hard vs. girthy

[B_ScaredLittleBoy]

I've only had one girl say it hurt because it was too hard.

I don't know the veracity of that statement but it seems a bit far fetched? She was a compulsive liar and probably just didn't want to have sex with me :redface:. She's also a whore :tongue:

But I digress...

Rock hard AND girthy is of course the best. I have had sex soft/semi-hard and it isn't fun for either party. Cocks need to be hard to enter/give pleasure. And since most girls can't choose a large girth, I deduce that hardness is the most important factor.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

I'd take rock hard over the larger sizes any day.

Well said and couldn't agree more.
Im not keen on a big girth and if he ain't hard something aint right

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I am 10 1/2 inches long by 7 1/4 circumfrince. It gets so hard it hurts sometimes!
My cock can only be bent when semi erect period!
but I have noticed that sometimes it can become fully engorged with blood, but NOT be anywhere near even considered hard as I am not turned on, and it's totally relaxed, hanging there at full length but flaccid and bendable.
I have some wild looks from sex parteners in the past that see it this way before I get erect and look on in shock seeing it hanging totally flaccid and already at 10 1/2 inches long and laying over in their hands as they play with it to get me erect!
often when I disrobe after work I am that way and as I change it just hangs there pointing straight down, full as if ready, but not erect yet.
I can perform once it is semi erect and enter with it semi erect, but the women I've been with prefer it being at it's "Rock Hard" state and seem disappointed in themselve if they cant get me that way!

So what do they think of the odd color of it?

 

[tripod]

So what do they think of the odd color of it?

Not only that... but how do they deal with the plastic smell and plastic taste? :tongue:

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

What about both lol? im rather girthy i have been told and i have no problem getting rock hard.

 

[EllieP]

Speaking purely from practical experience large and rock hard can be painful. My husband is very "girthy," if that's a word. Don't know his size, but a dollar bill won't go all the way around. He does not get rock hard and it's wonderful. With the help of a little blue pill he achieved rock hard and it was not pleasurable at all. Instead of the comfortable fit that I love it was now a pile driver without mercy. Please don't.

Yes, we've tried it again since, and I was more ready for it, but it still wasn't as pleasurable for me as natural. I do find different stages of hardness for him, though. During oral he gets very hard toward the end. Same for intercourse, and I think that's only natural.

I don't find it as a sign of not finding me sexy. I think he only has so much blood to go around! LOL! After our Viagra night I told him I was worried he would pass out from using all of the blood down there.

 

[D_Hadley Throbottle]

what about hard, like really hard, like ROCK hard... but, uh, not so girthy? hard matters most, right, girls? right??

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

I'd take rock hard over the larger sizes any day.

My ex gf said rock hardness is the most important in a dick irrespective of its size. A dick is a dead meat if it can not get rock hard. According to her big guys do not get hard that often and even if it gets hard, that hardness lasts only for few minutes and in her experience small or average joe gave her better time than big dicks. It sortta gave me insecurities about my hardness and I was doubting myself even when I was rock hard more than 80-90% of the time.

 

[MrD]

According to her big guys do not get hard that often and even if it gets hard, that hardness lasts only for few minutes

This is always true for me, but not being rock hard does not imply being soft. There are many nuances inbetween, and being 90% hard with 6.3 inch girth is, imho a far better thing than being 100% hard with 4.5 inch girth.

 

[PurpleThrillHammer]

Lucky me I'm girthy, and it gets rock hard

Most women i've been with find that a pleasurable combo :biggrin1:

 

[Hardballin]

girls, how about 5.5 vs 6. big difference to ya?

 

[gnawtee]

what about hard, like really hard, like ROCK hard... but, uh, not so girthy? hard matters most, right, girls? right??

lol.. take it easy man.. if they say ur too small, tell em their vaginas too big.

 

[D_Hillary_Clitton]

Hard is nice, but girth makes me cum. Hard girth makes me cum even harder ^_^