When i was in school, I was always the scrawniest kid in class....& painfully shy... tormented by a bully or two, of course. Obviously,I hated it.
So, over the course of several years, I learned how to workout to build my body & went to the best martial arts school in the country. As a result,I looked better & felt better.
My honest assessment of myself right now: I have an average face, with a slightly above- average body.
My girl LOVES the way I look. She is forever looking, feeling, groping , kissing, SMILING.....

Pictures, compliments, the fact that I was able to get (lpsg'er) snarky_succubus to be mine... all those things tell me I must be doing pretty well..
But, somewhere deep in the back of a seldom- used storage area of my brain, the shy, skinny kid still exists. .....
I just do a better job of keeping him locked up.