Hardcore Size Queen - Natural Instinct or Obsession? Pt 2

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Why are you gals and guys being doubtful of Diamond? She's an intelligent and honest woman, I'm sure she's not exaggerating on her partner's size.

And in particular to the guys, I know she doesn't need defending, but she was actually asking fellow size queens (i.e. girls) for their opinion... and she is in fact quite interested in many other things other than penis size. I know for a fact, for example, that she likes shy/intellectual guys, it's just that cock size is a deal breaker for her.

As a shy/intellectual guy, I would be honoured to be with a woman like Diamond... damn my average-sized cock though! In fact, I'm so impressed and smitten with Diamond that I would jump at the opportunity to even be in a cuckold-type of relationship with her -- and I'm certainly not the submissive or masochistic type. A very recent experience has taught me that emotional loyalty and fidelity is orders of magnitude greater in importance than sexual fidelity. But I digress...
Honored eh... In a chick who only wants you for your cock. What kind of relationship would that be. I think you're very young if you think that is all that should matter in a relationship.. I big fat cock.
 

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This thread brings me to tears with laughter. On so many levels. Hey if you want cock the size of a leg, thats your business. But if a boyfriend and a meaningful relationship is what you want you are likely not to get it if cock size is their admission.

If you just want fuck buddies by all means pull out the measuring tape and send them on their way. But any guy with an ounce of respect for himself would tell you to fuck off if thats all you care about.

Men might be flattered that the ladies ogle over their big cocks but the intelligent and intellectual men find it degrading if you dont care about anything else they have to offer.

So is a huge cock worth it if the guy attached to it is a fucking idiot or a jerk?

What it all comes down to is the seriousness to the relationship. Im all for you measuring the cocks of those who are fully aware thats all you want. They are more than willing to accept the challenge. But if you are out on a regular date and bring this subject up as a way to define who you are, I'm thankful there havent been a lot of men meet the criteria as i hope the last thing you saw was their ass walking out the door!

If a man posted on here that he brought out the measuring tape to be sure a woman was no more than 36-24-36 and had no qualms about dumping her ass on the spot no matter how sexy she was. We'd be all over his case and you know it. I love the double standard here that women are allowed to disintegrate the male ego at will and we are all to stand up and clap for her but if the shoe were on the other foot we'd be calling this man out as a chauvenistic bastard!

It is so refreshing to finally hear a woman acknowledge the double standard. I agree with you 100%.
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That video fucked me up for days when i first saw it here on lpsg.

I just watched it for the first time. It reminds me of the guys who put silicone in their cocks and balls or the women who get those watermelon sized implants-- at some level it goes from fetish to being what seems to be physically unhealthy. I just can't see stretching yourself open with the ginormous dildo regularly being good for your girly bits. I know the vagina is expands and contracts, but there's got to be a point where you do permanent damage. I mean hell, pushing a baby head through once is not only terribly painful, but also requires a bit of healing. Stretching regularly so you can take that giant blue dildo can't be good for you.

I am totally skeeved out by that video. I need to bleach my brain. I'll never look at that shade of blue quite the same again.
 

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Here's a thought. Obsession strikes me as the more likely. Is obsession "natural"? Perhaps it is, as part of the overall spectrum of human behavior.

I want to offer the possibility that the "Hard Core Size Queen" when taken to the furthest extreme may be an expression of a rare type of "body dysmorphia". It may be an unusual form of disturbed body awareness, part of the spectrum of psychological categories that include anorexia nervosa and types of OCD. I'm just guessing, as I have no background in this.

The unusual part here is the requirement for a partner's body fitting the disturbed view of what is desirable, in this case the penis size, to such a degree that pain is welcomed as a prerequisite, and that there is potentially an irresistable rationale to move on if a larger penis is available.

If it was merely size, then fisting could easily rival even the "King" in any scenario, but it has to be a real penis, it seems.

On the positive side, thank goodness there are women and men who want to partner with the freakishly large male. From what I have observed here it can be quite frustrating and difficult for the male who is too large for most people, and who complain here that they seldom actually achieve intercourse or maintain ongoing relationships.

On the negative side, if one of those gigantic guys (who has a difficult time in the first place because of the limitations due to his size) gets chosen or dumped for strictly physical reasons, he must be sorely disappointed to encounter this type of fickleness.


Body Dysmorphic Disorder
 

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My partner knows if I ever find another 12+ or a fatter girth, my hands and mouth will be on that guy’s dick right in front of him. His reaction is ‘go for it’ with encouragement, so I suppose my SQ-ness isn’t ‘over’ only ‘dormant’ just because he is the biggest overall volume penis I have met (yet). The odds of anyone bigger are narrow enough to have made my choice easy once I measured him. He understands that I won’t even tell him he’s the biggest. He’s beyond huge but HC Theory still holds. Wow! :eek: You are still scouting out for bigger? :confused: I thought you were in love with him? If I were to meet a man who met all of my other criteria and had a large penis and knew how to use it and felt the same for me I would stop looking. :smile: I don't consider that settling though. :confused:

So, is HC SQ a state of mind or is it defined by action or willingness to act if fate presents a chance to attempt serious size? In your case I would have to say that HC SQ means willingness to act if fate presents a chance to attempt serious size. Is a mere liking for ‘big’ or ‘large’ cocks truly the mark of a size queen or is there an imperative to be always be looking around the next corner for the huge guys with the bigger set of stats? I can't believe I'm saying this because you know I love you dearly but I think you're obsessed. What you just said makes no sense for a woman who claims to be in love. I think maybe this is just lust for you. However, judging from the pic of your engagement ring in your avatar he is over the moon for you. :frown1:

