Hard-on while Grinding

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  1. LPMick

    LPMick New Member

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    Hello everyone!

    Im just wondering what your thoughts are on getting an erection while dancing with a woman in a club. Girls these days seem to be quick to grind their asses up against guys cocks. While I have never had an embarrassing issues with this, I still wonder if it is acceptable to get hard from this type of dancing in a club?

    Do girls notice? Do they take note of how big the guys cock is? Do they find it gross?

    Is there a way to let a girl know I have a decent-sized cock through this type of dancing? Thanks :).
     
  2. newbeme33

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    I don't think its a big issue and is often expected. If a girl has her ass to your junk, she's probably not going to be too shocked by a boner. Happens to me all the time.
     
  3. JulieInNaplesFL

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    And this you don't enjoy?????????????????
     
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    Sure, they notice. And you don't like it?
     
  5. TinyPrincess

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    Geez, guys. The sole purpose of grinding is to check out the size of your equipment... ;)
     
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    i get boners all the time. these girls are talented! lol they really know how to work an ass.

    i get embarrassed too but, i just wear tighter boxers whenever i got to a club or something now.

    i'm glad i'm not the only one.
     
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    Why hide it? I just grind harder and let her know what I'm packing
     
  8. deerbologna

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    Too Close by Next


    I wonder if she could tell I'm hard right now, hmm
    Yeah, come on, dance for me baby, ha ha, yeah
    Uh, oh, you feel that? Alright
    Come on, don't stop now
    You done did it, come on, uhh, yeah, alright, hold on
    Baby when we're grinding
    I get so excited
    Ooh, how I like it
    I try but I can't fight it
    Oh, you're dancing real close
    Plus real real slow
    (You know what you're doing, don't you)
    You're making it hard for me

    All the slow songs you requested
    You're dancing like you're naked
    Oh, it's almost like we're sexin' (oh yeah)
    Yeah boo, I like it
    No, I can't deny it
    But I know you can tell
    I'm excited, oh girl

    Step back you're dancin' kinda close
    I feel a little poke comin' through
    On you

    Now girl I know you felt it
    Boo you know I can't help it
    You know what I want to do

    Baby when we're grinding
    I get so excited
    Ooh, how I like it
    I try but I can't fight it
    Oh, you're dancin' real close
    Plus it's real real slow
    (You know what you're doing, don't you)
    You're making it hard for me

    Baby girl's dancing so close
    Ain't a good idea
    Cuz I'mma want you now and here
    The way that you shake it on me
    Makes me want you so bad sexually
    oh girl

    Step back you're dancing kinda close
    I feel a little poke coming through
    On you

    Baby when we're grinding
    I get so excited
    Ooh, how I like it
    I try but I can't fight it
    Oh, you're dancing real close
    Plus it's real real slow
    (You know what you're doing, don't you)
    You're making it hard for me

    Baby when we're grinding
    I get so excited
    Ooh, how I like it
    I try but I can't fight it
    Oh, you're dancing real close
    Plus it's real real slow
    (You know what you're doing, don't you)
    You're making it hard for me

    I love when you shake it like that, ah, ah, ah
    I see that you like it like that, oh, oh, oh
    I love when you shake it like that, ah, ah, ah
    I see that you like it like that, oh, oh, oh

    Well baby I like the way that you grind
    On me

    Baby when we're grinding
    I get so excited
    Ooh, how I like it
    I try but I can't fight it
    Oh, your dancing real close
    Plus it's real real slow
    (You know what you're doing, don't you)
    You're making it hard for me

    I like the way you move
    You're making me want you
    Oh the way you move
    I like those things you do
    But you're a little too close
     
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    They definitely notice, and talk about it the next day haha. It's acceptable.
     
  10. D_Tanya_Hardon

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    If I find a man attractive enough to grind with him, you better believe I'm enthusiastic to feel what he's working with. In fact, if I DON'T feel a boner, I assume he's small and probably won't sleep with him. But I'm a member of an online large penis support group... so I don't think I represent the majority of women.
     
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    The radio edit of that was played at so many of my high school dances it's kinda sad.
     
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    i think i would be worried if you weren't getting erections dancing with broads. i can't tell you how many bars i been to were some broad got my cock hard in my slacks. it's the ones that get you all hard and horny but don't finish you off, got to worry about, bro!...go dance have a good time...they are! clubs are for partying and hooking up.
     
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    i missed a golden opportunity at a club when i was younger where a girl actually poked my hard-on after grinding. i just walked away ashame instead of proudly claiming it and making the next move. i was still a virgin.
     
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    girls at clubs are an anomaly.... so are the guys they showed up with.... for that reason, i dance alone.... if a girl OR guy tries to get in on my groove, i literally take 3 steps away from them and shake my head....
     
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    I was at a New Year's Eve party once, I went with my then estranged wife. I got hot dancing with her and was getting buzzed up. A black coworker with a round firm bubble butt wanted to dance with me on a more contemporary song. I was rock hard! She rubbed her ass up and down repeatedly on my boner. If there wasn't a couple of pieces of fabric separating us, I am sure she would have penetrated herself on my cock. I took it all as fun and thought no more about it. The next time we were all at work talking about the party, she told everyone that I was the one rubbing my cock in her booty!! Oh well, it made them all think for a second! If I know I am going to be dancing, I might wear a jock to the club particularly if I am with family or non-sexual friends. If I am alone, I don't give it a thought.
     
  16. mattsrod7

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    See that's what i don't get. She was there rubbing it on you, if she had a problem she should've backed away and been like oops. But she kept going and then made a deal about it to everyone else.
     
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    happens all the time. makes me just work it harder:)
     
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