really bad to be hard most of the time during the massage?
I would be hard easily, but I was afraid it might get unpleasant, if I'm hard and he is definitely not doing anything more...

 

[mfps100]

Bump!