Late_Bloomer: Basic problem: It takes me far too long to come. I have to work on my girlfriend for about a solid half hour before I do. Considering sex is really painful for her anyhow, she'd much prefer if I came fast and got back to giving her the oral I'm so good at, and honestly I wouldn't mind either. Sometimes I get tired and don't even feel like finishing. Could it be because I'm out of shape? I haven't gotten to the gym in two weeks because of exams and I'm feelin it. I'm just not sure. Any thoughts on lasting too long? I've cut off masturbating and she's gone on a trip for three weeks so maybe when she comes back I'll be a hair trigger, but still!