i have started getting a massage several times a month. this is a legitimate deep tissue massage targeted at relieving stress that i carry in my shoulders and neck. the massage guy is great at working the stress out of me. if possible, i would really like to somehow have the massage include a "happy ending" - that would make the stress relief complete. i'd be willing to pay extra for the happy ending. but i have no idea how to approach this topic with the massage guy. does anyone have experience with a happy ending massage? how exactly did you make this happen?