Hard Cervix Contact Pleasurable?

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Hi all

Was hoping to get some ladies opinions on this experience I had.

A while back a briefly dated a woman that really loved hard cervix contact. She said she orgasmed that way. It was really pretty amazing because I never had to be careful in any position and I could just pound away and she would come like crazy.

Usually with other partners I had to be gentle with that kind of deep penetration. This led to me not using my whole length or if I did staying deep and gently pushing on the a-spot/cervix/whatever until they were sufficiently warmed up for the harder stuff.

She also needed very little warmup and I could just pretty much go hard with very little warmup or foreplay.

She is the only partner I've been with that liked that kind of very intense deep penetration, but I've only had intercourse with 10 partners.

Is this kind of preference rare? Do any women here enjoy that? Is it painful? She seemed like she had a bit of a pain kink.

Also if you do enjoy it do you need an above average size to get that sensation? She mentioned that it was hard to find guys who could satisfy her properly but this was before I understood I was larger than average so I don't know if that's what she meant because I didn't really follow up in that direction.

I'm curious if we just fit well together and this is rare or if it's pretty common and I haven't found another woman like that just due to a limited number of partners.

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I'm not reading all that.

I had my dead daughter's body removed from mine almost 3 years ago and they had to manually dilate my cervix to accomplish that task. It was the most physically and emotionally painful experience of my life.

I don't have a cervix anymore. Every time I hear this question, takes me right back to that procedure room.

Fuck a cervix fetish.
 
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She probably likes the posterior fornix being stimulated by deep penetration. Cuz the cervix is not that deep. I blame sex ed graphs for the confusion.

If lady friend meant head on cervix impact she is very rare. I have known women who enjoyed the peen brushing/rubbing with the thrust but never one who was into glans to cervix head on collision. The bam!!! can actually cause cramping and not so great feelings.

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She probably likes the posterior fornix being stimulated by deep penetration. Cuz the cervix is not that deep. I blame sex ed graphs for the confusion.

If lady friend meant head on cervix impact she is very rare. I have known women who enjoyed the peen brushing/rubbing with the thrust but never one who was into glans to cervix head on collision. The bam!!! can actually cause cramping and not so great feelings.

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Thanks for your input.

Yeah I am not sure what was really happening in there I was just going off what she said. Could have been posterior or anterior fornix. Like you said usually a direct hit is bad news, but this woman might have had a high pain tolerance. She had a ton of tattoos and really enjoyed rough sex so that's what makes me think it could have been the actual cervix. Sometimes the cervix feels like a hardish ridge along the head/shaft when you brush it, but we only ever had sex with a condom so I couldn't really feel any details.

She told me that's how women came, by "reaching their cervix and keep hitting it" I tried to tell her that hadn't been my experience but she just cut me off and said her friend had a hysterectomy and now the friend couldn't orgasm. So who knows. Seemed pointless to argue if it was working for her. It seems like a hysterectomy would kind of remove the fornices too though no? So kind of gives credence to your theory.

Either way she enjoyed penetration in a way that I haven't ever encountered again.
 

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I'm not reading all that.

I had my dead daughter's body removed from mine almost 3 years ago and they had to manually dilate my cervix to accomplish that task. It was the most physically and emotionally painful experience of my life.

I don't have a cervix anymore. Every time I hear this question, takes me right back to that procedure room.

Fuck a cervix fetish.
I'm sorry for your loss.

My partner had a miscarriage and that was very difficult for both of us.

Though I have to ask. If you aren't going to read a post why reply? Is it therapeutic to talk about it? I know people have different ways of handling that kind of loss so just curious.
 

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I'm sorry for your loss.
Is it therapeutic to talk about it? I know people have different ways of handling that kind of loss so just curious.

No. It's not therapeutic. It fucking hurts every time this stupid question gets asked here.

Like I said, takes me right back to that fucking room. Reliving trauma isn't therapeutic. Not for me
 

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She told me that's how women came, by "reaching their cervix and keep hitting it" I tried to tell her that hadn't been my experience but she just cut me off and said her friend had a hysterectomy and now the friend couldn't orgasm. So who knows. Seemed pointless to argue if it was working for her. It seems like a hysterectomy would kind of remove the fornices too though no? So kind of gives credence to your theory.

Either way she enjoyed penetration in a way that I haven't ever encountered again.

That’s how one woman likes to orgasm…you said she had a thing for pain, and rough. Makes sense…for her.

your own numbers put it at 10 percent. It might be that, objectively, in the entire population of cervix-havers.

intentional bumping of the cervix is a no from me.
 
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No. It's not therapeutic. It fucking hurts every time this stupid question gets asked here.

Like I said, takes me right back to that fucking room. Reliving trauma isn't therapeutic. Not for me
Oh that's a bummer.

Yeh probably best to avoid these kind of questions if they are traumatic.
 

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That’s how one woman likes to orgasm…you said she had a thing for pain, and rough. Makes sense…for her.

your own numbers put it at 10 percent. It might be that, objectively, in the entire population of cervix-havers.

intentional bumping of the cervix is a no from me.
Oh so 1 in 10. That's not too rare then. Thanks for your input!
 
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Maybe just ask ur partner why she likes it instead of asking us ladies who dont know her or wont know why other women like it. But since u only had sex with a few women ur whole life then you can ask them ur stupid ass questions
 
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I'm sorry for your loss.

My partner had a miscarriage and that was very difficult for both of us.
That's where you should have stopped. The levity in your following responses paints you in an awful light.

Could she have not responded to your thread? Yes. Could you have avoided responding to an actively grieving mother in a dismissive and patronising way? Yes, if you have any empathy whatsoever. Real women answer these questions.
 

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No, I do not in and way like my cervix being dick punched. If a guy repeatedly bottoms out and hits my cervix and doesn't stop or care he's doing it, it's game over. Not fun, not cool. Does not feel good.
 

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That's where you should have stopped. The levity in your following responses paints you in an awful light.

Could she have not responded to your thread? Yes. Could you have avoided responding to an actively grieving mother in a dismissive and patronising way? Yes, if you have any empathy whatsoever. Real women answer these questions.
You are right. I often get a little heated when people are agressive to me right out the gate. I'm sorry about that.

@Tight_N_Juicy

I'm sorry for continuing this when it wasn't necessary. My apologies if I made any pain worse for you.
No, I do not in and way like my cervix being dick punched. If a guy repeatedly bottoms out and hits my cervix and doesn't stop or care he's doing it, it's game over. Not fun, not cool. Does not feel good.
Yeah that's been my usual experiences. It seems like it is very rare preference. Thanks for your input