Harder to cum in fleshlight?

What could be the issue with using my Fleshlight?


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datbroccoliandbooty

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I have had a fleshlight for years now. I can't always use it cause it gets messy and I usually leave it to dry in my bathtub but I have a roommate now and I can't have it lying around anymore. I dusted it off recently when my roomie went home for the holidays.

Now usually when I want to cum I can jerk in like 5 minutes. Sometimes quicker. But when I tried out my Fleshlight at first I had a hard time cumming. I even kinda lost a bit of my hard on while in it. ***By the way in 5.5 inches so I don't even get through the whole sleeve! :(

Is it just cause I'm not used to the feeling? Like I know using my hand exactly how to stroke to cum but with the Fleshlight it just seems so foreign to my cock that it doesn't know WTF to do???

I used to use it when I first bought it and it was a quick and heavy cum at first. Almost too quick lol

Lol any help? Maybe I should go try and fuck something other than my hand for once. A real pussy not a sleeve.
 

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If you're like me, using a fleshlight feels kind of pathetic next to using your hand. The pathetic aspect doesn't affect how quickly I cum, but using and owning one of those feels shameful to me. I've had mine for a couple of years, have used it less than 10 times, and really should just find a way to get rid of it.
 

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I don't think I am ashamed of owning one. I keep it on the down low but that because not everyone would understand. I originally bought it years ago cause I was moving out on my own and wanted to try it. I thought it would be better than my hand. Im gonna give it a while longer before I give up. It cost too much for me to throw out and no one is buying that on Kijiji or something lol....

MORE LUBE IT IS!
 

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I'm not trying to shame you at all. In fact our stories sound similar. I bought it because I was on my own, no one knows I have it (other than people on this site). I thought it would be better than my hand too.

I hope you get more enjoyment out of it than I did.
 

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I was so excited when I finally got mine. But then when I finally tried it, I was disappointed. It didn't feel like much, even with the end screwed on. I tried going faster than normal, but the lube got sticky and it was a hassle. I didn't try it again until about 6 months later when I moved to a new place. It still was a little awkward and sometimes I would lose my hard on- like my dick was protesting. I didn't hate it, but it was something different to use once in a while.
I still thought it looked so hot when other guys used them on cam, and I would use mine if they had one... I thrusted hard and fast and after a while I could feel that I was about to cum. Cumming inside was intense! When I started cumming my head was so sensative that I just thrust as deep as I could and stayed there as my body shook with each pulse of cum... After that- it was AMAZING! It makes me so hard and sometimes even makes me cum twice!
 

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It's a different sensation. It may take a while to get used to it if you haven't used it in a while. I've had several and at first they didn't work well for me. The mouth one was not tight enough and never really did anything for me. The other was tighter and felt better. I replace them every two years or so. No matter how much you clean them, at some point they just get funky.