If you are female and consider yourself a Size Queen and you already ‘settled’ why did you do it? How driven are you all and at what point will you settle, if at all, and say ‘that’s it’?
I clearly am not hardcore like you are. I just need a man to be significantly bigger than average. :biggrin1: When I meet a man that can put up with me and who fullfills my primal needs, who also meets my other criteria I won't consider it settling. I won't continue to look for bigger and better because I will consider myself lucky. :cool:
 

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Diamond, I read your post a few times before answering. Yet each time in the back of my head I was thinking of this particular Aesop's Fable. I honestly am not trying to poke fun at you. I am concerned because you say you are in love and sexually compatible, and that the feeling is mutual. Yet you are still on the prowl for a bigger cock. :wtf1:

Aesop's Fables, translated by Laura Gibbs (2002)
263. THE DOG, THE MEAT AND THE REFLECTION
Perry 133 (Syntipas 28)
A dog seized some meat from the butcher shop and ran away with it until he came to a river. When the dog was crossing the river, he saw the reflection of the meat in the water, and it seemed much larger than the meat he was carrying. He dropped his own piece of meat in order to try to snatch at the reflection. When the reflection disappeared, the dog went to grab the meat he had dropped but he was not able to find it anywhere, since a passing raven had immediately snatched the meat and gobbled it up. The dog lamented his sorry condition and said, 'Woe is me! I foolishly abandoned what I had in order to grab at a phantom, and thus I ended up losing both that phantom and what I had to begin with.'


*This fable is about greedy people who grasp at more than they need.
Note: There is a similar story in the Buddhist Calladhanuggaha-jataka in which a jackal is crossing a stream carrying a piece of meat in his mouth: when he puts down the meat to try to catch some fish, a vulture steals the meat and the jackal ends up with nothing.
In most Judeo-Christian religions there is a line in the marriage vows which asks you both to forsake all others. If you already know you can't do this then you should not be getting married. I did a cut paste of basic protestant wedding vows below highlighting one of the key phrases.

The Celebrant says to the woman

__________, will you have this man to be your husband; to live together in the covenant of marriage? Will you love him, comfort him, honor and keep him, in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all others, be faithful to him as long as you both shall live?
The Woman answers
I will.
The Celebrant says to the man
__________, will you have this woman to be your wife; to live together in the covenant of marriage? Will you love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all others, be faithful to her as long as you both shall live?
The Man answers
I will.
 

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This thread brings me to tears with laughter. On so many levels. Hey if you want cock the size of a leg, thats your business. But if a boyfriend and a meaningful relationship is what you want you are likely not to get it if cock size is their admission.

If you just want fuck buddies by all means pull out the measuring tape and send them on their way. But any guy with an ounce of respect for himself would tell you to fuck off if thats all you care about.

Men might be flattered that the ladies ogle over their big cocks but the intelligent and intellectual men find it degrading if you dont care about anything else they have to offer.

So is a huge cock worth it if the guy attached to it is a fucking idiot or a jerk?

What it all comes down to is the seriousness to the relationship. Im all for you measuring the cocks of those who are fully aware thats all you want. They are more than willing to accept the challenge. But if you are out on a regular date and bring this subject up as a way to define who you are, I'm thankful there havent been a lot of men meet the criteria as i hope the last thing you saw was their ass walking out the door!

If a man posted on here that he brought out the measuring tape to be sure a woman was no more than 36-24-36 and had no qualms about dumping her ass on the spot no matter how sexy she was. We'd be all over his case and you know it. I love the double standard here that women are allowed to disintegrate the male ego at will and we are all to stand up and clap for her but if the shoe were on the other foot we'd be calling this man out as a chauvenistic bastard!


The thud you heard was my jaw hitting the ground. I love it! Bravo to you, Bedhead for writing this!!! I love the honesty! Way to take your fellow females to task! I agree with you completely! Way too many double standards out there. Not to say that men don't, we do, but I've lost count how many times I've had women tell me they don't have double standards and that I'm a pig and a dog, eventhough, these one and same women will LUST over men for their body parts, but if I do over a woman, then I'm a pig and a dog. Thank you for the vindication, Bedhead!
 

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diamond has previously said that as well as a big cock a guy has to be kind, etc etc for her to be interested in him, now it appears she's found this guy but if a bigger cock comes along she'd dump him like a ton of shit. When cock size is the only thing you think about you really need to take a good look at yourself.
 

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diamond has previously said that as well as a big cock a guy has to be kind, etc etc for her to be interested in him, now it appears she's found this guy but if a bigger cock comes along she'd dump him like a ton of shit. When cock size is the only thing you think about you really need to take a good look at yourself.
I've been saying this for months and I've said it in her last thread. She needs some therapy and maybe some medication cause this is all in her head. Again... she also could be fake.. dare I say that or bring that point up again.

By her being fake I mean that her story is fake.. her so called story about deep obsession with abnormally large cocks.
 

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I'm fairly certain (99%) that Diamond is a woman tinky, but much of what she says smacks of living out a fantasy life on the net.
Maybe I worded it wrong. I meant her story is fake.. how she needs these large cocks. I mean I know stuff that disproves otherwise. Either way. Her problem is an obsession, there is no room for natural instinct in that theory of hers.
 

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I think she is fake... making big guys feel inferior? lol for her penis chart? Which she claims that 7-9 inches is average... haha ..

you ever heard that song : Lies lies lies... yea me either.