Short of hiding most of the details of your private life, how do you deal (or how have you dealt) with harassment and attempts by others to OUT YOU. As an example: First, the phone calls start. The first few at home in the evenings, then later at work, and then your cell. The initial ones are all hang-ups. Then it gets worst because you're paged at the gym during your workouts over the PA that you have a phone call at the front desk. Get there and again, no ones on the other end. The missing piece of the puzzle is that you've never told anyone what gyms you frequent. After a few days of those hang-ups, someone on the other end. Each time its a different voice or at least disguised .We want you out. or Im calling you out. or Come on admit that youre really gay. or something to that effect. Then a few days later, the calls get worse....you're called a whole string of names. In the midst of all this, you start receiving harassing PM's generally by someone who has no posts, stats, etc. and disappears within 48 hrs. All of them are just about as bad if not worse than the phone calls and include what he/they would like to do to me. Moderators seem to be of little help, so help me out if you've been targeted.